Dating Advice

[Djm1999]

I need some advice. There is a guy a few towns north of me that I want to get to know and possibly date in the future. I followed him on instagram, he did not follow back. I friended him on Facebook, he did not accept. I'm stuck now, what should I do? I don't want to come across as a creep and message him. He is a cheerleader so I was thinking about going to one of their home basketball games with the hopes that he may notice me there. Anyone have any suggestions?

[Zachary G]

Question, does he know you exist?

If so, you have pretty much done all you can do on your end - short of contacting him directly - but the ball is in his court, so unfortunately, you have to wait and see what happens.

If an opportunity should come up where you get a chance to talk to him, go for it, but dont seek him out because that will come across and weird. Good luck.

[ska8er]

How did u get to know of him? Maybe
he does not of u and any messages u
send him go astray cause of this. Send
him another message and introduce
urself and u could add that u will b at
one of the games he cheers for and is
it ok if u can meet him. If he doesn't
respond then I wouldn't continue with
him. Find someone else that would b
more friendly.

[jamie_n5]

I think you might have the right approach with going to a game and meeting him in person. You could go up to him at halftime or at the end of the game and introduce yourself and compliment him on his cheer leading and also on his looks. See if he takes it right. Then you could ask him if you two could get together for lunch or something.