Having trouble finding anybody.

[Anonymous Teenager]

Any tips?

There's a girl I really like but we are really great friends and she said she wasn't into me. Is there a way to get closer to her?

[Sailor Mars]

If she isn’t into you, then don’t pursue her. That’s an easy way to lose a good friendship, and just be a dick.

[NewLeafsFan]

There are many ways that you could get closer to her, but since you actually care about this girl you are not going to. Instead you are going to respect her wishes and not torture yourself trying to get with her and fail again and again. You might also want to consider taking a step back in your friendship with her. It is very difficult to get over someone that you are talking to often. My guess is that you ended up friends while trying to get her and the friendship itself doesn't mean that much to you anyway.

[Anonymous Teenager]

The friendship still is everything. We are still friends that laugh together and have no fun. No problem. I guess I stated the thread wrong, how can I meet and get to know better a girl in general

[Sailor Mars]

The friendship still is everything. We are still friends that laugh together and have no fun. No problem. I guess I stated the thread wrong, how can I meet and get to know better a girl in general

Just be social? Do social things. You’ll meet people through interaction, events, groups, clubs, just growing up. You’ll find someone eventually, someone will find you eventually. Don’t rush stuff, you got time ykno?

[ska8er]

Keep being friends and over
time she may come around but
don't pursue her as a couple. One
thought-if u r great friends y does
she not like u?

To meet girls-Smile and start small
talk about movies music. Take an
interest in someone.

[StacyD]

Yeah, she's not into you? Then that settles that. Game over. Don't continue to push the matter, let it drop and move on. There's really nothing worse than being the one waiting around for her to decide to like you one day, a day which it sounds like will never come. If one day she does realize you're the one she likes, and if you're available at that time and still like her, go for it then. Until then, just be her friend and be nice.

[benlodge123]

Any tips?

There's a girl I really like but we are really great friends and she said she wasn't into me. Is there a way to get closer to her?

I had that problem last week. But she said she wasnt talking to anyone, then told me she was meeting another one, I was like "fuck this shit im out" and removed her, havent spoken since !!