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beastyd
February 27th, 2008, 12:21 AM
ok i dont plan on having sex very soon but im uncut and im 14. I just recently learned about what that means. Im raised by my mother and i realized only a few months ago that i have to pull the skin back and clean it. I think because i havent been doing this for 14 years under my skin is really sensitive like even the slightest touch feels weird.
Why exactly is it so weird.
And will i be able to have sex without feeling pain because of it.
Also will sex hurt for any other reason ( P.S. Im a virgin )

Atonement
February 27th, 2008, 12:23 AM
You are 14? I dont think you should be having sex at all really, sorry.

beastyd
February 27th, 2008, 12:24 AM
im not trying to have sex but im saying in the future will it still be sensitive?

Atonement
February 27th, 2008, 12:27 AM
probably, as being uncut, your tip of your penis is more sensitive. This is because you have extra skin to cover the tip, it doesnt get used to touch. But sex shouldn't hurt, no.

Gumleaf
February 27th, 2008, 12:35 AM
ok, some tips. try to expose it more, even just gradually. that way it will become used to not being covered all the time. that will help it not to be so sensitive. also, allow plenty of water to run on it in the shower, because that will help with the sensitivity too. you shouldn't expereince pain because of this during sex.

jnoob
February 28th, 2008, 06:26 AM
if masturbating hurts sex probably will aswell

Chatsworth
February 28th, 2008, 07:46 AM
If it hurts try seeing a doctor if the pain progresess

The Entertainer
February 28th, 2008, 01:49 PM
It will be sensitive simply because youve not gotten used to touching it. Do what boomerang (above) says and youll be fine! Same thing happened with me, and after a bit, you hardly notice it!

chris__robin
February 28th, 2008, 08:17 PM
if your going to have sex it will be lubricated and youll hopefully be wearing a condom, condoms desensitise the penis a bit so if you are sensitive it wont be as bad.

sex shouldn't be painful for you though.

GotTheGoods
February 29th, 2008, 04:53 AM
It's cool. Mine was the same at the beginning of puberty - very sensitive to touch. As I masturbated more and such, it has become less sensitive, though not completely desensitized. Don't worry - sex won't hurt by the time you're ready for it.

Patchy
February 29th, 2008, 09:02 AM
ok, some tips. try to expose it more, even just gradually. that way it will become used to not being covered all the time. that will help it not to be so sensitive. also, allow plenty of water to run on it in the shower, because that will help with the sensitivity too. you shouldn't expereince pain because of this during sex.

Stephen has the right idea,

if you keep it exposed (not like in public but just keep ur foreskin rolled back slightly) then your penis will start to be not as sensitive.

but dont rush it, because as you said your not planning on having sex any time soon.

Requin
February 29th, 2008, 12:00 PM
Yay, my first post.
Anyway, yeah it was the same for me when i first started puberty, so i shouldn't worry, but if your penis is still sensitive after a while, and i mean a while, i should see a doctor. Just to check. lol

Chatsworth
February 29th, 2008, 07:46 PM
Well everybody is different. And the sensitivity of your penis various from each person. So yes like the others say, try pulling your foreskin back sometimes [personally I can't achieve it and I don't plan to] and masturbate a little more as it will get used to the feeling. Cause just imagine a part of the body that hasn't been really touched for about 10 years or so