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EmielBakkur
February 27th, 2018, 03:57 AM
So i have been chatting with this girl for a week fantasising about holidays abroad with her and teasing her etc. So the week after we chatted I decided i had to get to the point ask her out or meet her. She said yes. But I hadnt got a day in mind so the next day I said wouls you like to meet up wednesday? She said she couldn't but would like to do something sometime soon. But then she said i don't know what you want to do. I said i want to get to know you.
Then i said if youre not ready we can always chat a little longer. Then she said haha i would like to meet you. But heres the big part after that she said: Im scared that you might be expecting too much.
Is she trying to friendzone me? Can anyone help? She is confusing the shit out of me and what I can do to fix it etc.
mick01
February 27th, 2018, 09:42 AM
If you really are just wanting to get to know her better, just keep moving ahead with your plans so she can get to know you better too. Hopefully, you're not expecting too much at this point and she'll likely feel that too.
StacyD
February 28th, 2018, 07:29 PM
You've been talking to this girl a week? Maybe two, at most? I don't know what you told her in your texts back and forth, how flirty you were, whatever, but she either got the idea you expect to meet up and fuck or she thinks you're pushing for some type of relationship. After that short of a time, neither of you should be "expecting" anything that hasn't already been made clear. If you're interested, and if she's interested, in seeing what develops between you two, go have coffee or something. Meet up with ZERO expectations. Tell her you have no expectations other than to meet up and just talk and get to know one another better. Assuming that's the truth. If it isn't, just be a fucking man and tell her the truth. If it is, the go for it and see where it leads. She'll be more comfortable as long as you're open and honest.
ska8er
March 1st, 2018, 04:44 PM
Just tell her u just want to get
to know her better. Go easy and
don't rush things.
jamie_n5
March 2nd, 2018, 07:27 PM
She may want to get to know you better and be friends but isn't ready for a serious relationship yet. So take it slow and easy and see how things go.
Ethan19
March 2nd, 2018, 08:51 PM
Nah she's just a bit worried you're expecting too much which is fair enough. Go meet her and see how things go.
BryGuy
March 7th, 2018, 06:04 PM
Maybe it's just nerves.
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