control horniness

[Sevun]

Hi,
I'm 15 and I'm not sure if being this horny is normal? I have downloaded far too many porn videos and the thing is, I jerked off 3 times last night and I wanted to do more, but my body couldn't take it, which shows just how hormonal I am arghhh
It's frustrating because 1. I want to do other things and 2. I also want to jerk off, yet my balls can't keep up
It sucks even more because I can't close my bedroom door (my parents just ask me what's the point of closing it, and when I say "privacy", they say "what privacy") erefajdf and they're barely out of the house because mum is a housewife so I can't just jerk off quickly and enjoy myself fully (like I can't be loud etc. if you know what I mean because the bedroom door is open and at night they would hear me :rolleyes: .
idk does anyone else have this problem?

[lliam]

nope. never had. also I'm now in a boarding school, I've my own room in my dorm.

as for controlling horniness: doing a lot of sports can help.

[Second Chance]

Hi,
I'm 15 and I'm not sure if being this horny is normal? I have downloaded far too many porn videos and the thing is, I jerked off 3 times last night and I wanted to do more, but my body couldn't take it, which shows just how hormonal I am arghhh
It's frustrating because 1. I want to do other things and 2. I also want to jerk off, yet my balls can't keep up
It sucks even more because I can't close my bedroom door (my parents just ask me what's the point of closing it, and when I say "privacy", they say "what privacy") erefajdf and they're barely out of the house because mum is a housewife so I can't just jerk off quickly and enjoy myself fully (like I can't be loud etc. if you know what I mean because the bedroom door is open and at night they would hear me :rolleyes: .
idk does anyone else have this problem?

I would not feel badly about your current horniness, and it is just a phase that everyone goes through as a part of puberty. Chances are your body is gearing up for some major changes, and you have a lot of testosterone in you right now. You are normal, and I would not worry.

I would use your lack of privacy to your advantage assuming you do not want to masturbate as much as you do. If you want to cut down on masturbating, then you have to most likely do other things such as hanging out with friends, watching television, or doing a hobby so that you can get your mind off of sex. If you can gradually cut down on masturbating, then you should be all right. You just need to really start removing things around you that remind you of masturbating, and you have to have to keep masturbating down to something reasonable so that you're not doing it all of the time. If that means blocking porn on your computer/mobile device, avoiding television shows that make you horny, or actually doing something to stop masturbating, then that should help. Exercise helps a lot with controlling hormones, and if it takes visiting a gym several times a week to keep things under control, then it is worth doing so.

If you need privacy to masturbate, then your best bet is to use the bathroom. Chances are no one will bother you in there especially if your house has more than one washroom. Also, masturbating at night when everyone is asleep is probably what you should do as well.

If your parents will not let you close your door, then that is not right because you're a teenager now, and you cannot be a little kid anymore. Especially when you are changing you need time to yourself. While your parents have the right to enter your room at will you still are a teenager and need to have private time like anyone else. If you have a good relationship with your Father, then it would be a good idea to bring up your concerns with him and ask him about how it was like when he was growing up. Chances are he probably masturbated like you at his age, and he can probably do something to help you.

[scott2002]

Hi,
I'm 15 and I'm not sure if being this horny is normal? I have downloaded far too many porn videos and the thing is, I jerked off 3 times last night and I wanted to do more, but my body couldn't take it, which shows just how hormonal I am arghhh
When I started to read that you are 15 and super-horny all the time, I smiled and thought to myself, "me too!" But when I read on and saw how you seem to almost constantly want to or need to masturbate, like doing it 3 times in a row and still wanting to do it more (but your body won't let you without giving the poor thing a rest!) Then I started to think, no, this is not normal 15 year old horniness. I'm also 15, and when I wank the desire to wank again goes away. Sometimes for a whole day or sometimes just for a few hours. But I'm not so dominated with it.
I think for your own sanity, and I say this respectfully, I will agree that it is important for you to get this under better control. I wish I had advice as to how to do that. I'm hoping others here on VT might be able to give you good advice.

[ska8er]

For me after the high of an orgasm
then there is the low. Sometimes I
feel the need to do it again but I'm
usually all drained out at the moment
unless I'm super horny. I learned to
control myself so the next orgasm
will b more intense.

[jamie_n5]

No my parents have always respected our privacy. There is no reason that your parents shouldn't respect your privacy. I would talk to them and tell them you are 15 and not a little kid anymore and that you would like some privacy at times and that you want to close your door at those times. Tell them if they want something that they can knock and ask if it's okay to come in.

[user-999]

Well I'd say that I was most horny about 14/15, so idk, just wait, do the things you need to do and after some time it will slow down. And about the door, you could just be loud (doing other things of course), like listen to music or idk, so maybe they'll ask you to close the door. I've actually never had that problem. I mostly kept my door closed during the day, but open during the night, but when I started going to sleep later and I was growing up, I just stopped opening them at the evening.

[Bigjohn8]

My suggestion is 2 just masturbate like you normally would and you want to let your parents catch you after that they'll close your door and give you privacy cuz they don't want to see that I mean don't turn the porn up loud but if you moan when you come moan and let them know what you're doing they will give you privacy

[Turbofan explosion]

Try quitting porn by deleting all videos that you have on your computer and try installing website blocking software to block porn sites.

There is no normal amount of masturbation. But if you feel like you are doing it too much, try to find other things to do (i.e. watch TV, etc.) that will keep you busy, and help you reduce.

And if you don't think you have privacy, maybe go in the bathroom or shower and lock the door? I am sure that is a reasonable time to lock the door.

[Harrier]

For privacy you can just do it in the shower or bathroom in general. About the horniness, I rarely but sometimes jerk off multiple times in a row or in a night. It happens. Whenever I rarely go so often that I can't produce jizz then I USUALLY find that my horniness goes away! Once in a while I am still horny after i have cummed so much I am "spent" (whether by jerking or by having sex). There is nothing wrong with being horny and not being able to jerk btw! Either bc you have jizzed too much or bc you don't have the privacy (be it in your house or at school) or just bc you are practicing self control - it is possible to be horny without doing anything about it!