More or less stress?

[jaret]

I know during puberty you are maybe more open to experiment, so do you find it less stressful or more stressful to have sex with same or opposite sex ?
Like guys not having to worry about size or performance if they have sex with another guy than with a girl?

[ska8er]

I would say at first it is
always stressful.

[jamie_n5]

Your first few times can be a bit stressful because you are learning how to do things and what you like and what your partner likes.

[Mitchell1861]

I think it’s more stressful to have sex Witt a person of the opposite gender, because you are expected to perform a certain way. It would be less with the same gender because they know they will perform.

[scott2002]

I need you to define "having sex" with the same sex. If you mean two boys jerking off together or jerking each other off, then I'd say I never found that stressful. The only stress might be worrying about who cums first, in case you cum way sooner or take way longer than your friend. But if you mean anal intercourse with another guy, I'd consider that stress cuz I have NO desire to do that.
But with a girl, it's definitely stress of performance. My very first time was HORRIBLE and I got so stressed she might get pregnant (I didn't have a condom, but she assured me it was safe) I got so nervous that I lost my erection and couldn't even finish. It was SO embarrassing.