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benlodge123
January 22nd, 2018, 01:39 PM
(possible extension to my previous post)

So its been 2 years since I have had a girlfriend. On Friday, I asked for this girl (Alice)'s snapchat, she gave it to me. We talked, facetimed ;) and all was absolutely brilliant. I felt like i had found someone I was ready to get closer with. She asked if i had feelings, I said a little (baring in mind we had only talked for 2 days) she said she didnt really have feelings. I was like sure, its still early on. We spoke all day on Sunday 21st Jan. then facetimed in the evening. Today, (monday) we spoke a little during the day, shes at secondary school (Year/Grade 11) i am in year 12 (college) shes 16 as am i.
I said hey this afternoon when I thought she would be home from school, shes said she was busy. i said okay, I will talk later. But all I can think about is when to message her later on, or whether I should wait for her to message, because after all, its normally a great sign if a girl messages you first. I can't stop thinking about talking later on. I think she's at her friends. But a little bit of me thinks she is at another boys house. :( I don't know this so i can't hold it against her.
I dont have much experience in girls, I dont want to be annoying which is why I am worrying and thinking about whether to wait or not! :(
Any ideas what i can do to stop CONSTANTLY thinking about her. Ahaha. :)

ska8er
January 22nd, 2018, 06:31 PM
I think u r being too desperate. U might
b turning her off. Ur expecting too much
too soon.

NewLeafsFan
January 23rd, 2018, 03:56 AM
You need to take a big step back. You are moving very fast and she isn't. Don't be concerned; you'll find that girls always want to move slower than guys. I think that if she had a guy in her life she probably would have told you about it when she said she didn't have feelings. The fact that she asked makes me think that she thinks of you in that way. My advice is to only message her first twice a week or less and see if she tries initiating contact.

jamie_n5
January 26th, 2018, 09:13 PM
In the first place you don't need to be in a big hurry or go balls to the wall into her. You may scare her off or piss her off.
Don't be so uptight and worried. Just be yourself and be polite. Ask if you can meet sometime when you are both free and get to know each other better.