i think she may be having second thoughts

[Henry333]

people who visit the website frequently have probably seen my previous threads about me being a needy boyfriend and obessing over my gf. well recently ive taken a bit of a step back and it just feels like maybe she actually is having second thoughts. recently when weve talked she hasn't been as open as she has been before, and she hasn't said that she loves me in a long time. we used to when we said goodnight or something but now shell just say goodnight then leave it at that. this is both of our first relationship. I think she could just be rethinking being in a relationship because it worries me because I care about her. I just want things to be the way they were and I want to know why they changed. I don't know whats really happened. also ive asked to meet up a few times, even before I decided to take a bit of a step back. shes always busy. granted I do believe her that shes busy because I trust her but she never tries to re-arrange. I just want to meet up and talk to her yet she seems to avoid me.
or alternatively I could be overthinking this whole thing because I'm obsessive and I really don't want anything bad to happen in this relationship.

[ska8er]

The relationship seems to b cooling.
I think the best way to find out y she
is being distant is to ask her. From her
response u will know if she continues to
like u or not. Maybe ur too obsessive with
her even tho u say u took it a step back.
I would lay off for awhile. She may have
some personal probs that she is dealing
with and a steady relationship right now
is not on her mind.

[NewLeafsFan]

people who visit the website frequently have probably seen my previous threads about me being a needy boyfriend and obessing over my gf. well recently ive taken a bit of a step back and it just feels like maybe she actually is having second thoughts. recently when weve talked she hasn't been as open as she has been before, and she hasn't said that she loves me in a long time. we used to when we said goodnight or something but now shell just say goodnight then leave it at that. this is both of our first relationship. I think she could just be rethinking being in a relationship because it worries me because I care about her. I just want things to be the way they were and I want to know why they changed. I don't know whats really happened. also ive asked to meet up a few times, even before I decided to take a bit of a step back. shes always busy. granted I do believe her that shes busy because I trust her but she never tries to re-arrange. I just want to meet up and talk to her yet she seems to avoid me.
or alternatively I could be overthinking this whole thing because I'm obsessive and I really don't want anything bad to happen in this relationship.

I think that you need to give us more information. How long have you been together? How long has she been acting distant? Do you want to be with her even if she doesn't want to be with you?

[Henry333]

We've been together 4 months now and it's been on the last month things gave seemed different. And if she doesn't want to be with me, I want her to be happy so I don't want her to be involved in something she doesn't want to be involved in

[jamie_n5]

Well I think you had the right idea with a talk. You need to get her to meet up with you and talk things out. She may want to break up with you but doesn't have the courage to tell you. You need to talk soon.