What if you found out your boyfriend/girlfriend and their family were nudists?

[NudistFun]

How would you react, especially if they somehow were able to keep it a secret until you've been dating for about a year?

[eric2001]

If you have a bf or gf you're supposed to share everything so keeping any secret isn't really right. But he/she might be embarrased about it or the family rule may be to keep it private.

[NudistFun]

If you have a bf or gf you're supposed to share everything so keeping any secret isn't really right. But he/she might be embarrased about it or the family rule may be to keep it private.

Thanks for the response but it doesn't really answer the question.

And just to clear things up this is a hypothetical. I am always upfront with anyone I date, but I usually only date nudists anyway.

[eric2001]

Thanks for the response but it doesn't really answer the question.

And just to clear things up this is a hypothetical. I am always upfront with anyone I date, but I usually only date nudists anyway.

I'd be fine with it and would join in. Maybe I'd like being a nudist.

[Abyssal Echo]

I'm a pretty open minded person... I'd be fine with it...I'd try it... if it worked out great if not that's fine too.

[ska8er]

Id probably ask if we can all go
on a picnic. But really I wouldn't
mind. If they don't find anything
wrong with going nude and my
hypothetical girlfriend was not
embarrassed by it then y not.

[Tim the Enchanter]

I think I'd be a bit weirded out.

[Fourth]

First I'll be asking her why didn't she tell me about her family and their preference since that is an important thing know when you're dating. After we cleared things out, of course I will support their preference. I will be respectful, maybe try it out too once I get past being kinda awkward at first.

[mick01]

I would probably be bothered that she/he waited so long to tell me. But I'd be open to trying it out.

[Animal3393]

I think I’d be concerned she didn’t mention it before, but I’d try and understand why she didn’t. Might take me a while before I were willing to try it though but I don’t see a problem with it as long as she were comfortable.

[NewLeafsFan]

How would you react, especially if they somehow were able to keep it a secret until you've been dating for about a year?

I'm really curious, which side of this situation are you on? Are you the nudist or is your partner?

[Harrier]

The PC thing is to say you're suposed to accept everything if you love the person right? That's what everyone always says including girls on here when guys have small dicks ... Girls always answer "if you love the person, it doesn't matter."

Personally for me I would love it since I have been to nude beaches and nude resorts even tho I don't consider myself a nudist.

For the average person I think the first question is why was it a secret for a year. Secondly the person may have to then decide if they can love that lifestyle. And if no, the nudist would have to decide if they could live with the non nudist if they were close to 18 cuz before then you're just dating for fun and who cares but after 18 you have to decide if your lifestyles are compatable

[lliam]

Just would ask them: Why?

[rioo]

I'm cool with that. As long as we can understanding each other.

[NudistFun]

I'm really curious, which side of this situation are you on? Are you the nudist or is your partner?

Well if you look at my username that should give you a clue ;)

But I just asked to get a discussion started. I am always upfront since I wont date someone long term who doesn't end up enjoying the things I do, especially something that is such a big part of my life

[Henry333]

id expect to be open about our lives so I would be surprised if they hadn't already shared that fact

[EvaNL]

I don't think (s)he would be able to keep it a secret for a year. Especially after I have been intimate with someone, my clothes stay/go off quite quickly, so in other situations than sex too. And we'd talk about being/staying nude around each other. The next step towards them saying to be a nudist is easy.

[NewLeafsFan]

Well if you look at my username that should give you a clue ;)

But I just asked to get a discussion started. I am always upfront since I wont date someone long term who doesn't end up enjoying the things I do, especially something that is such a big part of my life

Well I would be really upset. I don't expect any girl to write me a copy of their autobiography but the big things should be mentioned well before the first anniversary.

Also, don't make the nudist thing something that you hold against guys. You aren't looking for an identical twin; you're looking for someone that you love that fits into your life. Gloves aren't identical to hands so you just have to find one that fits.

[NudistFun]

Well I would be really upset. I don't expect any girl to write me a copy of their autobiography but the big things should be mentioned well before the first anniversary.

Also, don't make the nudist thing something that you hold against guys. You aren't looking for an identical twin; you're looking for someone that you love that fits into your life. Gloves aren't identical to hands so you just have to find one that fits.

I like your gloves quote!!

However, the "nudist thing" is a big part of my life, friends, events, volleyball tournaments, vacation destinations. There are things you are okay being different from your S/O and there are things you are not.

For me, this is one :)

[NewLeafsFan]

I like your gloves quote!!

However, the "nudist thing" is a big part of my life, friends, events, volleyball tournaments, vacation destinations. There are things you are okay being different from your S/O and there are things you are not.

For me, this is one :)

Thank you! I actually made it up on the spot!

I just mean that sometimes it's important to have something outside of your relationship that is yours. Not every experience has to be shared.

[Just JT]

Think I’d be a little pissed off and hurt they didn’t share such an important life style thing in their life with me straight up. I get it some people don’t like it and wouldn’t get into it, but think that’s different

A relationship is built on trust. Not hiding shit.

Not saying it need to be said from day 1 but after a year?
That’s to long and I’d think if you were hiding something like that for a year from me then....what else?

[Susan 12]

not into nidists

[Caycedilla]

We wouldn’t be dating anymore. That’s not something I want to be a part of or be around sorry

[DanielleIU]

Guess I'd be surprised, but not offended in any way. I don't find nudity offensive or even sexual for that matter. But since we live in a rather puritanical society, I would understand why a bf might be reluctant to reveal that until there was a higher level of trust over time.

[NudistFun]

Thank you! I actually made it up on the spot!

I just mean that sometimes it's important to have something outside of your relationship that is yours. Not every experience has to be shared.

I agree, but some things HAVE to be shared, as well.

[SeeEmilyPlay]

How would you react, especially if they somehow were able to keep it a secret until you've been dating for about a year?

I'd ask if I can join some time, honestly.

[samuel15]

if I Went home to them and all of them were naked i Think i would first enjoy it
but also awkward as hell, I guess i would try to keep the relationship at my
place

[KevinT]

Hard to tell, but I guess if she grew up in that environment, I guess it would be kind of mean to hold it against her. I'm not sure I would partake tough. And I guess some honesty and ground rules must be discussed. Is it only the family, is it just about anyone? Maybe your partner would feel unconfortable.

[kro814]

I have on line nudist on line friends. The only thing that would make be nervous is being naked in front of girls.

[NudistFun]

We wouldn’t be dating anymore. That’s not something I want to be a part of or be around sorry

Your humans must be covered in cloth of some type or you refuse to interact. Got it! ;)

[Neha13]

Interesting

[NudistFun]

Interesting

It is :)

[NudistFun]

We wouldn’t be dating anymore. That’s not something I want to be a part of or be around sorry

Why not?:confused:

[Jake445]

While I think that's something that you should tell your partner a bit sooner, It wouldn't bother me. Being nude is relaxing and fun although neither I nor my family are nudists.

[Stan0120]

I'd honestly be interested by it, as I've never met anyone who practices that lifestyle in person. I'd maybe even be open to trying it out, but I'd probably be super nervous going naked around her family or at a resort b/c of my dick size. I know nudists typically don't judge, but I'd probably be sporting about 1 inch flaccid..

[NudistKid]

If someone met me and I told them I was a nudist if they weren’t comfortable with it I’d wear clothes around them and hopefully after a while they would see that it isn’t bad at all