Just wondering…

[Apple_ManPS3]

Hey! This is for both genders as a question from me that’s been on my mind for a while now.

Is there something I’m doing wrong or not experiencing because as I’ve seen on this community and communites in real life that people are getting oral/blowjobs and even having sex?

This is where my question is raised as I feel as if I’m ready. I want to have the experience; not to brag about it but just as one of those things that adds to you on a whole. I think I’m in a good state cause I’m 6ft 4in, 14 years old and I hate to sound stupid but I know how to ‘do it’ and what not from stuff I’ve learned and been told by the people that have experienced this stuff. I don’t want to also come across as just casually looking to get blown or jerked off becauae I don’t but I would just like to know how you guys have done that at like 12/13 years old and what braught you to doing it.

Thanks guys!

Chris

[ska8er]

Ur asking cause u read that a lot
of guys ur age r giving and getting.
Doesn't mean u have to. When the
time is right u will know it. Ive have
been experimenting between my best
friend and I. We have known each other
since we were 5. It started with watching
porn on the web. My ex girl and I messed
around with safe sex. The thing is u have
to know ur partner well enough to pleasure
each other. Don't expect a stranger or one
that u only know for a short time to go along
with u cause it wont work out. Find a good
friend or special girl that likes u to work things
out. Btw-ur a big Dude for 14 Bro.

[HardCandyGirl]

Don't worry, it's not a competition. Be pacient and proud of what you are.

[TheMagicPotato]

Don't rush things like this. Take your time, find the one.

Virginity is a serious thing. Ask yourself if you're ready for the consequences you can get from it and ask your partner about it.

[NZPerson]

Weow thats tall for a 14 yo

[Fourth]

Everybody has their own pace man, it's just a coincidence (or a lot of people here are lying, who knows?) that a lot of teens here had sexual experiences with others at an early age. I know you're excited and curious as to how that goes but you can't force it. Just hope and wait for the time that it will happen.

[LITTLEANGEL19]

Don't worry, it's not a competition. Be patient and proud of what you are.

I totally agree with Dani, it's NOT a competition and DONT give into peer pressure.

[Leena_2003]

I think I have said this before in another post, but like you, I feel like I am ready to have that experience. But I am definitely not going to do it just to be able to say I did it.

For me, I want it to be with the right guy and in a stable loving relationship, which I have not had so far. I don't know when that time will come, but I will wait for it.

Even when some days I feel like I am burning to do it, I can be patient and wait. Just because others are doing it doesn't mean you have to do it too just to "join the club".

Btw, in my group of friends, most in my school, I don't know about anyone doing it yet.

[scott2002]

Last school year, when I was 14, I had a girlfriend and we'd make out a lot but she refused to do lots of things, like oral and actually having sex. I was frustrated all the time, I started making demands on her (that she always refused) and we finally broke up. Then I realized that I was driving myself crazy just because I felt somehow I was "owed" these sexual things from other people.
My advice is the same as you're hearing from others. Stop worrying or obsessing over it. when the right time and person comes along it will happen. Don't be in a rush to feel something has to happen soon. It's not worth the mental energy.

[Apple_ManPS3]

Don't rush things like this. Take your time, find the one.

Virginity is a serious thing. Ask yourself if you're ready for the consequences you can get from it and ask your partner about it.

I’m not planning on doing intercourse but thanks for responding

[Apple_ManPS3]

I think I have said this before in another post, but like you, I feel like I am ready to have that experience. But I am definitely not going to do it just to be able to say I did it.

For me, I want it to be with the right guy and in a stable loving relationship, which I have not had so far. I don't know when that time will come, but I will wait for it.

Even when some days I feel like I am burning to do it, I can be patient and wait. Just because others are doing it doesn't mean you have to do it too just to "join the club".

Btw, in my group of friends, most in my school, I don't know about anyone doing it yet.


I understand what you’re getting at but it’s kids who get into that stuff that I hear about. I want it to be natural and unforced it’s just a matter of when and how. Because people are doing it at 12/13 and I don’t feel like a fit in with the demographic. Neither am I obsessed with this, it’s just now and then when I feel emotional.

[jamie_n5]

Your time will come when you find a friend or GF or BF and then the time will be right. Just cause others brag and say they are doing things doesn't mean that you have to rush and try doing it too. Be patient your time will come.

[KevinT]

Hey! This is for both genders as a question from me that’s been on my mind for a while now.

Is there something I’m doing wrong or not experiencing because as I’ve seen on this community and communites in real life that people are getting oral/blowjobs and even having sex?

This is where my question is raised as I feel as if I’m ready. I want to have the experience; not to brag about it but just as one of those things that adds to you on a whole. I think I’m in a good state cause I’m 6ft 4in, 14 years old and I hate to sound stupid but I know how to ‘do it’ and what not from stuff I’ve learned and been told by the people that have experienced this stuff. I don’t want to also come across as just casually looking to get blown or jerked off becauae I don’t but I would just like to know how you guys have done that at like 12/13 years old and what braught you to doing it.

Thanks guys!

Chris

I have to agree with you, most seems to have some experience at my age. Its not that I'm not ready or unwilling, trust me I am. But you need to find a gal who's willing as well :P

[samuel15]

Well first you need a partner then things will fall in Place on it's own.