How can I tell him

[Nnoki]

I have a friend who I was very close with when we were young, now we're not that close but still good friends
I've seen him naked, he used to do swimming and didn't bothered in changing in front of me, but that was like 6 years ago
I want to compare with him, but don't know how to bring the topic
Any advice?

[Zachary G]

Hmmm, if you arent that close to him anymore you might want to get to be close friends with him again for awhile before you bring it up.

[jamie_n5]

If you don't see each other much anymore it would be awkward to just bring it up out of the blue. You might just ask him to go swimming with you again. That would be a way to see him again.

[fidgetykid]

i think you should try and get to know him again and then maybe go swimming or something so you can see

[Ethan19]

I think it's really weird if you ask him to go swimming again out of the blue. Not to him like asking it weird, but more of the fact your intent isn't to go swimming and have fun. It's to set up a friend into a situation he might not of wanted under the circumstances you've mentioned. So that for me, suggests a disgraceful morality.

Realistically, you can't ask him that out of the blue. You have to be at least friends that talk again for that to happen, so start there. Then meet up, play some football or something. Actually, get to know him as a friend, because you've missed 6 huge years of his life and don't just look at him as a thing you just want to see naked.

[lliam]

I want to compare with him, but don't know how to bring the topic Any advice?


You have to ask him, of course. Match the right moment.

Personally, I would advise you not to ask him.

[Atlantis]

This is not appropriate :locked: