Should I Ask Her Out?

[Anonymous Teenager]

We've only had 1 or 2 conversations in person and on Instagram. It's hard to ever seen her in person because we don't have any classes. Should I ask her out?

[mick01]

I think you should have a few more conversations before you ask her out. It seems kinda fast after just 1 or 2 conversations.

[NewLeafsFan]

Yes, I think that you should ask her out! Just not yet. It's a bit early. Continue talking to her with the intentions of asking her out. Build trust and try to make her laugh. Good luck!

[StacyD]

If it's so hard to see her in person, it probably wouldn't do any good to ask her out anyway. But seriously, I've had more conversations than that with some people at the grocery store and I'd never have that connection where'd I want to ask them out or have them ask me out. Talk to her more. See where it goes. Talk "live" to her however you choose. See what develops. THEN maybe ask her out.

[SethfromMI]

I think you should have a few more conversations before you ask her out. It seems kinda fast after just 1 or 2 conversations.

Agreed, get to know her a little bit more first.

[jamie_n5]

You may want to chat online for a bit longer and then ask her out.

[BryGuy]

I agree get to know her better

[Bluegrass]

Give it a little more time and do it good luck.

[CoryW]

Why not. Take a chance

[Wallky]

I think you should communicate more with her before offering to meet

[Dan_2004]

Talk to her more by either texting her more or arranging to like meet up at lunch or something... I recently got a girlfriend and within 2 days of knowing her and talking to her (through text) she’s my girlfriend...You need to talk to her a lot until she is comfortable showing signs of affection around you first. Me and my girlfriend are deeply in love and it’s just because I always text and talk to her... This will sound so cliché but if you’ve met the right girl that is actually affectionate around you and now just acting like it, after a while it’ll spark and you’ll know when the time is right... for me it was when she was calling me babe and stuff , leaving quite a lot of kisses on the end of texts and opening up more... a day later I asked her out and wham I asked her out

This is more for if you do want to ask her out btw

[PlasmaHam]

I would wait before heading into the romance; 1 or 2 conversations isn't enough foundation for that. It's not like a race anyway, so just go slow with it. Talk to her some more, invite her to some group outings with your friends, just get to know her better. After awhile, once you get to actually know her and if you are still interested in her, then I would ask her out, but not now. Just have some patience.

[Ethan19]

Chat more first

[Devinsoccer]

Yes, I think that you should ask her out! Just not yet. It's a bit early. Continue talking to her with the intentions of asking her out. Build trust and try to make her laugh. Good luck!

Agreed. You don't want to be so quick and weird them out.

[SpicyCurryyy]

Give it a little more time but don’t be afraid to ask her outtttt! All it takes is 1 second of courage to make yourself go up to her. You have physical control over your body, so realize you can override whatever negative thoughts your mind is tryna say. Good luck