Am I a virgin

[BigBurrito]

Hey bros,
So I'm not 100% if I have lost my virginity yet. So me and my gf had tried to have sex several times but I couldn't stay hard. Do you think that I have lost my virginity?
Also how would I stop this happening in the future?

[Bigjohn8]

Has your penis entered her vagina? If so you are not virgin.
Idk how to keep yourself up, do you wank a lot to porn? If so that could be an issue because she is not pornstar

[BigBurrito]

Has your penis entered her vagina? If so you are not virgin.
Idk how to keep yourself up, do you wank a lot to porn? If so that could be an issue because she is not pornstar

Not exactly, I think we tried it for a few thrusts
Not really, usually just use my imagination.

[SilverSM]

For me, losing virginity is having your penis inside someone and coming inside them others say that you just have to stay hard inside your partner so whatever.
If you can't get hard by your girlfriend but can get hard by yourself it could just mean you were too nervous or something, that sort of stuff is really common believe it or not.

[ska8er]

Relax before u start anything.

[teenboyNathan]

You lose your virginity when you put your dick inside of her, which sounds like something you haven't done yet. As for keeping a boner, don't rush anything and just relax

[BigBurrito]

For me, losing virginity is having your penis inside someone and coming inside them others say that you just have to stay hard inside your partner so whatever.
If you can't get hard by your girlfriend but can get hard by yourself it could just mean you were too nervous or something, that sort of stuff is really common believe it or not.

Thanks for your advice dude, much appreciated.

[BigBurrito]

You lose your virginity when you put your dick inside of her, which sounds like something you haven't done yet. As for keeping a boner, don't rush anything and just relax

I have had it in her for a little bit but not long

[Turbofan explosion]

If you didn't have intercourse (Didn't insert penis in vagina, etc.), you are still virgin. Do note that if you had mutual sex (Masturbation with someone else), you are still virgin.\

Unsure why you weren't able to get hard. Did you have orgasm before? If so, sometimes you have to wait like 10 minutes then you will be able to have orgasm and erection again.

[Spooky_Eli]

no..

[Dev.]

I'm a virgin so I can't really help there but, I do know a lot of relaxation and foreplay techniques from reading from a bunch masturbation websites and articles. I'll link some.

Tips for Staying Erect Enough for Sex
https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/tips-for-staying-erect-enough-for-


3 Tricks to Help His Penis Get Hard And Stay Hard
https://www.yourtango.com/2016297570/how-to-keep-his-penis-hard-during-sex-with-erectile-dysfunction

How To Stop Sexual Performance Anxiety
https://www.risingmaster.com/how-to-recognise-and-stop-sexual-performance-anxiety/

[Mitchell1861]

So my opinion is when you have sex at all. Whether that be anal or vaginal, if you had sex, you lost it. But you don’t necessarily have to cum in her.

[Tom_theflash]

I don't think so

[Harrier]

Does it matter? Does your school give a prize to non virgins and you need our opinion if you are?

She is your gf right? And you both want to have sex? Keep trying until you have sex for more than a couple thrusts so there is no doubt.

And it sounds like maybe you are nervous so you lost your hard on. Imo

[NewLeafsFan]

You haven't had the full 'sexual intercourse experience'. For that reason, I would say that you are a virgin.

[BigBurrito]

If you didn't have intercourse (Didn't insert penis in vagina, etc.), you are still virgin. Do note that if you had mutual sex (Masturbation with someone else), you are still virgin.\

Unsure why you weren't able to get hard. Did you have orgasm before? If so, sometimes you have to wait like 10 minutes then you will be able to have orgasm and erection again.

Yeah I probs cummed before, but a while before I think its just nerves maybe

I'm a virgin so I can't really help there but, I do know a lot of relaxation and foreplay techniques from reading from a bunch masturbation websites and articles. I'll link some.

Tips for Staying Erect Enough for Sex
https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/tips-for-staying-erect-enough-for-


3 Tricks to Help His Penis Get Hard And Stay Hard
https://www.yourtango.com/2016297570/how-to-keep-his-penis-hard-during-sex-with-erectile-dysfunction

How To Stop Sexual Performance Anxiety
https://www.risingmaster.com/how-to-recognise-and-stop-sexual-performance-anxiety/

Thanks for the links dude.

Thanks for veyones help, keep the advice coming

[skittlesh]

It’s subjective I mean if you cum in her then your def not a virgin but for the blurred lines it’s subjective

[benlodge123]

Not exactly, I think we tried it for a few thrusts
Not really, usually just use my imagination.

That is what I do sometimes, I always think about hot girls just in my room nakes haha. Sounds weird, but it works:) Dont wank before having sex, cos normally you will go soft. With me, i will wank and I will be hard, I will cum and continue wanking but my penis will get softer. and make it harder to cum.

[BigBurrito]

That is what I do sometimes, I always think about hot girls just in my room nakes haha. Sounds weird, but it works:) Dont wank before having sex, cos normally you will go soft. With me, i will wank and I will be hard, I will cum and continue wanking but my penis will get softer. and make it harder to cum.

YEah same here dude, I just think it was nerves for first time but she did like suck me off before we tried.

[benlodge123]

YEah same here dude, I just think it was nerves for first time but she did like suck me off before we tried.

I’ve never been sucked off. In fact the furthest I’ve gone is tonguing. What’s it like having sex for the first time? And what does it feel like being sucked off?

[BigBurrito]

I’ve never been sucked off. In fact the furthest I’ve gone is tonguing. What’s it like having sex for the first time? And what does it feel like being sucked off?

What's tonguing dude? Not sure, for me my first time hurt as it pulled my foreskin back for the first time and it didn't last long cause I went soft. Getting sucked off feels good especially when you hold her head down