Your Ideas on Why Penis Size isnt Important

[varun.karma]

I know everybody is different and some think size matters and size doesn't matter but personally i have my own take on it.

I don't really think that having a LARGER penis changes how good sex feels compared to a SMALLER penis but i do think that having a larger member and knowing you do so gives you a SUPER LARGE confident boost.

And i guess like if you have a large confident boost during sex you would most likely perform more to standard or better, right?

Girls and boys please tell me if i am wrong or right and what you think about it

[TessTheGreat]

I have no idea tbh. But since things like that are genetic it must mean that small ones work just as well as big ones or all men would have evolved to be huge! So I guess that size doesn't matter.

[NZPerson]

Well i mean ive got a well above average size which i know from talking to people on here and also with my friends camping n stuff buti have always been insecure about my ody so itskinda counter acted. I mean like i have a nice dick dont get my wrong but im abit skinny but not quite 6 pack abs skinny so yeah anyway its not helped me a gret deal haha.

[Tom_theflash]

Penis size is only relative to manhood, pride and confidence. We have the illusion of pride in our minds because it is in our nature to dominate, the bigger the manhood, the bigger the man (more confident, and dominant). But what is this really relative too? Social views..it's not the penis size, its the confidence you get from the size, the more confident, the more dominant. Confidence is in the eye of the beholder, you can get just as much, if not more pride out of having a smaller penis, and knowing how to use it, then you can having a big penis. By taking responsibility for your own confidence, rather than looking to social approval regarding what makes what, you're actually more confident, because you stand out and are proud you don't measure up to the bullshit that society tells us is right. Were only human. Society has warped and twisted what determines a persons confidence so badly, and this erodes on people because we feel we don't live up to the bill, or fit in.

[ska8er]

I know everybody is different and some think size matters and size doesn't matter but personally i have my own take on it.

I don't really think that having a LARGER penis changes how good sex feels compared to a SMALLER penis but i do think that having a larger member and knowing you do so gives you a SUPER LARGE confident boost.

And i guess like if you have a large confident boost during sex you would most likely perform more to standard or better, right?

Girls and boys please tell me if i am wrong or right and what you think about it

I think u have a good logic. A larger penis I think
would give one a little bit more confidence but it
depends on the partner. Some would just b glad
to have sex rather than those who think that some
thing larger would satisfy them more.

[ImJulia]

I really do not think it is important

[lliam]

Because already a size of, lets take randomly 12 cm, are sufficient to father children. If one has more, one will not be much more successful as a other guy with those 12 cm - but he'll remain just a show off if size matters so much to him.

[mick01]

I have never once considered or felt that the size of my penis contributed to the quality of the sex I have had. And I have never stopped to think that my confidence was boosted because of my dick size. I have enjoyed the sex I have had because I was really attracted to the person I was having sex with (except for one).
Its really ridiculous to suggest that you'll be more confident, and therefore perform better, the bigger your dick.
So you are suggesting that if you have a 4" dick, you'll perform substandardly? You're wrong dude. And it's really insulting to those who have a smaller penis.

[jamie_n5]

I suppose that having a larger penis could give you a boost in confidence. But personally I think that if you are happy and confident in yourself as a whole you will be okay with your sexual performance also. I would say however if you had a tiny penis that it might affect you quite a bit in your confidence in yourself.

[BlackParadePixie]

Being confident in your size doesn't have anything to do with your performance in bed. Just because you have a large one, doesn't automatically mean that you're going to be good when it comes to sex...it just doesn't work like that. Good sex is about technique and well, really...repetition...and knowing what your partner wants and needs, none of which has anything to do with size, or being cocky about having a big one.

[Turbofan explosion]

Having a just right (Not too long or too short) is okay. I personally think girth is more important than length.

[ska8er]

Being confident in your size doesn't have anything to do with your performance in bed. Just because you have a large one, doesn't automatically mean that you're going to be good when it comes to sex...it just doesn't work like that. Good sex is about technique and well, really...repetition...and knowing what your partner wants and needs, none of which has anything to do with size, or being cocky about having a big one.

I agree with what u say. I think u said it all.

[Harrier]

Penis size is only relative to manhood, pride and confidence. We have the illusion of pride in our minds because it is in our nature to dominate, the bigger the manhood, the bigger the man (more confident, and dominant). But what is this really relative too? Social views..it's not the penis size, its the confidence you get from the size, the more confident, the more dominant. Confidence is in the eye of the beholder, you can get just as much, if not more pride out of having a smaller penis, and knowing how to use it, then you can having a big penis. By taking responsibility for your own confidence, rather than looking to social approval regarding what makes what, you're actually more confident, because you stand out and are proud you don't measure up to the bullshit that society tells us is right. Were only human. Society has warped and twisted what determines a persons confidence so badly, and this erodes on people because we feel we don't live up to the bill, or fit in.

Wow! This is really well put!!!

I DO believe that penis size gives me confidence! That said, the confidence I had when I was losing my virginity only got me so far. I was still nervous and not positive I would perform as well as I (and she) wanted. So while I am glad my penis size gave me some confidence, it's not enough to have perfect confidence. And who's to say someone with a small or even average penis doesn't have confidence in his abilities? Finally it's not all about confidence. If a guy has low self esteem in general, and in his size, and in his performance, if he is with a girl that is willing to be with him with all his strengths and weaknesses it shouldn't matter.

[DanielleIU]

Neither size nor confidence has anything to do with performance.

[Anniebanannie]

I think you may have the question backwards. Why WOULD size matter?

[Stanley02]

In my experience, as someone with a small penis, girls who liked me before would immediately see me in a worse light after seeing the size of my penis. Everyone says it doesn’t matter but they usually have big dicks so it is easy for them to say. When you are outsized by someone who hasn’t even hit puberty yet it can really damage your confidence as well

[Jericho14]

I’m pretty sure technique is the most important

[NudistFun]

Again, size does matter to an extent. The longer and thicker a penis is, the more nerve endings it is going to stimulate in a vagina.

There is a wide range of penis sizes that are pleasurable, and there is a range past which sex can be unpleasant because it hurts or is uncomfortable and there is a range past which the penis is too small to stimulate much.

[Ethan19]

I think size does matter to a degree, just based off anatomical fact for intercourse. At the same time I agree with your comment on confidence (larger = more confidence off the bat) , but not that it would hinder the performance nor confidence of a person with a smaller penis.

[WeebOOF]

I believe you should just appreciate and respect the body you have, dont feel ashamed be confident in yourself and ignore anyone who does disrespect it!

[Spooky_Eli]

Having a just right (Not too long or too short) is okay. I personally think girth is more important than length.
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