Bi, or Curious...?

[Sweeney05]

I am very confused about my sexuality. I know I am attracted to girls. There's no question about that. But I also have an attraction to guys that isn't anywhere near as strong as my attraction to women. I don't know if I'm bi or if it's just my puberty driven hormones making me curious.

[azurzg]

Stop being confused and enjoy your sexuality, no matter what it is.

Relax, enjoy, take it easy; and don't do things you're not comfortable with.

[ska8er]

Ur hormones r messing with
ur head. Just enjoy urself and
for now quit thinking if ur this
or that. Being curious is just
natural.

[SethfromMI]

It could very well just be the hormones of puberty and those feelings may come in and out during it or completely go away during it/after puberty. You could be legit curious and find out once/if you ever try anything with a guy you are no longer curious and guys aren't for you. You may discover as time passes you are indeed bisexual and are sexually attracted to girls and guys like I am. Try not to worry about labeling yourself. It is ok to be confused, it is natural to be confused at times. Take your time in figuring things out. There is no time limit to do so. Furthermore, you might find out in your confusion the conclusion you came to might slightly change and that's ok too.

[azurzg]

Try not to worry about labeling yourself.

Exactly. Labels are for jars, not for people.

[mick01]

I would agree with the others. But if you have the opportunity to do something with a boy that you have some attraction for, I would do that if I were you. Just to give you some idea of how much you liked it, or not.

[thatrandomguy01]

I think most boys and girls go through a phase around when they start puberty where they have these new feelings (although they might deny it) and feel like you do now and most eventually grow out of it. I think you are straight and it's just puberty/hormones. But there is also the chance that you really are bi, which is fine as well. I went through that phase. IF you read a number of posts on this site, you will see a lot of boys who are straight experimented with other boys when they were teens out of curiosity, but eventually grew out of it.

[Vegas2933]

I'm against labels also, but if you're hellbent on discovering your true sexuality, you should experiment. :)

[kro814]

At 13 I think you are too young to label yourself.

[Falcons_11]

I don't think that there is anything wrong about having sexual feeling for both boys and girls. You have a long time to sort things out for yourself. Meanwhile, if you have the opportunities to experiment with both sexes, then go for it. Then, when you are older and more mature, you can decided your sexuality. Good luck.

[wrestleboy13]

I feel like you. I love it when I wank my friends and they wank me. But I like to finger girls as well

[Exiros]

It's ok to explore new things, don't worry.

[NewLeafsFan]

My guess would be that it is just hormones. When I was 13 I kinda went through a bi phase where everything sexual was a huge turn on for me. The fact that it sounds like you strongly prefer females make me think that you will lose the attraction to guys and consider yourself straight in a few years.

[TWDjacob]

You are just young and trying to figure yourself out still, try not to think about it and just be yourself!

[ilc.69]

It could be just hormones, or maybe ur just curious to experiment with the same sex, etc. Don't worry or think too much about it; I mean, don't go crazy over it, it's gonna be bad for you, trust me on that. Just do what you feel, and don't be scared about being you, even though it may seem so. Good luck dude!!

[Southern_Cheer]

I am trying to figure out this same thing but im more intrested in girls but also intrested in boys....like i have no idea what i am

i keep getting told to just go with it that its probably just hormones driving me towards what i have the easiest access too but im not sure if that can be entirely belived

[SilverSM]

Ok see for me I don't see bisexuality as a clear 50-50 divide on attraction to boys and girls.

I identify as bi but Im not equally attracted to boys and girls. I consider myself attracted to boys 90% of the time and girls 10%.

Bisexuality doesnt necessarily mean half, it just means two. So if you are bi, don't think that you have to be attracted to both equally. You can always be more attracted to girls than guys.

of course it can also be just your hormones so try to experiment, you can watch porn but I don't think that really helps in the matter. So just wait for a while, no one is expecting you to announce your sexuality any time soon, just wait it out and figure it out on your own terms

[fidgetykid]

i like girls but i am a little curious as well i guess i am not sure yet

[BryGuy]

Curiosity is normal. Exploring is part of the fun

[BluePi]

Don't label yourself for now just, enjoy your sexuality the way you feel comfortable

[Brandon618]

I also don't like labels, but I know I'm gay curious. Have a lot of feelings for guys but also enjoy spending time with girls. I have had some experience with boys but none with girls and so far enjoy it.

[Sofiya02]

Don’t worry too much. There’s no need to get confused. Just enjoy what u like and you’ll learn more about yourself in time.

[MasinoD]

I also don't like labels, but I know I'm gay curious. Have a lot of feelings for guys but also enjoy spending time with girls. I have had some experience with boys but none with girls and so far enjoy it.

Hi Brandon i am the same i think. Gay/curious, but i like spending time with girls as well. i guess it's just getting comfortable with ourselves?