Deep conversation ideas?

[benlodge123]

I would love to be able to have a deep conversation with a girl, But i dont know what to talk about :) haha

Any ideas.

[Spooky_Eli]

the meaning of life

[benlodge123]

the meaning of life

Lol, good one, but it could get very boring, very quickly!

[ska8er]

Well u can ask her if she likes Pokémon-Justin Beiber
or the movie Frozen but NO u might just turn her stomach.

Well start with a smile and a hello to break the ice and then
ask her what kind of music or movies she likes. Listen to her
responses and then follow up with questions. If ur nervous
just remember that she might b nervous too.

[Uniquemind]

Where do you see yourself in 5 years? 10?

Social analysis on human behavior, be quick with irl examples that are relatable.

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I fell for a guy once who totally was a smooth magician-like talker about life and the future and was analyzing me and our immediate surroundings and lowkey balanced being judgmental and observant and thoughtfully funny. This combo is dangerous for many a girl, even worse if the guy is handsome, with a good reputation.

[benlodge123]

Where do you see yourself in 5 years? 10?

Social analysis on human behavior, be quick with irl examples that are relatable.

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I fell for a guy once who totally was a smooth magician-like talker about life and the future and was analyzing me and our immediate surroundings and lowkey balanced being judgmental and observant and thoughtfully funny. This combo is dangerous for many a girl, even worse if the guy is handsome, with a good reputation.

Great ideas! But could you elaborate on the "Social analysis on human behavior, be quick with irl examples that are relatable"

[Jake445]

Depending on if she's religious or not, 'the impacts and necessity of religion' is always a fun topic.

[NewLeafsFan]

It depends on the girl. Each girl has her own interests and intelligence level. I generally would recommend not talking about politics, sex, or religion as that would likely push the two of you further apart.

[rohancool]

Try to quickly go over a lot of topics to find her interests. When you have narrowed down on something "common" (no pretense) then discuss it in more detail.

[lliam]

ask her about her interests, share yours and find a common topic you both can talk about. All this deep talkin stuff is basically wasted time.

On the one hand, such conversations are purely coincidental for some other topic or event.

A conversation about the metaphor of the thread of time and the transience of friendship can be much more profane than a conversation about pink ponies in cartoons on Nick and their fight against evil.

My girlfriend and I enjoy making plans for our future. Often it is very vague and unrealistic pictures that we paint with words.

But these funny crap often leads to very different diverging conversations, with even this very deeper, shared toughts and insights.

[Uniquemind]

Great ideas! But could you elaborate on the "Social analysis on human behavior, be quick with irl examples that are relatable"

I can't because that part of my advice, was and is customized in-the-moment observations and it's gonna be different every time depending on when and where you are and who you are flirting with.

Just like the others said you're going to have to have a certain type of awareness to HOW you flirt and establish that initial bond. That varies girl to girl and you need to read them and listen to them and infer correctly.


But what you can do is learn certain party-trick skills that allow you to be a good showman.

Have you noticed that those who know how to do neat magic tricks or have learned special skills or languages to an impressive degree allow for those to be more creative with how they open conversations.

I had one guy say something in a french to me once, and I was like forced to respond with "I don't speak __" and then he said was "you have the most beautiful eyes I've ever seen and I'd like to know if you are free on ____day". At least he got a conversation going, and he didn't say anything about leering at my private areas so I did at least converse with him. Albeit I did reject him but he had a smooth entrance I must admit.

[Spooky_Eli]

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