Still on that inappropriate crush

[SadLove]

I still am thinking about the girl that I am 3.5 years older than. I have posted about this before, saying i am getting over it but im not.:mad::wub: . I am a freshmen in high school, she is in 6th grade. I won't be able to see her anymore due to some things between our families, who weren't all to close in the first place, my dad has known her dad forever. The problem is she is always on my mind. She is absoloutly amazing. What can I do. HELP!

[ImagineRepublicCity]

Currently, you would probably have to wait it out. When you're in school, people find it weird to go out with people which are 2+ years apart I think. It really does depend on maturity, which is why when you get older, it doesn't matter if there's a 5 year gap between the couple for example.
If you like her, you will have to wait it out, if you want to forget about her, you have to make yourself forget, not tell yourself "I'm not going to like her anymore" and talk to her constantly. You would need to give yourself a break. If you break of any ways of communication and only talk to her when she talks to you (and then, casual), it normally works. Then you can talk to her more often again.
It's tough to forget people, I know, but it's your decision whether or not you want anything to happen.

[radsniper]

yeah i agree wait it out

[ninja789]

Currently, you would probably have to wait it out. When you're in school, people find it weird to go out with people which are 2+ years apart I think. It really does depend on maturity, which is why when you get older, it doesn't matter if there's a 5 year gap between the couple for example.
If you like her, you will have to wait it out, if you want to forget about her, you have to make yourself forget, not tell yourself "I'm not going to like her anymore" and talk to her constantly. You would need to give yourself a break. If you break of any ways of communication and only talk to her when she talks to you (and then, casual), it normally works. Then you can talk to her more often again.
It's tough to forget people, I know, but it's your decision whether or not you want anything to happen.

I'm sorry but I think she has got this spot on

[mrpieface2]

Yeah I agree, I would wait it out.

[ScottishCanary]

Yeah I would definitely advise you wait it out. If you are 15 and judging by the age gap she must be about 12 there's definitely a level of innapropriateness. Doesn't mean that you are wrong or bad for feeling the weay you do, these things happen, but realism has to set in as well. Wait it out at least a couple of years (which I know seems AAAGES) and see how you feel when she's a little older.

[xandyx]

Maybe find someone your own age for now, and if your meant to be you'll hook up later. Plenty of fish in the sea, bro. 6th and 9th are kinda far apart tho don't you think? Do you have a lot in common?

[Croconaw]

You can wait until you're older. You'll be twenty and she'll be seventeen. That will be much easier than moving on, right?

[Body odah Man]

You gotta wait sadly. Atm you two are too young for such an age gap relationship. Soon, however, it'll be different. Wait a few years