GF will see me naked, what to do about pubes?

[House1]

Girlfriend will most likely see me naked soon (and I, her). I'm not sure what to do about my pubic hair though. Right now it's about 3mm long (0.12 inches).
Should I shave it all off or leave it as it is?
Please don't say I should ask her what she'd like...I'm not doing that.

I'm a 17 year old guy with 0 sexual experience.

[azurzg]

Leave it as it is!

[PinkFloyd]

If I were you, I'd keep it as it is. Going with the trimmed look is safest because it's a happy medium. If you wanted to get an electric shaver with a beard trimming function, that would knock the hair length down to 1 mm, which you could do too, but as long as you're in that 1-5 mm range, it's all the same.

[SeeEmilyPlay]

"Please don't say I should ask her what she'd like...I'm not doing that."

Why not?

[Ragle]

Please don't say I should ask her what she'd like...I'm not doing that. I'm a 17 year old guy with 0 sexual experience.

yeah, why not asking her?


A seventeen-year-old should be mature enough to ask his girlfriend. With or without sexual experience. Man up. Talking is the salt of a relationship anyway, if relationship is a soup.

[Leena_2003]

Just be yourself and don't worry about that so much. Once you have been naked with each other you can talk about that and decide if you want to change anything.

[Shiny Moon]

If you think that long pubes can be a problem, then trim them. Don't shave because if it's the first time you shave down there it may itch a lot the next day and your skin may get red.

[mick01]

Keep the pubes. Don't shave them.

[ska8er]

Ur nervous-no experience-ur anxious.
Keep ur pubes and b urself and things
will work out.

[EvaNL]

Just be yourself and don't worry about that so much. Once you have been naked with each other you can talk about that and decide if you want to change anything.

I agree. Be yourself and if she wants you to change your pubes, you can consider it. Don't just say Yes to everything she wants. Think about whether you would be comfortable with the change. If you are, do it; if not, don't.

[Just JT]

TBH I think everyone’s right in what they say probably as it relates to themselves
As far as what you should do....you seem concerned or something about it. If you are you probably aren’t ready to be nude with her, and most likely do what two people to alone together nude

It’s really nothing to worry about. Male it a conversation topic. Don’t brimf it up,if she’s curious about it she will

[INACTIVEchaosphere]

Leave it as it is, like others have said you'll be able to communicate about what you and the other like in a partner soon, I wouldn't worry about it.

[NewLeafsFan]

After you have been naked together, it will be much easier to have a conversation with her about stuff like that. Don't change anything yet though, because it could be for nothing.

[Abhorrence]

Literally it's not that important. Nobody cares once you get it on and if they do then you should say goodbye to them.

[SethfromMI]

Well I would just keep going with what you are doing now. Like my friend said ^, you don't have to change something you don't want to for someone else. That being said, when it comes to a relationship, esp a sexual one, it is also ok to consider doing things for the other person. my first gf liked it when I shaved down there. While I didn't mind shaving down there anyways, with all she was giving me, I didn't mind doing it to make her happy. But how your pubes look shouldn't make or break the experience for her or you so try not to worry about it. At least trim them to make them look nice and neat

[lliam]

Should I shave it all off or leave it as it is?

That's simple to solve.

If you into shaving, shave'em, if not - don't.
And if your GF likes it trimmed or shaved, don't mind to shave or trim.

[HardCandyGirl]

Girlfriend will most likely see me naked soon (and I, her). I'm not sure what to do about my pubic hair though.

Do what makes you feel more comfortable, so that you can enjoy the moment. It should be fun, not like you are in an exam. And be nice to her, she is going to be nervous too.

[samuel15]

Leave it! if it starts growing out after you shave it will just be uncomforteble and shard.

[Gvanni]

Try shaving, not only in thought of her but you might take a liking to it.

(your penis may also look more aesthetically pleasing with a nice trim, just saying)

[Harrier]

Be yourself. Never change for another person unless wht you are doing is harmful or stupid. Be comfortable in your own skin. She will like your confidence more than your pubes. You can shave your pubes if she REALLY wants them gone and you have no care about it. For mow though i would say I imagine you are happy with your pubes or else they would be different so keep it that way!

[Harrier]

Be yourself. Never change for another person unless wht you are doing is harmful or stupid. Be comfortable in your own skin. She will like your confidence more than your pubes. You can shave your pubes if she REALLY wants them gone and you have no care about it. For mow though i would say I imagine you are happy with your pubes or else they would be different so keep it that way!

[Beach_Blonde]

If it is super bushy and covers more then a quater of your penis when it is hard then you should trim it down to the base, ecspecially if you think there is going to be oral involved, nothing worse then sucking on pubes.

But otherwise leave it as is. I like seeing that my guys have hair down there.

[Beach_Blonde]

And honestly I think you should ask her what she perfers after your first time seeing each other, if she likes it how it is then do nothing, but if she wants it a little neater then make it neater.

Rember to be kind and that she is going to be super nervous too

[brightlight]

Just keep them

[Zachary G]

If youre not happy with the way your pubes look, try trimming them some so they aren't as long and sloppy looking. If you don't like that way that looks, you can always shave them if you prefer

[ShiningStar]

leave it as is and be proud of what you have :D

[Caycedilla]

I think you should do whatever you’re most comfortable with. That could mean shave, trim, or leave it as it is. Honestly though, if you’re at the point where you are ready for sex I don’t think you should overthink it. It’s shouldn’t be an issue with her if she cares about you.

[Stan0120]

I would say trim them but don't shave completely, so you have the option to go either way depending on what she likes. I always stay trimmed or else my penis would get lost :P

[Chris298]

I would keep them trimmed and neat looking but not shaved... You're 1( so I'm sure she would be surprised if you were completely smooth down there. 3 mm should be pretty good, trim them short around your penis, she wont want a mouthful of hair, and it does make you look a little bigger if hair isnt overshadowing you