Scared we won’t end well. Should we still date?

[deepcarter78]

I’ve heard people say that when you love someone, you have to be prepared to let them go someday. This thought has been stuck in my head in all of my relationships. In hindsight, I think this is why it never worked out with my previous girlfriends. I tried going on a romance tour thinking I wasn’t compatible with any local girl in my hometown. Then, I met this girl from the tour and so far, we are doing okay.
The problem though is that I’m worried that our relationship wouldn’t end well and I would end up heartbroken. It’s not that I’m being pessimistic about this it’s just that I always had this fear in my head since then. Should I continue dating my girlfriend even though I know I would have to let them go someday? A relationship is already hard as it is. I know long distance relationships would be even harder.
I need legit advice on how to overcome my fear. What assurance do I have that things would be okay? Please help me.

[ska8er]

I think ur problem is that u keep
thinking that a relationship is not
going to work and not enjoying ur
relationship at the moment. Seems
like ur defeated before u even start
to date. Idk if u consider urself not
worthy that something is holding u
back. U have to give ur all in who u
r dating at the moment and forget
if someday it will end in a breakup.
Once u get over this then maybe u
will b able to get over ur fear.

[NewLeafsFan]

The reality is that all relationships end in the couple separating or one person dying. So I guess that chances are you aren't yet dating the person that you will eventually grow old with. But that doesn't mean you shouldn't try. If you never try, you'll never find that person. Date brings a lot of hard times and a lot of good times. Unless you have a really good reason to believe that this person and you won't work out, my advice is to keep dating. Just remember that you have to lose people in order to make room in your life for more important ones.

[Dalcourt]

Closing this since OP is banned