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CoreyGray
February 4th, 2018, 10:07 AM
so basically i am very aware of my body, and i'm comfortable in my own skin but i tend to get very horny like all the time . and its like i can't control myself - it happens in public and in private when i think of stimulating things. i'm play with myself when i need to and i never orgasm which leaves me really sexually frustrated, and i can't really think of anything else but what turns me on. i have a "friend with benefits"and we usually help each other get off through the phone or video calls - but he cums way quicker than me and i guess he can't really get it back up quick enough or he's too tired . what should i do ?

and if you're going through something similar what do you do ?

ska8er
February 4th, 2018, 02:14 PM
U worrying that u will not have an
orgasm might cause u to lose the
feeling. It could b psychological or
hormonal or it could b that u r not
masturbating long enough.

Zachary G
February 4th, 2018, 02:28 PM
so basically i am very aware of my body, and i'm comfortable in my own skin but i tend to get very horny like all the time . and its like i can't control myself - it happens in public and in private when i think of stimulating things. i'm play with myself when i need to and i never orgasm which leaves me really sexually frustrated, and i can't really think of anything else but what turns me on. i have a "friend with benefits"and we usually help each other get off through the phone or video calls - but he cums way quicker than me and i guess he can't really get it back up quick enough or he's too tired . what should i do ?

and if you're going through something similar what do you do ?

So, this is the deal: I can totally relate to what you are going through because I have had the same thing happen to me and it just about drove me up a wall, so you arent alone there.

What I discovered was that I was in some sort of depression and it was keeping me from being able to achieve orgasm or relief as i so desperately needed to.

There isnt much you can do about it, for me it was a matter of finding something to bring me out of that funk that I was in and then I was able to get the long awaited relief Ive been looking for. I hope this helps you maybe understand a little better of what might be going on with you. Youll get through it, its only temporary.

jamie_n5
February 4th, 2018, 04:04 PM
Are you a boy or a girl? Your profile says that you are a girl but your post seems to sound like you are a boy. If you are a girl you need to explore your body and find out where your happy places are and things that you can additionally do to make you hornier while masturbating.
If you are a guy you need to concentrate more sexually and also find things like playing with your nipples or other areas while jerking off. Usually your most sensitive spot on the penis is on the underside of you penis right behind the head and the head or glans itself.

KatieCO2003
February 6th, 2018, 12:22 AM
My boyfriend lives 7,000 miles away from me. I live on a cattle ranch way up in the mountains of Colorado. Nothing here but cows and snow. Yeah, frustrated. All the time.

NewLeafsFan
February 7th, 2018, 02:37 AM
I don't think that what you are talking about is sexual frustration. What you have described is being horny at awkward times. Sexual frustration is when you are really frustrated because you aren't having sex. Horny is just the want for sex or masturbation NOW. This is my opinion anyway.

As puberty progresses, this will happen less frequently.