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CoryW
March 5th, 2018, 11:57 PM
My mom left when I was about 4. Me and my dad are really close. He told me if I ever had a question about sex he would answer it the best he could.
My question is do any of you have a relationship with your dad's where you can talk about sex?

nicktheman2003
March 6th, 2018, 12:38 AM
Yeah there are some things I can talk to my Dad about. I have asked him some questions about sex and puberty and he has always answered them honestly. He has never teased or made fun of me, so yeah I feel comfortable.

swimjoey1
March 6th, 2018, 01:00 AM
My dad is a workaholic so I dont see him too much. He travels a bit as welll. I am more close to my mom. But with sex and stuff we don’t talk much about it. Mom just says if you are gonna have sex you must wear a condom. She said if I need them is he will buy them for me. Still a virgin so no need yet.

loki2000
March 6th, 2018, 06:22 AM
Having lost my Mom at age 10 ..I have a dad that is like my best friend... Were very close and I`m always comfortable talking about sex stuff ..When i started masturbating I had some questions that I was confused about.. and he answered them in a very cool way ..

scott2002
March 6th, 2018, 07:27 AM
My dad and I were very close, especially through my puberty years (11-14), and he answered a lot of questions and concerns I was having in those years especially. But he ended up getting caught doing some rotten things and my mom divorced him. Our relationship now is unfortunately very distanced, like, pretty much I'm disgusted by him now. I sure miss that relationship I did have with him, though. I could ask him anything.

Zachary G
March 6th, 2018, 08:44 AM
I can talk to my dad about some things, but my mom is my main resource for all things sex related pretty much.

mick01
March 6th, 2018, 10:08 AM
I can talk to my dad about sexual stuff in general but not about specific sexual experiences. But my bf stays over a lot or I stay at his house so my dad knows we sleep together.

CoryW
March 6th, 2018, 11:38 AM
I can talk to my dad about sexual stuff in general but not about specific sexual experiences. But my bf stays over a lot or I stay at his house so my dad knows we sleep together.
My dad has no idea that I'm gay and I think it's better this way.

mick01
March 6th, 2018, 12:32 PM
My dad has no idea that I'm gay and I think it's better this way.

It's unfortunate that you have to live like that. But if it would make things bad, I guess you just keep it to yourself until you can move out. I have said before, and probably others have too, that if you're not going to love and accept your child unconditionally, don't have children.

heymynameis
March 6th, 2018, 01:43 PM
well i don't live with my biological dad, or even my step dad (its complicated), so not at all

ska8er
March 6th, 2018, 02:24 PM
My Dad is a doctor so there r a lot of
things that I can ask my Dad about but
I don't get too deep into sexual things
cause he would wonder what the prob is.
Tho I'm sure he would answer it.

Cory there is no need to say anything
about urself to anyone concerning ur
orientation including ur Dad if u feel
they will not b able to understand.
There is a lot of time and if and when
u ever decide u will know when it is the
right time.

jock_buddy10
March 6th, 2018, 08:09 PM
My mom left when I was about 4. Me and my dad are really close. He told me if I ever had a question about sex he would answer it the best he could.
My question is do any of you have a relationship with your dad's where you can talk about sex?

Same here my mom left when we were little and my dads pretty open about answering questions...

lliam
March 6th, 2018, 08:59 PM
I could have, but I learned the most either at school or from personal expierences ... the trial-and-error-way. I survived it so far. Was also a bit more fun as asking Dad, I guess.

jamie_n5
March 6th, 2018, 09:05 PM
I am close to my parents but have never really asked them about sexual things. My mom was the one that gave me the talk so to speak. My folks both flipped out when I told them I was gay but have accepted me eventually. It was a rough few months but things are okay now. My BF and I sleep at each others house all the time. But as far as sexual things especially being gay I don't talk to either of my parents about sex.

INACTIVEchaosphere
March 6th, 2018, 09:31 PM
My dad is too conservative to talk about those things with, he wouldn't approve of me being sexually active. Plus he's not home much.

Dalcourt
March 6th, 2018, 10:35 PM
My Dad is very open when it comes to questions about sexual stuff so I always could ask him whenever I wanted about whatever I wanted.
He even knew I was gay before I fully realised it, so never had an awkward coming out or hide and seek game with him.

SethfromMI
March 6th, 2018, 10:38 PM
I took classes in school so I really never had the real need to ask many questions. I could have asked my dad questions if I needed to have too, but it really never came up. He really just made sure if I was going to have sex to be smart about what I was going to do and to be safe about it.

teenboyNathan
March 6th, 2018, 10:38 PM
It's good to have a relationship with your dad to where you can tall about stuff like sex and puberty. I personally have a good relationship with my dad but don't have the need to ask because I've learned a lot from here, the internet, friends, Health classes, etc. But he said if I ever have any questions to just ask him

ncraw
March 9th, 2018, 12:57 AM
me and my family are super open about it. my dad is a pediatrician and my mom is an emergency nurse so we were raised knowing about our bodies, nothing was off limits.

Ricky.h
March 10th, 2018, 01:33 AM
Considering I've watched porn with my dad we talk about everything on a regular

xXCaptainteemoXx
March 10th, 2018, 01:35 AM
I'm not close with anyone in my family so no, sadly.

TWDjacob
March 11th, 2018, 08:17 AM
I probably could if I wanted to but I personally am uncomfortable with it

Mikebillyboy
April 2nd, 2018, 07:12 AM
Considering I've watched porn with my dad we talk about everything on a regular

Is that not really awkward watching porn with you dad?? Do you just watch it or do you JO together

I feel I could never speak to my dad about anything sex related, the idea just creeps me. We are not that close. I do love him and get on with him and we have a good relationship, just not like that. Think We are to English and reserved.

posts merged, please edit next time ~Endeavour

robin246
April 2nd, 2018, 07:26 AM
My mom left when I was about 4. Me and my dad are really close. He told me if I ever had a question about sex he would answer it the best he could.
My question is do any of you have a relationship with your dad's where you can talk about sex?

firstly im sorry your mum left you so young but u have definitely turned out great man :)

i don't really have a relationship with my dad my brothers do though

i think you are really comfortable with being gay so you shoukd be able to talk to your dad about it cory

CoryW
April 2nd, 2018, 08:36 AM
firstly im sorry your mum left you so young but u have definitely turned out great man :)

i don't really have a relationship with my dad my brothers do though

i think you are really comfortable with being gay so you shoukd be able to talk to your dad about it cory
Thanks , he's knows now. I didn't have to tell him he just asked me one day

Alex_Swim
April 2nd, 2018, 08:53 AM
My mom took off also when i was 5, dad and I are real close. While we don't talk sex much, he sometimes slips in things when we are in the car.

CoryW
April 2nd, 2018, 09:10 AM
My mom took off also when i was 5, dad and I are real close. While we don't talk sex much, he sometimes slips in things when we are in the car.

Sorry about your mom. Mine was a crack adict or at least that's what I was told. Don't be affaid to just ask you dad questions. You'd be surprised what they know.

robin246
April 2nd, 2018, 09:19 AM
Thanks , he's knows now. I didn't have to tell him he just asked me one day

aw thats nice man

Astronomerplanes
April 2nd, 2018, 05:30 PM
Considering I've watched porn with my dad we talk about everything on a regular


Oh wow did you jack off together??

toby69
April 2nd, 2018, 06:25 PM
I also was wondering if they jacked off together. Maybe just got boners.

MasonBA
April 2nd, 2018, 06:44 PM
I talk to my dad about puberty and sex, he's real cool about answering all my questions

Jeff1857
April 5th, 2018, 03:37 PM
Yes. Close with dad. Can ask him anything.

Chrisbm
April 9th, 2018, 05:42 PM
Me and my dad get along great. Even though he does discipline me, he does it out of love

tyler1904
April 10th, 2018, 12:56 AM
I don’t have a close relationship with my dad so I learn everything from the internet or school

azurzg
April 10th, 2018, 09:39 AM
Never discusses anything sexual with my dad.

NewLeafsFan
April 11th, 2018, 03:25 AM
I can't talk to either of my parents about sex. They tried to have the talk with me after I already knew most things about sex. It was really awkward. Since then they have told me that I can ask them anything. That being said, I would not be comfortable doing so.

Take note of this when you have kids of your own. Saying that your kids can ask you stuff and opening the lines of communication are two related but different things.

Svladimere074
April 12th, 2018, 06:35 PM
I have both my mom and dad. However my dad and I aren't close for a number of reasons. But most questions I had my friends answered for me or Sex Education. Other wise I kinda learned things as I went. However if my dad and I were close I feel as awkward as it would be. I would ask him just because of the experience and father point of view.

Brandon618
April 15th, 2018, 06:55 PM
Although we have a pretty good relationship, other than the little he did talk to me after I had the school program nothing has been discussed. I don't think he feels comfortable with the sex word.

Alumni
April 15th, 2018, 09:26 PM
I consider my current relationship with my father to be highly estranged.

The last time I spoke to him in person was when I was 7 years old. We used to write letters to each other, but we just stopped writing to each other.

Its been roughly 4-5 years since we last got in touch.

Wouldn't talk to him about sex though. Doesn't look like the type of guy to approach about that.
I would feel more comfortable talking with my mother about sex than I would with my dad, simply because she's much closer and straight-forward.

Ricky.h
April 27th, 2018, 05:46 AM
Is that not really awkward watching porn with you dad?? Do you just watch it or do you JO together

I feel I could never speak to my dad about anything sex related, the idea just creeps me. We are not that close. I do love him and get on with him and we have a good relationship, just not like that. Think We are to English and reserved.

posts merged, please edit next time ~Endeavour

It's really awkward at all that's ny dad