Caught by dad

[crushinator]

So without telling a story let's just say dad caught me beating my meat and um it got super awkward. No sure what to do now. Suggestions? This happen to anybody else?

[elfin]

Eek. That's awkward. If I were you, I'd just wait for a bit, clean up, etc. and ignore it for a while. If he mentions it, I'd apologize for the tension (not for masturbating though) between you and work something out so it won't happen again. (I.e. he'll now knock and wait for a response before entering your room and things like that.) If he doesn't bring it up, you can either move on and forget it or you can confront him yourself. Good luck! :clover:

[kyrocks03]

Move on and forget about it, as embarrassing as it was. Gain comfort in the fact that he beats his meat too.

[elfin]

Move on and forget about it, as embarrassing as it was. Gain comfort in the fact that he beats his meat too.

xD yeah, that works too.

[bojack]

Never happened to me, but i can guess it was pretty awkward. Ultimately though, I would suggest putting it behind you, its not like it would have negative consequences or negatively impact your relationship

[Laxguy15]

Don't sweat it too much. Just try to move on from it and go about your business.

[mick01]

He probably walked out of the room and said, "that;s my boy" lol. He has done it a thousand times. How could he criticize you?

[Fritz]

So without telling a story let's just say dad caught me beating my meat and um it got super awkward. No sure what to do now. Suggestions? This happen to anybody else?

Mate just dont bring it up, and act like nothing happened

[varun.karma]

So without telling a story let's just say dad caught me beating my meat and um it got super awkward. No sure what to do now. Suggestions? This happen to anybody else?

Your dad mustve beat his meat too when he was your age lmao dont worry just act like nothing happened and move on

[NewLeafsFan]

Never happened to me. Do you feel the need to talk about it? If so, I would bring it up and if not try to forget about it.

[jack.]

Just pretend it never happened and go on as normal, i mean it's never happened to me so i couldn't say what i would do but that sounds like a good bet to me

[Fourth]

I have been caught masturbating more than once and my dad never brought it up after he caught me. Nothing to worry about that, just proceed to do things normally as you would.

[RickySparks]

It's fine! Nearly everyone gets caught in the act at some point by different people. I'm sure he'll understand cause he probably knows that boys will be boys. And he would probably understand your situation.

[SeansLittleBro]

He probably walked out of the room and said, "that;s my boy" lol. He has done it a thousand times. How could he criticize you?

Exactly!! Our dads were our age b4 and sure that they did the same and still do....just cause you are married and getting older doesn't mean they don't enjoy what they did as a kid....let it go ...our dad caught my brother and I masturbating a few years ago ...looked, walked out and later brought us to him and just told us to lock our door as he didn't want my mom to walk in on us some day...that was it....

[Axrow]

Depends, did he say anything to you?

[Falcons_11]

It was an awkward moment for both of you. But I wouldn't worry much about it. Your dad may, or may not, talk to you about it. After all, he was a teen once and beat off when he was your age. Maybe, your granddad caught him beating off and he was just as embarrassed as you were. Just move on, Bro.

[swimjoey1]

So without telling a story let's just say dad caught me beating my meat and um it got super awkward. No sure what to do now. Suggestions? This happen to anybody else?

Just let it be.. I bet your dad did the same thing when he was a teen. My mom found my cum rag a few months ago when she went in my room to get my dirty laundry. I was worried too, but she didn’t say anything about it.

[kyrocks03]

Just let it be.. I bet your dad did the same thing when he was a teen. My mom found my cum rag a few months ago when she went in my room to get my dirty laundry. I was worried too, but she didn’t say anything about it.

I was spoken to by dad regarding jizzing in my underwear. My mum didn't appreciate the stains ... Mum never uttered a word and I stopped doing it.

[Chefzg]

Don't sweat it I would try to move on

[jamie_n5]

Just let it go. Your dad most likely knew you masturbated anyway he just never caught you doing it before. I doubt he will say anything about it to you.

[mick01]

So without telling a story let's just say dad caught me beating my meat and um it got super awkward. No sure what to do now. Suggestions? This happen to anybody else?

Have you gotten past the awkwardness?

[wrestleboy13]

My dad caught me as well, he told me most guys do it and its normal

[RickySparks]

It's your dad. He probably understands and remembers when he was your age too.

[ashdaniel]

I got caught by my dad few time but only once caught eye to eye. Few time he left after he caught me. It is super awkward but my dad just okay cool and act nothing happen.

[Blond1999]

fortunately i havent

[rohancool]

That would have been awkward but I think he understands as he was a teenager too. Mostly he would act as nothing had happened and you should act the same way. He might also ask if you want "the talk".

[SwimmerDudeJR]

Like your dad never jacked off back in his day.

[Zachary G]

Ive been caught by my dad but it was under different circumstances, but I would say just go on with life as usual - act if nothing ever happened. If he doesnt say anything, neither should you.

[wheredidyousleeplast]

It's happened to me. Dad was super chill about it. It's not like he doesn't do it either.

[Jeff1857]

Been caught and dad was chill. All guys masturbate. If he does not bring it up just let it go.

[abc91]

it was awkward for both of you so just let it go and youll both move on!

[ItsFootballnotSoccer]

As long as neither of you bring it up, just move past the awkwardness. Life goes on

[zzzzzzzzzz]

It happens. I not been caught. I'd be far more embarrassed if my mum were to catch me!

[scott2002]

You're 14. He knew you were most likely doing it long before he saw you. Because like everyone has said. He did it when he as 14, too.
But I'm going to add, this would be a GREAT opportunity to be able to really father-and-son bond with him if you have anything else about sex or your body you're confused or worried about. "Dad, I was embarrassed as all heck that you saw me...you know...messin' with myself. But since you saw what I was doing, there are a couple of other things I've been worried about. Could I ask you some questions?"

[Hockeystar2020]

Just dont bring it up and it doesn’t say anything forget about t

[SethfromMI]

As others have said he already knew you masturbated and he himself has and most likely still does as well. If he doesn't say anything then I wouldn't say anything either. If for some reason he does bring it up, it would be the perfect time to ask for more privacy, which I am going to guess he won't even need you to ask him about anymore haha

[Anthony17]

Move on and forget about it, as embarrassing as it was. Gain comfort in the fact that he beats his meat too.

Righto, sure what he said.

[Sweeney05]

There's probably not a great deal you can do. If you try talking to him about it that could possibly make it even more awkward. I know it would if he is anything like my dad. The best thing is probably just to move on and forget about it. It'll be a bit awkward between the two of you for a little bit, then things will eventually clear up.

[TWDjacob]

Just pretend like it never happened, don't bring it up, and go about life