Sharing a stall

[nicktheman2003]

Hey guys, I'm not sure if thisis the right section, but I would like some opinions.
Today I went out to dinner with my parents and brother. Before our dinner was served my brother and I had to go pee. We went together. Three urinals were being used and two stalls availble. My brother and I went into the same stall together because there was a line and the stall was open. Did we do something wrong? When we got out two kids started making comments abbout being gay, and their Dad shook his head and said ridiculous. We went back to the table and we told our parents. They both said not to worry about it. Was is wrong? It really pissed me off. I mean it was my brother. What do you guys think?

[TWDjacob]

I really don't like how society judges and labels but that's just life. Personally if I didn't know you were brothers and I just saw you walk out together I would wonder a bit but knowing that, it's not entirely strange. I wouldn't worry about it because it's not like you will see them again

[Stanley02]

Not at all... I go into the same stall with my best friend to pee if the urinals are taken and have also been to poo with him before. It’s normal being close enough to your friend or your brother that you don’t mind them seeing you wee or poo. Ignore the other people... their sad

[ashdaniel]

I think it is a western society thing. I know people and have friend who 9 pee together and poo too. I grew up in different country so when I was a kid back in China. There is no door in the public bathroom. At school, if you or someone else is peeing or pooping. Anyone in the bathroom can see it. Well it is way back in the early 2000s. People is just often see nudity sexually.

[ska8er]

Ur Brothers-Who cares what other
people think and it shouldn't bother
u. The problem with a lot of stuff
today is too many people jump to
conclusions when they don't know
what is fact.

[Fourth]

I wouldn't really mind if it came to that situation that I had to share a cubicle. I hope this incident does not affect your relationship with your bro in any way, don't mind other people as they talk and talk without even knowing the situation.

[SethfromMI]

you were just using the same stall to use the bathroom. don't worry about what other people were saying.

[scott2002]

If you and your brother are, like, 8 and 10 years old, or even 10 and 13 years old, no problem. But if you and your brother are like 13 and 16 years old I think it really would look creepy for both go into one stall together.

[Hermes]

I don't think you did anything wrong.

Peeing is usually considered a private thing, i.e. something you don't do where passing strangers could see, but that does not mean you have to be alone, just that anyone else who is there is comfortable with what is happening. As you and your brother were comfortable, at least at the time, that's all that matters and there's no absolute standard as what people should feel comfortable with, it's mostly about what we get used to as we grow up.

Perhaps the kids who made the comment got the wrong end of the stick and thought one of you had been blowing the other. But we can't spend our lives correcting the misconceptions of random strangers - we'd never have time for anything else. Now you know you have done nothing wrong I think you just have to let that memory fade.

[tdog123]

You're right. It's your brother and what you do with him is your business.
People can be arrogant but I just try my best to not tear their head off.:lol::lol:

[Vegas2933]

While the other people in the bathroom may have gotten the wrong idea, there's nothing wrong with it. Who cares what they think though haha.

[BryGuy]

Who cares what others think. Society is too harsh.

[CoryW]

How old are you and your brother. Just wanted to no

[toby69]

Feel good that you two were making the waiting line go faster. Forget those kids who had no business remarking re your stall sharing.

[ChaseDakoda]

You did nothing wrong. But next time let your brother per and u wait till he is done, then you go in and per while your brother is washing his hands. Ok?

[OldNewGuy]

Here is my thoughts: if i didn’t know you were brothers, i would thibk that it was 2 gay people. I am NOT saying that being gay is bad. I just think there would be no other reason for 2 boys to be in a stall together. Also, I probably wouldn’t have thought you were brothers and the other kids probably didn’t know either which is why they made those comments.

[ska8er]

I remember one time during school I had to use
the urinal and they were all double lined up so I
entered the stall an then another kid I didn't
know comes in and decided to join me for a pee.
Going out he puts his hand on my shoulder. I was
more shocked of the hand thing. Other guys looked
but it was like it went over their heads. When u have
to go severely sometimes u have to make amends I
guess.

In regards to a young brother it is only natural for
an older Bro to join him especially in todays world.

Don't treat this as a story Mods-it falls into the base
of the initial post if not then obliterate.

[ska8er]

Here is my thoughts: if i didn’t know you were brothers, i would thibk that it was 2 gay people. I am NOT saying that being gay is bad. I just think there would be no other reason for 2 boys to be in a stall together. Also, I probably wouldn’t have thought you were brothers and the other kids probably didn’t know either which is why they made those comments.

Would u consider if an older Bro helps his young
Bro use a stall instead of peeing in case of another
situation it b considered "gay". I'm not criticizing u
just wondering what would b considered out of the
norm.

I do agree if a younger Bro has to use a stall the
older Bro could wait outside and wait til he is finished
but still it is none of anyone elses business. :what:

[OldNewGuy]

Would u consider if an older Bro helps his young
Bro use a stall instead of peeing in case of another
situation it b considered "gay". I'm not criticizing u
just wondering what would b considered out of the
norm.

I do agree if a younger Bro has to use a stall the
older Bro could wait outside and wait til he is finished
but still it is none of anyone elses business. :what:

No. Thats not gay at all! What i meant is like, i dont think the people making the comments thought they were brothers and jumped to a conclusion. I probably would have done the same though. I doubt I would have considered that those 2 boys were brothers if I had saw it.

[ska8er]

No. Thats not gay at all! What i meant is like, i dont think the people making the comments thought they were brothers and jumped to a conclusion. I probably would have done the same though. I doubt I would have considered that those 2 boys were brothers if I had saw it.

I think a lot of us jump to conclusions in some
cases. Its natural but to question someone is
bad manners. :confused:

[InternetTeen]

i don't see anything wrong with it. If you're pooing maybe not because it can smell but other than that nothing wrong

[Falcons_11]

You did nothing wrong. But next time let your brother per and u wait till he is done, then you go in and per while your brother is washing his hands. Ok?

IMHO, I think this would have been the best thing to do if all the other stalls were occupied. That being said, what you and your brother did wasn't wrong and people had no right to make stupid remarks out loud about you and your brother peeing together in same stall.

[noah.whynot]

Your dad is right, don't worry about it. Sadly there's people that assume things and if they see something that doesn't fit how they view the world then there's something wrong with it. For the record, I've peed into the same toilet with my brother so you're in good company.

[SilverSM]

I would honestly come to the same conclusion but I wouldn't be blabbing about it. What your family does is your business, don't worry about what other people say. Especially in public places like that, its not like youre going to see them ever again so don't worry about it.

[jamie_n5]

You did absolutely nothing wrong. It's your brother for crying out loud. Even if you masturbate with each other at home there is still nothing wrong with that either. People now seem to be so ridiculously over judgemental and stupid. Your parents were right too. You did nothing wrong.

[nicktheman2003]

How old are you and your brother. Just wanted to no

I'm 14 going to be 15 soon.
My brother just turned 13.
We see each other at home peeing or getting out of the shower, so it was no big thing.
Thank you guys for your support. I feel even better now.

[samuel15]

I mean anything could have happened in there from their point of view, it's all about perspektiv

[Ethan19]

It's normal, guys at uni do it all the time too. It's just easier, means more people can go to the bathroom at the same time.

[ska8er]

It's normal, guys at uni do it all the time too. It's just easier, means more people can go to the bathroom at the same time.

I visited a friend at his dorm at a university here
and there were about 12 guys to a floor living and
they were totally toasted and from all the Jag and
Capt. Morgan they were swilling they had to help
hold each others junk when they had to pee. Any
one going to question it? :what:

[kro814]

People should mind there own business.

[abcdeqwe]

I don't think you did anything wrong, just don't worry about it.

[Tim the Enchanter]

Your dad is right, don't worry about it. Sadly there's people that assume things and if they see something that doesn't fit how they view the world then there's something wrong with it. For the record, I've peed into the same toilet with my brother so you're in good company.

I agree with this guy, some people are just mean and assume things. Just need to block them out.

[ChaseDakoda]

It's ok if your gay,

[SeansLittleBro]

unfortunately in this day people are too quick to make judgements on things...you and your brother are just that BROTHERS....and there was absolutely nothing wrong with what you did...not like you hadn't seen each other naked before or maybe even did the same at home....the wrong party here is the FATHER...not even the kids because all they were doing is parroting what they have been taught...Don't stress over it man

[imanopenbook]

I dont think anythings wrong with that either. My brother and I have done it when we've been out and we've seen some looks too but when you gotta go you gotta go right? Ive done it with some friends and theyre ok with it but others arent so havent done it with them.

who cares what other people think as well but it is hard to ignore comments and looks though.

[ChaseDakoda]

But when your gay, admit it and let it go at that.

[Tylerboy13]

I go in with my cuz he's older we share there nothing wrong but when we pee to gather it gets messy lol

[NewLeafsFan]

I don't think that what you did was okay. I have never seen two brothers (or any two people) share a stall before. I would consider that very unusual.

Try to look at it from the perspective of the restaurant owner. If I owned a restaurant, and two dudes (or two females or a male with a female) went into a stall together, I would show them the door without asking questions. I would not ask what was going on or if the two were related. It's just not appropriate public behaviour.

Clearly many people were offended by what they were witnessing. Take it as a lesson and don't try that again. What you and your brother do at home is your own business, but in public, even if it doesn't seem wrong to you, you have to act differently as other people might not share similar views.

[BluePi]

Dude don't worrie about it, some people are stupid, I've shared stall's with some friends over the years and it didn't feel weird about it, and he's your brother so just don't listen to them just do what you feel comfortable with it.