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CalvinBro
February 12th, 2018, 06:13 PM
SORRY FOR THE WIERD POLL, something went wrong

Anyway.

I'm a 12 soon 13 year old boy.

Have been jerking off since I was 8-9 years old and have been caught a few times. Nothing unusual there but!

I wonder...

When you have been caught jerking off do you finish and let the one who walked in on you be responsible enough to walk away or do you cover up and stop?

Different depending on the occation or always the same?

I feel like sometimes when I'm caught it feels so good that I can't stop. My mind wants to cover up and it's like I'm trying to move my muscles in another way but I can't stop. My arm and hand just keep on jerking. And it feels so good to get to finish anyway but I'm a bit ashamed afterwards.

Any other guys that just "got to do what a man's got to do" even if someone walks in?

Or am I the only one?

Should I feel ashamed?

toby69
February 12th, 2018, 06:35 PM
Calvin, I have not been caught, but think I would go ahead and finish. Who caught you?

ska8er
February 12th, 2018, 07:12 PM
U go someplace where u
can lock the door and not
have to worry bout getting
caught or feeling ashamed.

I haven't been caught.

CalvinBro
February 12th, 2018, 07:15 PM
My mom a few times, a guy from my soccer team, one friend (male) and a friend of my mom (woman) caught me.

It's not that I care about them seeing my penis. My penis size is fine. But if I'm really getting in the zone I am moaning and making faces (I've made a vid of myself on the phone so I know). It's more that that they saw that. And that I've said "I'm sorry, I can't stop" and another similar phrase like "sorry, feels too good" like I'm a slave to my horniness. And moms friend didn't leave and just talked down to me and said I was a show off. I had to step outside the room to spray my cum. Didn't want her to see that.

But if you go tryin to interrupt a very horny 12 year old who's been going for 2-3 min RESPECTFULLY in private. You are an adult and can walk away... Then the cannon is going to fire. That's what I'm born to do. That's how I feel sometimes.

But mostly I am ashamed afterwards.

CalvinBro
February 12th, 2018, 07:43 PM
Any guys who are "finishers"? Just say yes, I don't need details I wan't to know if I'm normal or not.

And yeah I have to get locks to my room

jamie_n5
February 12th, 2018, 08:00 PM
I have never been caught by anyone. I have jerked off with or jerked off other guys and we always finish.

SilverSM
February 12th, 2018, 08:23 PM
When I used to share a room with my entire family (We live in a small apartment with a roommate using the other room), my sister and i would be hanging out in the room and I would go under the covers and turn to my side away from her and do it like that. Needless to say I don't think she noticed at all.

countryplowboy
February 12th, 2018, 08:49 PM
I think it all depends how comfortable you are with your family and yourself. I have an older brother and 2 older sisters. My bro and I share a room so of course we see each other jerking off. But both my sisters, my mom and my dad have all seen me blast a load at some point. Now of course I dint just jerk it in plain view but over the years its happened. It never been a big deal. Never ashamed..maybe a bit embarrassed...but hey my family knows I am a horny boy..I have a penis and I play with it..lol!! I understand how you feel..but I think your normal and its no secret boys jerk off..lol

Harrier
February 12th, 2018, 08:50 PM
You're not normal imo unless the person that caught you has seen you jerk off before. So like if it's a SO, a friend or sibling who has seen you finish before than i say fine finish bc it's nothing that person hasn't seen already. But ALL the others I mean c'mon man!!! Honestly! Yes people get horny but wtf i't not like it's the end of the world if you take a 15 second break as they apologize and close the door. No different than edging tbh. Even if you just stopped and never finished. That's what has happened to me before. Parents have walked in on my UNDER the covers and so saw nothing, I THINK they had no idea what was going on, and they said, come eat or I want you to meet someone or whatever and I never had a chance to finish. And guess what? I didn't die and my dick didn't fall off. Humans aren't animals. We can stop. Especially if it's a friend of your mom!!! WTF? Shame on her for opening doors she shouldn't and shame on you for not respecting her to stop.

SilverSM
February 12th, 2018, 09:04 PM
You're not normal imo unless the person that caught you has seen you jerk off before. So like if it's a SO, a friend or sibling who has seen you finish before than i say fine finish bc it's nothing that person hasn't seen already. But ALL the others I mean c'mon man!!! Honestly! Yes people get horny but wtf i't not like it's the end of the world if you take a 15 second break as they apologize and close the door. No different than edging tbh. Even if you just stopped and never finished. That's what has happened to me before. Parents have walked in on my UNDER the covers and so saw nothing, I THINK they had no idea what was going on, and they said, come eat or I want you to meet someone or whatever and I never had a chance to finish. And guess what? I didn't die and my dick didn't fall off. Humans aren't animals. We can stop. Especially if it's a friend of your mom!!! WTF? Shame on her for opening doors she shouldn't and shame on you for not respecting her to stop.

Essentially, yes but you worded it a tad bit extremely dont you think

CalvinBro
February 12th, 2018, 10:18 PM
I think it all depends how comfortable you are with your family and yourself. I have an older brother and 2 older sisters. My bro and I share a room so of course we see each other jerking off. But both my sisters, my mom and my dad have all seen me blast a load at some point. Now of course I dint just jerk it in plain view but over the years its happened. It never been a big deal. Never ashamed..maybe a bit embarrassed...but hey my family knows I am a horny boy..I have a penis and I play with it..lol!! I understand how you feel..but I think your normal and its no secret boys jerk off..lol

Mm yeah, it's not planned it just happens.

It hasn't always been that I was caught in my room per se but in front of the TV in the couch at home twice (one time was on mom's Xanax, she gave me 2 or 3 pills to sleep). And at my friends house but I was only caught by my friend.

My mom has problems with boundaries I think. She's a binge drinker. She doesn't always leave me alone while "I'm busy" if she has something on her mind. And I tell her to leave once or twice usually and she does eventually.

But still I could have been left alone for just 5 minutes I think?

Hm... Your brother, sisters, mom and dad have seen you shoot a load at some point!? Only my mom have seen me spray my cum. When my mom's friend caught me I just went to shoot the load just outside the room, so she almost saw me cum. But compared to you I'm no big deal. But you've been around longer ;)

She has seen me shoot a load two or three times. Maybe once when I was 9 - I kind of turned away from her, once about 3 weeks ago and once yesterday.

She has caught me jerking like maybe 7-10 times I donno.

I came sleeping in my friends room but that was under the sheets but that was no big deal. That doesn't count :) but he was like "are you jerking off now!?" and "did you cum in my f**** bed sheets?". Probably worse that I came in the sheets but it passed. His mom washed the sheets and she's an attractive woman so that kinda sucked.

But maybe it's okay if you just doesn't show off? Damn I wish I had an older brother.

It's nice hearing from older guys that have "been there" :)

CalvinBro
February 12th, 2018, 10:24 PM
Double post

tdog123
February 12th, 2018, 10:49 PM
i think its pretty weird unless you are at the poinnt of no return but ive never been caught

Dalcourt
February 12th, 2018, 10:51 PM
This isn't appropriate :locked: