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WeebOOF
January 6th, 2018, 07:17 PM
I just want to state if this post is in the wrong place, moderators move it! Thank you.
So i just want to know this as i am just curious, im not saying i will try this but heres my question, what age is it okay to sleep with your GF/BF, with maybe flirting, BJ, HJ, Touching but no actuall sex unless protected of course?

Some quick questions!

What age was you when you first slept with yout partner?
Did anything happen (HJ, BJ, Touching, Sex)?
What did you wear when sleeping together?
If you HAVEN'T slept with your partner (wether your Gay, Lesbian, Bi, or straight) what do you think is the right age to?


Thank you all?

WeebOOF
January 6th, 2018, 07:18 PM
My answers!

What age was you when you first slept with yout partner? I havent
Did anything happen (HJ, BJ, Touching, Sex)? ----
What did you wear when sleeping together? ----
If you HAVEN'T slept with your partner (wether your Gay, Lesbian, Bi, or straight) what do you think is the right age to? late 15 and above

Just JT
January 6th, 2018, 07:20 PM
I think the age differs for everyone. We all develope and grow and mature at different paces.
Our ability to have a close intimate relationship is part of that
And....oral sex is still penetrational sex

My answers!

What age was you when you first slept with yout partner? first partner or first time having sex?
Did anything happen (HJ, BJ, Touching, Sex)? Yes
What did you wear when sleeping together? I’ve always slept nude
If you HAVEN'T slept with your partner (wether your Gay, Lesbian, Bi, or straight) what do you think is the right age to?
That I feel depends on the maturity level of all participants
Please don't double post. Use the edit button next time. Thanks ~ Dalcourt

NewLeafsFan
January 7th, 2018, 02:49 AM
I don't think that there is an age where everything magically becomes acceptable. Everyone matures at different rates. That being said, it is important to make sure that you are not committing a crime if there is an age difference.

I also think that it would be really weird to be sharing a bed and not having sex. Are you trying to figure out if your gf is ready to have sex? Do you feel like you are behind in your relationship? If so, understand that everyone isn't ready to do the same things at the same time. It can be frustrating so you need to be patient.

Also, you should use protection for all sexual contact unless you are positive that your sexual partner does not suffer from a sexually transmitted infection. It sounded like you weren't thinking about that by the context that you used when talking about protection.

mick01
January 7th, 2018, 10:29 AM
What age was you when you first slept with yout partner? 16, currently
Did anything happen (HJ, BJ, Touching, Sex)? yes
What did you wear when sleeping together? boxers, basketball shorts or naked
If you HAVEN'T slept with your partner (wether your Gay, Lesbian, Bi, or straight) what do you think is the right age to?

Just JT
January 7th, 2018, 10:38 AM
Along the same lines that NewLeafsFan is saying, if you are questioning if you are ready or not, I’d say if you need to question that then you probably aren’t ready for it. It’s something that’s intimate personal and you can be/feel really vulnerable so needs trust

breaux
January 7th, 2018, 05:43 PM
Whenever you both feel ready.

TheMagicPotato
January 7th, 2018, 06:16 PM
Question yourself if you know about all the risks and precautions that sex haves.

Question yourself if you are informed about safe sex.

Question yourself if your partner is ready.

Question yourself if you're responsible enough for being a father, or dealing with STD or a UTI.

Question yourself if you feel ready.

Claire Asteroid
January 7th, 2018, 08:51 PM
What age was you when you first slept with your partner? 17
Did anything happen (HJ, BJ, Touching, Sex)? We both touched each other's chests under our tops
What did you wear when sleeping together? Both wore pyjamas
If you HAVEN'T slept with your partner (wether your Gay, Lesbian, Bi, or straight) what do you think is the right age to?