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RCT109
February 20th, 2018, 04:23 AM
I met this girl online and we started talking and then we exchanged numbers and started texting and snapchat and the like.
One moment its like she likes me and then the next its one word replies so idk
if anyone has any ideas or suggestions feel free to help or pm me if you wnt
thanks
SR
ska8er
February 20th, 2018, 08:02 AM
Maybe u r texting too much with her.
Ask her if she feels u r coming on too
strong.
Zachary G
February 20th, 2018, 08:05 AM
Ask her if you are being a bother and tell her to please let you know if you ever become too much.
RCT109
February 20th, 2018, 09:28 AM
Ask her if you are being a bother and tell her to please let you know if you ever become too much.
Maybe u r texting too much with her.
Ask her if she feels u r coming on too
strong.
well i have and she says im . not
StacyD
February 20th, 2018, 10:09 AM
You guys far apart distance wise or close? Could be she's just thinking about it and not really into a long-distance thing (if that's the case). Or could be she's just not into an on-line thing. Either way, the one word, short responses probably means she's not that into it anymore.
Also, don't ask if you're bothering her. That's kinda shows you lack a bit of confidence. Just a girl's point of view. Don't like blow her phone up with texts, but when you do, have the confidence in yourself that she wants to hear from you and that you're not a bother. And, if it turns out you are bothering her, move on. Life's too short.
RCT109
February 20th, 2018, 10:15 AM
You guys far apart distance wise or close? Could be she's just thinking about it and not really into a long-distance thing (if that's the case). Or could be she's just not into an on-line thing. Either way, the one word, short responses probably means she's not that into it anymore.
Also, don't ask if you're bothering her. That's kinda shows you lack a bit of confidence. Just a girl's point of view. Don't like blow her phone up with texts, but when you do, have the confidence in yourself that she wants to hear from you and that you're not a bother. And, if it turns out you are bothering her, move on. Life's too short.
you are great thanks for the advice and its not always 1 word all the time like if shes busy its one work other times its actually a convo
StacyD
February 20th, 2018, 10:21 AM
you are great thanks for the advice and its not always 1 word all the time like if shes busy its one work other times its actually a convo
Thanks, and you're welcome. I actually wrote that it could be that you're just catching her a lot at really busy times. But I thought you meant more that she was just always giving you back one word responses. Anyway, I guess just give it more time and see how it goes. Good luck.
Ethan19
February 20th, 2018, 03:35 PM
Usually its because their just not that interested. Seems harsh, but it's true. It's sort of like when you get a text from some one you don't really want to talk to right now so you ignore it until you can be bothered.
NewLeafsFan
February 22nd, 2018, 11:59 PM
We don't have enough details to give you good advice, so I'll just give you a few things to consider. Is she too busy? Are you texting her too often? Does she have somebody else?
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