when do you become a pure man?

[Blond1999]

that´s something i´ve always wondered about... i thought that when you first eyaculated cum you become a man but i don´t know...

does someone knows the answer??!

[Hermes]

I am not sure there is one answer, i.e. there isn't any one thing that instantly turns you from a boy into a man. First of all there is the fact that development from being a baby to being an adult is a gradual thing over many years with changes both in your body, in what you can do, and in how you think over all that time. Then there is the fact that manhood as a concept is a social thing as well a physical thing, i.e. it is about how you behave and relate to people as well as about your body.

As an example, a little while ago I was critical of someone on here who posted to say that he had got several girls pregnant, and seemed to see that as a badge of honour, and yet he wasn't a father and, when I enquired, he said that some of those girls had abortions and some has miscarriages so the former certainly weren't ready to be mums at that time. On the one hand you could say he was engaging in typical adult male behaviour in sowing his seed far and wide and if he was of some other species than human we'd probably leave it at that but our social views about what constitutes manhood demand a degree of responsibly and most of us would see what he says he did as juvenile rather than manly behaviour.

But I think I do understand where you are coming from. Ejaculation does feel like something that very central and fundamental to what it feels like to be a man. It would be difficult to think of yourself as a man without being able to do that. My point is that it isn't the only thing. Even thinking physically, if you were 12 years old and had just ejaculated for the first time but hadn't reached adult size in either height, dick size or muscle development, didn't have an adult-sounding voice etc. would you still say you were a man?

None of that means, of course, that you shouldn't feel good about being able to do it.

[lliam]

above 30 something

[jamie_n5]

First in all your posts you spell ejaculation like this not eyaculation.
I would guess by pure man you mean a grown man. If I were to define a pure or grown man I would say a male in his early 20's that has matured both physically and mentally. That would be what I would say.

[Hermes]

above 30 something

So someone could be fully grown, have finished college, got himself a job, a house , a wife and started a family and still be too young to be called a man?

[Ragle]

That's a matter of definition. Some may be pure men at the age of 17, others may never reach that goal even if they are over 90 years old.

[RickySparks]

That cannot be defined really, some people believe you become a man when you get a beard, others believe it's when you get out of college, when you get a job, when you get taller, fatter etc.

[Just JT]

I’ll assume this is about becoming a man, or something like that
It’s not an age, it’s not about puberty, ejaculation, or when you finish college, those are characteristics of a mature adult.

A while ago someone did a post about being a father. Father vs. Dad type of thread. A little off topic but not much really.

When you can wake up in the morning on time go through your day doing those things you NEED to do, not what you want to do, becuse of your responsibilities, when you can openly admit your faults, accept constructive criticism, as well as offer it when it’s needed, and staying quiet when it’s not, and knowing the difference.

When your family, friends, team mates, boss, whomever comes to you for help and you hands down give it your all no matter what that means for you (as long as it’s safe) accept their need for help. When you just do the “right thing” when you could just as easily do what’s better for you. Like if you find a wallet with a bunch of cash in it. You return it to the rightful owner.

When you can take care of yourself, your family, financially physically, emotionally, and to foster good moral standards others can follow, that’s when you become a man.

Just my opinion, not someasy huh?

[scott2002]

I don't think we ever become "a pure man" until we die.
I'm admittedly a person that believes there is a God and an afterlife. Maybe not specifically a separate heaven and a hell, but a place were your spirit, now separated from your body continues to exist. And in that afterlife our spirit we will be in the presence of God.
We all have flaws. We hurt other people, we lie to them, take advantage of them, and sometimes some men even rape them or kill them. We also have the capacity to be kind and loving and generous, and to care deeply for others.
To me, being a "pure man" would be a time when we displayed all of the good parts of being a human and none of the bad parts. And that just doesn't exist in our physical lifetime.

[Turbofan explosion]

Like I think above 25 or something. Like around the average age where you are out of college, have a job (For your main income), and start to have children.

[ska8er]

Yeah when u can first ejaculate u may b
able to conceive a baby but that doesn't
mean that u become a man. It takes more
to b a man than to reproduce. U can b 17
or 30 and still not take responsibility for ur
actions.

[INACTIVEchaosphere]

that´s something i´ve always wondered about... i thought that when you first eyaculated cum you become a man but i don´t know...

does someone knows the answer??!
A grown man is someone who is sexually/phsyically mature, IE capable of fertile sex, but more so a man is someone who is emotionally mature enough to use that ability among others with restraint and decency.

[samuel15]

I would say that you become a man when you feel like one, there is not much more to it.
When you are ready you will know it. It hasn't happen to me but i know that i am on my
way.

[NewLeafsFan]

I don't think that there is a certain age or event when that happens. I think that it is a state of mind. It doesn't happen overnight. You just get to a point where you are more than a teenager or kid.