How to pull females

[Gvanni]

I’m 14 and am tired of watching porn, I want to do it in real life but I don’t know if I know how to escalate friendships into sexual relationships. I hear about a lot of girls doing it in my school but for some reason I guess I just don’t give that vibe so those kind of females don’t gravitate towards me. What should I do to get some action or attention from those females?

(I swear I’m not a fuckboy)

[Harrier]

Three ways and three ways only. 1. Get a gf and build a relationship of trust and respect and romance and want to share a sexual relationship with her (this is the easiest way since you don't have to have swag, just get a girl to enjoy being with you and date steady). 2. Have confidence and a way about you that girls are drawn to you (this is hard, some people say you are either born with it or not, Idk, I think you can learn it). 3. Be in the right place at the right time (has little or nothing to do with you, but a girl wants sex so bad that it almost doesn't matter who it's with).

[SpicyCurryyy]

No you gotta get a girl. If you really wanna pull you gotta be fearless. Add girls on snap, ask them for streaks and try to have conversations over snap daily. Then chill in person and ask them out. You gotta be aggressive and make it happen otherwise it won’t. Plus, once you get your first girlfriend, other girls will start taking you more seriously. Good luck.

[rioo]

Firstly you need to have protection or condom and understand to using it. I think this is the most important when you start sexualy active.
And also you have to thinking mature, like you have to understanding your sexual partner and keep secret about your sexual activity. No girls want guy to share their nudes pic, respecting her. I've heard lot of this.

[StacyD]

No you gotta get a girl. If you really wanna pull you gotta be fearless. Add girls on snap, ask them for streaks and try to have conversations over snap daily. Then chill in person and ask them out. You gotta be aggressive and make it happen otherwise it won’t. Plus, once you get your first girlfriend, other girls will start taking you more seriously. Good luck.

Lol. Again? You mean be "fearless" and "aggressive" like using anonymous apps to trick a girl into saying how she feels about you because you're too much of a child to go up and ask her face to face? Yeah, really fearless and aggressive junior.

http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=2043419

[BryGuy]

Is say start dating easiest way

[Stronk Serb]

Well, if you want sex so badly, you can always go to a hooker and get it solved.

I mean I lost my virginity when I was 17. If you want to lose it so badly, find a chick who would want to do just that with you. Do not get into relationships if your endgoal is only sex. First you might wait a lot, second, it's not a nice thing to do.

[samuel15]

Don't know where you are from but yellow could work if it exists in your country

[lliam]

(I swear I’m not a fuckboy)

strange, from what I read in your post, I got exactly that impression.


So you're a typical 14 yo, pumped full of hormones and felt horny ass hell.
I would recommand you taking daily twice a cold shower or such.

Especially just give a damn to the rumors that are told about such girls. That's pure bullying. And cause you aren't a fuckboy, you don't wan't do get involved in bullying too.

As others have mentioned, find a girlfriend and hope that you'll have sex with her some day.

The thing is that you don't have a relationship with a girl just for having sex. Who thinks that way, is undeniably a fuckboy.

You may not have sex with your girlfriend for years ... until she feels like being ready for this.

And every boy who takes the relationship with his girlfriend seriously learns to deal with that fact. For reasons of respect and such.


Did I mention cold showers?

[West Coast Sheriff]

Be respectful to girls, be friendly and social with them, a relationship may or may not come in high school, but that is irrelevant. If you have a chemistry with a girl, you''l know and you can see where that goes. Otherwise, I wouldn't worry about being quick to fuck, you'll have time for that later, just learn how to be a kind and social boy. Reward the universe and the universe will reward you.

[Double]

strange, from what I read in your post, I got exactly that impression.


So you're a typical 14 yo, pumped full of hormones and felt horny ass hell.
I would recommand you taking daily twice a cold shower or such.

Especially just give a damn to the rumors that are told about such girls. That's pure bullying. And cause you aren't a fuckboy, you don't wan't do get involved in bullying too.

As others have mentioned, find a girlfriend and hope that you'll have sex with her some day.

The thing is that you don't have a relationship with a girl just for having sex. Who thinks that way, is undeniably a fuckboy.

You may not have sex with your girlfriend for years ... until she feels like being ready for this.

And every boy who takes the relationship with his girlfriend seriously learns to deal with that fact. For reasons of respect and such.


Did I mention cold showers?

This is pretty much everything I was going to say.

You're 14 fam, just chill out. Chances are your hand prob does a better job than most 14 y/o girls anyway.

[SpicyCurryyy]

Lol. Again? You mean be "fearless" and "aggressive" like using anonymous apps to trick a girl into saying how she feels about you because you're too much of a child to go up and ask her face to face? Yeah, really fearless and aggressive junior.

http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=2043419

Yeah well I got to that point through talking to her, and asking her to chill before asking her out. She's my girlfriend and I feel very happy because I got her through confidence.

[Croconaw]

Lol. Again? You mean be "fearless" and "aggressive" like using anonymous apps to trick a girl into saying how she feels about you because you're too much of a child to go up and ask her face to face? Yeah, really fearless and aggressive junior.

http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=2043419I have seen you reply to this guy’s comments more than once. Are you going out of your way to shame him for his technique? Everyone makes mistakes. We were all young at one point. I made a topic I’m ashamed of on this forum but there aren’t members calling me out for it. The truth is, we all make mistakes. I agree that wasn’t the best way to go about it, but people learn and grow up.

[ska8er]

Ur horny chill it a bit. At 14 u have a lot
of time to hit upon a girl. U have to get
to know one and then form a relationship.
Girls don't gravitate towards u cause the
vibes ur giving out might b u r too anxious.
Don't just look for girls just for sex cause
then u Will b considered a "F**kBoy". Form
a love relationship and sex will b special.

[ImagineRepublicCity]

Your best option is to not do it. Firstly, you're probably under the legal age of consent, and while most of the people around you are the same age, it's best to not to have sex but you're just not mature enough.

Secondly, it is very very easy for girls to call for sexual assault or rape. Literally 10 years down the line, someone you messed with could hate you and acuse you, and one acusation can really fuck you up, it's bad.

Thirdly, someone suggested getting a hooker? The legal age for sex is either 16, 18, or 21 depending on your country, and you're 14, also illegal.

Lastly, it's not worth it. As someone which has had sex before, unless it's going to be something you do often, it's not fun as a first time or one off. You won't know what you're doing, you'll be nervous, anxious, worried and it's shitty. Not to mention teen pregnancy, STIs and teenage gossip. Urgh. As someone which was in a situation like so in high school, I recommend you don't bother.

[StacyD]

I have seen you reply to this guy’s comments more than once. Are you going out of your way to shame him for his technique? Everyone makes mistakes. We were all young at one point. I made a topic I’m ashamed of on this forum but there aren’t members calling me out for it. The truth is, we all make mistakes. I agree that wasn’t the best way to go about it, but people learn and grow up.

A total of three responses to this boy. None of which required me to go out of my way. None of which were designed to "shame," though he should be ashamed. He's a coward and a deceitful little fraud. At any rate, my first was to his original post where he bragged about creating an anonymous profile so he could trick a girl into revealing any feelings she may have for him. He actually thought himself so clever and recommended others to try it, which is sickening. I told him then he should act like a man and actually talk to the girl face to face to begin with. My next two responses were to his two separate posts boasting on his (sudden) swagger and game, telling others about being "aggressive" and "fearless" and how it only takes "1 second of courage." ALL of it total and complete bullshit. He never had "1 second of courage." He never did shit. He hid behind an app and tricked an unsuspecting girl before he even had the balls to go up to her and told others they should do the same. That is why I called attention to his cowardice and deceit which he found oh-so-clever. Again, it's sickening and his faux bravado in lecturing others, with all his "fearless," courageous and "aggressive" behavior talk, is a total crock of shit. Now he finally responds to my posts and acts as if he had some game all along and as if his whole app-boasting deception never happened. Nauseating. He's just a little boy and has about as much game as a doorknob. If he is "shamed" by his actions, he has none to blame but himself. And if you want to take up his defense because he can't, is too afraid to do so, or the bullshit spewing from him is just too laughable, feel free to do so. But you'll be talking to yourself from now on because my point has been made, it is clear as day and spot on, and I need not waste any more time on cowardly trash like this bullshitting curry jackass.

[Tim the Enchanter]

(I swear I’m not a fuckboy)

Haha

[Dalcourt]

Since it goes more and more off topic and just leads to arguments, I'm closing this :locked: