Sensitivity Problem?

[ClaireHofmann]

Is it normal for a girl of my age to orgasm in less than 4 minutes of intercourse? When I'm having sex with a boy I almost always orgasm faster than him, usually in just a couple of minutes. I know girls are supposed to last longer in bed but that's just isn't the case with me. I'm usually on my 3rd or 4th orgasm when he has his first. Do I have some kind of sensitivity problem?

[StacyD]

Not a problem as far as I see. Actually, I think it's great. I orgasm pretty fast too and am capable of just going on and on and on with orgasms. Keep doing what you're doing and enjoy!!!

[Brigje]

Is it normal for a girl of my age to orgasm in less than 4 minutes of intercourse? When I'm having sex with a boy I almost always orgasm faster than him, usually in just a couple of minutes. I know girls are supposed to last longer in bed but that's just isn't the case with me. I'm usually on my 3rd or 4th orgasm when he has his first. Do I have some kind of sensitivity problem?

Not a problem as far as I see. Actually, I think it's great. I orgasm pretty fast too and am capable of just going on and on and on with orgasms. Keep doing what you're doing and enjoy!!!

I don't know if it is normal, but it's pretty fast.
It is better this way than the other way around and for as long as you both enjoy it, it's no problem I think.

For me it depends on the foreplay, when that has been very good, I can orgasm fast and multiple as well.

[ClaireHofmann]

I don't know if it is normal, but it's pretty fast.
It is better this way than the other way around and for as long as you both enjoy it, it's no problem I think.

For me it depends on the foreplay, when that has been very good, I can orgasm fast and multiple as well.

I usually get a good amount of foreplay before intercourse but I still orgasm faster than boys even without it.

[Brigje]

I usually get a good amount of foreplay before intercourse but I still orgasm faster than boys even without it.

I wouldn't worry about it, praise yourself lucky and be happy. ;)

[HardCandyGirl]

Is it normal for a girl of my age to orgasm in less than 4 minutes of intercourse? When I'm having sex with a boy I almost always orgasm faster than him, usually in just a couple of minutes. I know girls are supposed to last longer in bed but that's just isn't the case with me. I'm usually on my 3rd or 4th orgasm when he has his first. Do I have some kind of sensitivity problem?

Normal? I don't know. Great? Sure it is.

Do you feel you have a problem? Sometimes I have this "problem", I'd like to have it every time :D

Enjoy ;)

[ClaireHofmann]

Normal? I don't know. Great? Sure it is.

Do you feel you have a problem? Sometimes I have this "problem", I'd like to have it every time :D

Enjoy ;)

Don't get me wrong, I love being able to feel so much pleasure during sex, it's so good. It's just that talking with my girl friends I learned that it's very rare for us to cum so many times before the boy has his orgasm.

I <3 having so many orgasms and I don't want it to change at all. But it's still very unusual.

[PrincessCassie]

Its kind of unusual but like others have said its definitely not a problem. From my experience and what Ive heard, the guy will almost always finish first. But this isnt a bad "problem" to have lol

[ImJulia]

Sounds kinda nice haha

[ClaireHofmann]

Its kind of unusual but like others have said its definitely not a problem. From my experience and what Ive heard, the guy will almost always finish first. But this isnt a bad "problem" to have lol

Yeah, I know it's not a bad problem to have. I love having this problem haha

[Katrinchen]

LOL - yes - you are a really happy girl :* wished i had the same "problem" ;)

[DanielleIU]

I'm so envious! You (and your boy) are very lucky. Your ability to reach such high levels of intensity will help when you choose to experiment more too! Yay for you!

[ClaireHofmann]

I'm so envious! You (and your boy) are very lucky. Your ability to reach such high levels of intensity will help when you choose to experiment more too! Yay for you!

Not exactly my boy because I don't have a boyfriend, but yes, I've been experimenting a lot in bed lately and I always get a lot of pleasure. Having sex with other girls has been really good too.

[LITTLEANGEL19]

Is it normal for a girl of my age to orgasm in less than 4 minutes of intercourse? When I'm having sex with a boy I almost always orgasm faster than him, usually in just a couple of minutes. I know girls are supposed to last longer in bed but that's just isn't the case with me. I'm usually on my 3rd or 4th orgasm when he has his first. Do I have some kind of sensitivity problem?

Hello Claire everyone is different, in the time it takes to orgasm either by sex or masturbation. there is no minimum or maximum to orgasm.
"JUST ENJOY IT" :yes:

[AmyUK]

Sounds pretty good to me! Enjoy it and have fun, I'm kinda jealous :p

[ClaireHofmann]

Omg I’m so jealous. I wish I had that “problem” lol I do cum a lot during sex but never that quickly. It must be great to be pleasured so fast. Does the same happen when you masturbate?

Yes, I cum very fast when masturbating too. My clit is very sensitive.

[Brigje]

Yes, I cum very fast when masturbating too. My clit is very sensitive.

Sensitive to what extent?
Too sensitive to touch directly but okay to touch/rub indirectly?

[Anneki]

Yeah enjoy. There are no rules that girls should last longer than boys. It only means that you area relaxed about having sex. Many girls will be jealous at you.

[ClaireHofmann]

Sensitive to what extent?
Too sensitive to touch directly but okay to touch/rub indirectly?

Me and my partner(s) can touch/rub it directly and it feels good but I start feeling the pleasure way too fast. I know it's a good thing that I am able to cum so easily but sometimes, especially during intercourse I have my orgasms and get exhausted afterwards but I need to wait for my guy to cum, it's very important to me. I wish I could last at least a little longer before cumming.

[Brigje]

Sensitive to what extent?
Too sensitive to touch directly but okay to touch/rub indirectly?

Me and my partner(s) can touch/rub it directly and it feels good but I start feeling the pleasure way too fast. I know it's a good thing that I am able to cum so easily but sometimes, especially during intercourse I have my orgasms and get exhausted afterwards but I need to wait for my guy to cum, it's very important to me. I wish I could last at least a little longer before cumming.

You are still young and will have enough time (and opportunity) to learn to better control your orgasms.

[Candy in CT]

I can take sometime to get there. But once there I can stay there a few more times. But I was with a girl once that lets say had a leg shaking, belly shaking hip lifting good time. I asked her."Did I do OK?"

[Suzy18]

Hi Claire, the first time I give an answer here to your "problem". Everybody is different and when you're getting older you maybe learn to control your body but I'm jealous cos for a lot of girls it takes longer to cum!!! So you can reach a lot of orgasms and are the boys not amazed you're cumming faster than they do?

[Brigje]

I can take sometime to get there. But once there I can stay there a few more times. But I was with a girl once that lets say had a leg shaking, belly shaking hip lifting good time. I asked her."Did I do OK?"

It sounds like you did very well :metal:

[Candy in CT]

It sounds like you did very well :metal:

I'm well trained LOL

[ClaireHofmann]

Hi Claire, the first time I give an answer here to your "problem". Everybody is different and when you're getting older you maybe learn to control your body but I'm jealous cos for a lot of girls it takes longer to cum!!! So you can reach a lot of orgasms and are the boys not amazed you're cumming faster than they do?
Yes, they usually are a little surprised but they love making me cum with their penises, especially when my legs start shaking and they're still inside me haha

[MissMolly]

I've never actually had an orgasm just through intercourse, only through either me playing with my clit during, or him going down on me beforehand. I have to have clitoral stimulation in order to finish.

Jealousy rising.

[ashleigh7]

For me it really depends on how long it's been and....can't really explain it...But how romantic the situation is?? :/ I guess...Maybe just how hot he's making me lol! Sometimes I'm super quick like you....others it's like 10 minutes or so. But sometimes when I m/bate it's takes me like 20 minutes...kinda annoying! :/ But each girl...or boy is different, so I say good for you...enjoy the speedy "O" and multiple "Os" at that. Your man probably enjoys it :)

[ClaireHofmann]

I've never actually had an orgasm just through intercourse, only through either me playing with my clit during, or him going down on me beforehand. I have to have clitoral stimulation in order to finish.

Jealousy rising.
Yes, it's always so nice when they go down on me before intercourse. Most boys I've had sex with loved playing with my clit during penetration which is awesome, especially when they rub it with their penises. It always feels soooo good.

[Jordan99]

Is it normal for a girl of my age to orgasm in less than 4 minutes of intercourse? When I'm having sex with a boy I almost always orgasm faster than him, usually in just a couple of minutes. I know girls are supposed to last longer in bed but that's just isn't the case with me. I'm usually on my 3rd or 4th orgasm when he has his first. Do I have some kind of sensitivity problem?

Consider yourself lucky....VERY LUCKY!!!

[Candy in CT]

I'm not the problem, I have found so many guys around my age are what I call 6 pumps and a dump. That is why I like older guys.

[Kiki03]

I'm not the problem, I have found so many guys around my age are what I call 6 pumps and a dump. That is why I like older guys.

Same here

[ClaireHofmann]

I'm not the problem, I have found so many guys around my age are what I call 6 pumps and a dump. That is why I like older guys.
My girl friends tell me the same thing. Is it really true? I've only had sex with older guys a couple of times so I can't say for sure. I mostly have sex with boys of my age and it's true that they don't last very long but neither do I, they always make me cum haha

[Brigje]

My girl friends tell me the same thing. Is it really true? I've only had sex with older guys a couple of times so I can't say for sure. I mostly have sex with boys of my age and it's true that they don't last very long but neither do I, they always make me cum haha

I don’t want to generalize, but in general boy’s your age are usually so strained and “happy” to be with a willing girl that they can’t hold it for long. To my experience they have better control over their urges when older and/or more experienced.

[ClaireHofmann]

I don’t want to generalize, but in general boy’s your age are usually so strained and “happy” to be with a willing girl that they can’t hold it for long. To my experience they have better control over their urges when older and/or more experienced.
Yes, that is absolutely true. They are always so happy and excited to have sex with us. It's not always that way with me.

[Candy in CT]

When I lived in CT a girl in 8th gave her BF a viagra pill she took from her grandfather. She had him take it so he could last longer. He did but then it would not go away. and he did not pee for 10 hours. He had it taken care of but from what we heard he could not get a boner for a month after. Older guys might need help, younger guys sure don't.

[ClaireHofmann]

When I lived in CT a girl in 8th gave her BF a viagra pill she took from her grandfather. She had him take it so he could last longer. He did but then it would not go away. and he did not pee for 10 hours. He had it taken care of but from what we heard he could not get a boner for a month after. Older guys might need help, younger guys sure don't.
Oh no, that sounds awful. Poor boy. She shouldn't have given it to him without knowing all the side effects. He must have felt so embarrassed. And also couldn't penetrate his girlfriend for a month :(

[Mollypop]

My girl friends tell me the same thing. Is it really true? I've only had sex with older guys a couple of times so I can't say for sure. I mostly have sex with boys of my age and it's true that they don't last very long but neither do I, they always make me cum haha

It's mostly true. I don't mind the faster younger guys if they can keep going until I'm satisfied too.

[KristenS]

If i were you i would just consider myself lucky and keep on enjoying it. It takes me longer than 4 mins for sure unless im really worked up.

[gurquenjen]

Well, whenever I want my boyfriend to cum, I always slide a finger or two into me so that I can stroke his foreskin while he is thrusting. It drives him wild and leads to him getting off within about a minute at most...though if I really want him to cum, I just rub his glans on my clitoris and, boom, money shot. I'll have usually cum by that point a couple times anyway (he's always very diligent about going down on me and fingering me, making sure I cum at least twice before he's even thought about putting his dick anywhere near me). He's a strange one, though, and sometimes he can go for half an hour or forty five minutes with no orgasm in sight and at that point I might have gotten a little sore or hyper-sensitive, and then other times he'll last for only five minutes. I tend to find that older guys last longer and are often just better in bed, but, sometimes a younger guy just has more enthusiasm, and enthusiasm can make up for quite a lot...though, really, talent is probably preferred.

[Nikki_1]

I know that we are all different but with me it depends on how kinda 'turned on' I am, if I'm really turned on then I can only last about 3-4 mins before my first orgasm then if he keeps going I can have several more before he gets his orgasm.
The best thing about it is we can get multiple ones where I think a boy can only have like one, but I maybe wrong.

[Pultost]

I'd say it's a great gift that you can finish that fast, especially since guys aren't known to last very long. :)

[Sofiya02]

I won’t say it’s normal since u probably last shorter than most but i don’t think it’s a problem either. Everyone is different. It sounds actually quite cold that you have so many orgasms in a short period of time.

[ClaireHofmann]

I won’t say it’s normal since u probably last shorter than most but i don’t think it’s a problem either. Everyone is different. It sounds actually quite cold that you have so many orgasms in a short period of time.
Yeah, I usually don't have less than 4 or 5 orgasms during sex.

[ClaireHofmann]

I'd say it's a great gift that you can finish that fast, especially since guys aren't known to last very long. :)
Yeah, my best friend is always complaining about how her boyfriend cums too fast sometimes.

[Pultost]

Yeah, my best friend is always complaining about how her boyfriend cums too fast sometimes.

I can imagine, and some guys don't necessarily get their pants off before they cum either.

[ClaireHofmann]

I can imagine, and some guys don't necessarily get their pants off before they cum either.
Well, I'm glad that never happened with me. Hope it never happened with you either.

[Pultost]

Well, I'm glad that never happened with me. Hope it never happened with you either.

No, I think it almost happened once during a makeout, but he was still dry. I'm gonna wait a couple of years with having sex, anyway. :)

[ClaireHofmann]

No, I think it almost happened once during a makeout, but he was still dry. I'm gonna wait a couple of years with having sex, anyway. :)
Do it whenever you're ready, no need to rush. I first had sex with a boy when I had just turned 14.

[Pultost]

Do it whenever you're ready, no need to rush. I first had sex with a boy when I had just turned 14.

Yeah, I'm not in a rush. :) I don't judge anyone for when they started having sex, but I want to wait and be sure I got Mr. Right, and not Mr. Right now. :)

[ClaireHofmann]

Yeah, I'm not in a rush. :) I don't judge anyone for when they started having sex, but I want to wait and be sure I got Mr. Right, and not Mr. Right now. :)
I love that you think that way. I don't regret losing my virginity at all, it all went way better than what I expected, I'd say it exceeded my expectations. I even orgasmed a couple of times, most girls don't even feel pleasure while doing it for the first time. The only thing I regret about it was not doing it with a boy I really liked.

[Pultost]

I love that you think that way. I don't regret losing my virginity at all, it all went way better than what I expected, I'd say it exceeded my expectations. I even orgasmed a couple of times, most girls don't even feel pleasure while doing it for the first time. The only thing I regret about it was not doing it with a boy I really liked.

Thanks. ^^ And that's good, sounds like you had a successful first time, but yeah, I want to make sure I do it with someone I love and who loves me back. :)

[Char03]

Is it normal for a girl of my age to orgasm in less than 4 minutes of intercourse? When I'm having sex with a boy I almost always orgasm faster than him, usually in just a couple of minutes. I know girls are supposed to last longer in bed but that's just isn't the case with me. I'm usually on my 3rd or 4th orgasm when he has his first. Do I have some kind of sensitivity problem?

No problem there I don't think! If you're having more orgasms than your boyfriend what's the problem? No one else has ever given me an orgasm but sometimes when I am doing it to myself they can come really quickly and other times not so much. :s

[Suzy18]

Yeah, my best friend is always complaining about how her boyfriend cums too fast sometimes.

Claire do you like it that girls can have much more orgasms than a boy?!!!

:D

[Lucy G]

No problem there I don't think! If you're having more orgasms than your boyfriend what's the problem? No one else has ever given me an orgasm but sometimes when I am doing it to myself they can come really quickly and other times not so much. :s

I'm 14 and yeah like you I'm shy when it comes to this stuff. Never been with a boy and only a girl once. But when i do myself they can be quite quick even if I don't want them to

[ClaireHofmann]

For real? Holy Christ! Lucky girl
Yeah, I'm not going to complain about that. I always feel so much pleasure.

[Dalcourt]

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