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Ella...
February 25th, 2018, 01:11 AM
So, me and this dude met a few months ago, and he's a little younger than me, but we hit it off anyway and he asked for my contact info cause we live like 3 states apart. So, we've been texting for a little while. And you know how on skype you can have mood messages? Well, he's been changing his to things like "I'm lonely", "wanna know what's up? No you don't, no one cares" so I asked him what's up, and if it was him joking around or something, to which he replied "I don't joke about stuff like that".
To that I replied "well, you're my friend and I care about my friends, if you ever need to talk, I'm here" and he hasn't replied in two days! He's seen it, I know, but that's where I'm wondering if i said something wrong? Should I have even mentioned it? Should I text back changing the subject? I don't even know, my dudes :P

Uniquemind
February 25th, 2018, 01:24 AM
That sounds like his problem. Don’t sweat it nothing much you can do, he’s got to be social and open to communication on his end too.

Martainfey96
February 25th, 2018, 07:44 AM
Sounds like a personal issue which guys don't open up to girls about at all. Just give it about a week and text him again with a hey what's up or something.

lliam
February 25th, 2018, 10:21 AM
Why do girls take such behavior such personal so often? Guys don't even talk about every problem with their girlfriends. Especially when they classify a prob as very personal.

So, as mentioned in the posts above, you probably didn't say anything wrong.

In addition, the boy is two years younger. I don't know how old he really is and how seriously you should really take care his problems, but just be there for him when he wants to talk.

StacyD
February 25th, 2018, 02:30 PM
Based on what you've told us, it's his issue. You've done all you can do by letting him know you are there. He has to be the one to accept that offer if he's truly going through something and not just seeking attention. Let it go. If he comes to you, great. If not, at least you know you did the right thing and he can deal with his own problems in his own way.

wolfeman
February 25th, 2018, 06:10 PM
You're being supportive, and doing everything you can. I'd give it a little bit and try to make contact again. Don't sweat it too much.