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NewLeafsFan
March 14th, 2018, 04:11 AM
I recently posted a thread about where I should go next with this girl. Long story short we've been texting and we get along really well. The majority agreed that I should ask to see her again. Tomorrow we are having lunch together. It isn't really a date though. Any advice?
Stronk Serb
March 14th, 2018, 05:13 AM
Be confident and be yourself.
Croconaw
March 14th, 2018, 05:21 AM
Be yourself. Don’t try to be the person you think she wants you to be. That is a huge mistake, and people seem to make that mistake quite frequently. It will just lead to you being unhappy with yourself. She will accept you for who you are.

I would also treat her with respect and be extremely sweet to her. Don’t refer to it as a date with her, but treat it as if it was one. I hope things go well on your lunch together!
StacyD
March 14th, 2018, 11:59 AM
Be honest. Be open. Listen to her. Communicate.
ska8er
March 14th, 2018, 05:49 PM
As others have said-Be Urself.
Also treat her. She may want to
pay her way but a guy always
pays.
NewLeafsFan
March 16th, 2018, 11:47 PM
Lunch went well! I'm going to try to see her often. (At least 3x a week.) After a couple more weeks I'll ask her out more formally.
SethfromMI
March 17th, 2018, 12:43 PM
Lunch went well! I'm going to try to see her often. (At least 3x a week.) After a couple more weeks I'll ask her out more formally.

Sounds like you're on the right track man, good for you :)
jamie_n5
March 17th, 2018, 05:54 PM
Just be yourself and continue to talk and learn more about each other like interests and things. Good luck my friend.
Stronk Serb
March 18th, 2018, 04:56 AM
So... How did it go?
Croconaw
March 19th, 2018, 10:54 PM
Did everything go well?
NewLeafsFan
March 20th, 2018, 03:21 AM
So... How did it go?

Did everything go well?

Everything has gone according to plan so far. One thing that is great is she talks a lot. There is never any awkward silent moments.
Barbara.
March 20th, 2018, 11:55 AM
First off let me start off by saying I have never been in a relationship and I'm not speaking from experience and what is graduate you on your second get together. I am glad everything went well for you and I hope things go well in the future. Just take it slow and be yourself there's no need to rush things alone. If it is meant to be it will happen and its own do time.