How to Start Struggle HELP PLEASE!

[Anonymous Teenager]

Hello!

I recently found a girl I really really like when watching a school performance, the only problem is, I don't have any classes with her and she is a grade higher than me. I really want to get to know her and eventually and hopefully get to the stage of asking out.

Can anyone give tips on how to get to know her?

Thank you!

[Martainfey96]

Bump into her in the halls and just say hey I'm ____ I just thought your performance was amazing! Mind if I get your number and we can maybe hang out sometime? Then start chatting with her on texts and eventually invite her to coffee our something

[mick01]

I like Mason's^^ idea of mentioning her performance but I wouldn't ask for her number the first time you talk to her. She likely won't even know your name at that point. But I'd get a few chances to talk to her and to see what kind of response you get from her. If she seems engaging, then I'd ask for her number.

[NewLeafsFan]

Don't stalk her but do some "research" as to where she might be at a certain time. Then go up to her, be confident, and good luck.

Please keep in mind that you only know her from a performance so you only know what she looks like. Her personality or other characteristics might not make her girlfriend material.

[Anonymous Teenager]

Hello!

Yesterday I decided to pull the string and go to another performance, after words I said hello. I have her insta and we just DM but I think she denied my friend request... she is very kind and seems to have such an open heart.

Any extra tips? I'll try DMing her more and then asking her to Starbucks or something.

Thank you all!

[Croconaw]

Are things working out okay? I hope everything is well with you and the girl.

[jamie_n5]

Introduce yourself to her and tell her that you would like to meet and get to know each other if she is okay with that. That would be a start anyway.