Stronk Serb
February 12th, 2018, 07:08 AM
Okay so I got a girlfriend a few days ago, but that is not important. This is about my ex who I guess wants something from me.
So a bit of history with me and my ex, let's call her Mary for simplicity:
-We got together for the first time last February, but after one month we started constantly arguing and broke up, both agreeing that we are better off as friends. That arrangement worked for both of us
-Fast forward till like New Year's Eve, we were at the same party, then we got back together. She constantly kept saying that she wants it to work this time and that she is willing to listen to me and talk to me about relationship stuff. Then like after 3 weeks she tells me that she wants a long relationship, I agreed that I wanted it too. Then a day later she wants to talk, I meet up eith her and she starts spilling excuses how she is not good enough for me etc. and I ask her to tell me the real reason. Later she told me via text that she went out with another guy that weekend she was "grounded" and that she was dumping me for him. Anyways, she did not want to admit to lying and cheating on me, despite literally saying she went out with another guy while she was with me. I randomly found out who the guy was, but I did not care about the two of them. Then a friend of mine told me they broke up, I did not care.
And now it gets interesting. Yesterday as I was going to dinner with my mother, I got a call. I did not know from who it was, and when I got the message "I accidentally called you", I was baffled. I asked who it was, and the reply was "Mary hahahaha". I just typed in "Okay, bye".
Knowing her, the call was not an accident. She rarely calls people and that smug reply about who was it proves my point. Then my friend showed me her stories on Instagram, since last night to this very moment there are depressing pictures with words like "waiting for you", "missing you", "one call is all I ask". The whole thing offends me so much. After all the time we were together both in a relationship and as friends, she did that to me and expects a blank page. No. I am also not going to involve my girlfriend, this is my pre-relationship baggage and I can handle it myself. So, what should I do guys? Talk to her? Let her suffer for what she did? What do you think I should do?
So a bit of history with me and my ex, let's call her Mary for simplicity:
-We got together for the first time last February, but after one month we started constantly arguing and broke up, both agreeing that we are better off as friends. That arrangement worked for both of us
-Fast forward till like New Year's Eve, we were at the same party, then we got back together. She constantly kept saying that she wants it to work this time and that she is willing to listen to me and talk to me about relationship stuff. Then like after 3 weeks she tells me that she wants a long relationship, I agreed that I wanted it too. Then a day later she wants to talk, I meet up eith her and she starts spilling excuses how she is not good enough for me etc. and I ask her to tell me the real reason. Later she told me via text that she went out with another guy that weekend she was "grounded" and that she was dumping me for him. Anyways, she did not want to admit to lying and cheating on me, despite literally saying she went out with another guy while she was with me. I randomly found out who the guy was, but I did not care about the two of them. Then a friend of mine told me they broke up, I did not care.
And now it gets interesting. Yesterday as I was going to dinner with my mother, I got a call. I did not know from who it was, and when I got the message "I accidentally called you", I was baffled. I asked who it was, and the reply was "Mary hahahaha". I just typed in "Okay, bye".
Knowing her, the call was not an accident. She rarely calls people and that smug reply about who was it proves my point. Then my friend showed me her stories on Instagram, since last night to this very moment there are depressing pictures with words like "waiting for you", "missing you", "one call is all I ask". The whole thing offends me so much. After all the time we were together both in a relationship and as friends, she did that to me and expects a blank page. No. I am also not going to involve my girlfriend, this is my pre-relationship baggage and I can handle it myself. So, what should I do guys? Talk to her? Let her suffer for what she did? What do you think I should do?