Cricket97
February 20th, 2018, 07:17 AM
Sorry for the long post, here it goes,
I had a 2 month fling with a guy that I met from Tinder. He was a clever guy and had good taste in stuff and wasn’t being flirty in an obvious way while talking: qualities that I like in a guy. So we met up almost every week for 2 months, he was busy with schoolwork and sometimes would not write for a week. Then either I would write or he would. In most messaging I would write more. First 3 dates I felt like I was pushing for a conversation, but in later that dates we kissed and cuddled, also did more sexual stuff. It felt good sharing that intimacy. However, after our last date, we just could’nt arrange a movie date and he has not texted me for over a month. Purposely I didn’t too becauae I don’t want to look too needy. I feel sad and like I need closure. Even though he told me He didn’t see the responsiblity in himself to pursue a serious relationship, I actually wanted that: from the moment I met him I wanted a deep relationship and did not talk to another person on tinder. Which is ridiculous I know because this is Tinder. So should I just give myself time or continue swiping right on Tinder? I talk to few people but I just dont’ feel like it (I am also paranoid, just maybe going on Tnder may help me relax and not always think For the long run.
I had a 2 month fling with a guy that I met from Tinder. He was a clever guy and had good taste in stuff and wasn’t being flirty in an obvious way while talking: qualities that I like in a guy. So we met up almost every week for 2 months, he was busy with schoolwork and sometimes would not write for a week. Then either I would write or he would. In most messaging I would write more. First 3 dates I felt like I was pushing for a conversation, but in later that dates we kissed and cuddled, also did more sexual stuff. It felt good sharing that intimacy. However, after our last date, we just could’nt arrange a movie date and he has not texted me for over a month. Purposely I didn’t too becauae I don’t want to look too needy. I feel sad and like I need closure. Even though he told me He didn’t see the responsiblity in himself to pursue a serious relationship, I actually wanted that: from the moment I met him I wanted a deep relationship and did not talk to another person on tinder. Which is ridiculous I know because this is Tinder. So should I just give myself time or continue swiping right on Tinder? I talk to few people but I just dont’ feel like it (I am also paranoid, just maybe going on Tnder may help me relax and not always think For the long run.