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Harrier
December 25th, 2017, 12:06 AM
I know some people have masturbation guilt anyway. But do any of you have more guilt during religious holidays if you're religious? Did you have sex or masturbate Christmas Eve? Will you on Christmas?

I don't have much masturbation guilt. I have taught myself to have none since I know I personally couldn't go without it so why torture myself with guilt. Plus masturbation is amazing. Same with sex. I would prefer to wait till marriage but just know it's not viable. And again it's amazing.

As for Christmas/Easter holidays I have in the past tried to go a day without masturbation. Sometimes succeeding and sometimes not.

I barely had time to get a quickie in with my gf today and am VERY horny atm so will likely masturbate before bed. Christmas I doubt my gf and I will get a chance to have sex and am sure I'll masturbate. I am just too horny to give fucks about guilt atm. Too much stress and horniness to not.


Posts merged. ~devotionnel

lliam
December 25th, 2017, 12:12 AM
WTF? why should someone feel guilty anyway?

Harrier
December 25th, 2017, 12:59 AM
Religion? Parents? Blah blah blah. Everybody is different. You know a lot of people do tho I'm sure.

NewLeafsFan
December 25th, 2017, 01:19 AM
Personally, I don't see the problem with celebrating the holidays. It isn't wrong to do it on July 9th or December 25th,.

SwimmerDudeJR
December 25th, 2017, 03:19 AM
Why should I feel guilty for jacking off? I’m still gonna get a boner at some point even on Christmas Day. My body doesn’t care what day it is. I’ll get a boner and need to jack off at some point throughout the day.

Harrier
December 25th, 2017, 04:06 AM
For the record, I'm not suggesting people should try not to masturbate or are wrong if they masturbate on Christmas. Like I said I plan to and will have sex with my gf if possible. Sex is even more of a sure thing time permitting cuz it's about pleasing her and being with her romantically. But imo a person COULD go 24 hours without masturbating IF they were religious and wanted to sacrifice in honor of their religion. But not many people are very religious probably. And even if you are masturbation probably doesn't affect it. I was just curious if I was the only person who abstained in PAST holidays. Tbh the word guilt was probably the wrong word. Sacrifice is probably better.

Bluegrass
December 25th, 2017, 05:28 AM
I think god is way to cool to be mad at that and any way its his birthday.

lliam
December 25th, 2017, 06:31 AM
Religion? Parents? Blah blah blah. Everybody is different. You know a lot of people do tho I'm sure.


I know a lot ... but not if they feel guilty. Never spoke with friends about masturbating, cause it's imo a private thing that just belongs to each of'em. Nothing of my concern ... unless one of'em wants to talk about it. But that never happened so far. So I can hardly imagine, why someone should feel guilty about a good wank now and then, even on Cheesuz Chriest's B-day, if it's his right b-day anyway. ^^


Personally, I once started wanking, found it enjoyable or such. And that's it.


If someone really feels guilty, I would recommend him/her get rid of that useless feeling. Enjoy your life and yadda yadda yadda

LITTLEANGEL19
December 25th, 2017, 06:37 AM
I have been brought up a catholic and have been to mass today with Mum, Aunts, Cousin and my Nan as we always have done.
I do not feel guilty about masturbating today or any day. I have done it this morning :yes:
HAPPY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE
XXXX

Fiona2
December 25th, 2017, 08:47 AM
I don't think there is any reason to feel guilty.

Hermes
December 25th, 2017, 10:57 AM
I am not really religious and I have not abstained for any kind of religious day including Christmas.

I think the whole thing about keeping a day special for religious reasons comes from the Jewish observance of the Sabbath which carried over into Christianity. But that has a practical value - people take a break from working, studying etc. to avoid becoming exhausted, to allow time for reflection and to spend time with family reinforcing social connections. In other words it is about time to rejuvenate.

Given how good having an orgasm is trying to abstain from that is likely to have the opposite effect and leave you edgy and less likely to enjoy the time with family etc. so I say indulge and give yourself an extra present.

Zachary G
December 25th, 2017, 12:14 PM
I know what youre saying, I try not to have sex or jerk off on the holy days, but its pretty hard not to sometimes. So I just gotta do what I gotta do and I don't feel that much guilt about it, but there is a little.

tsman
December 25th, 2017, 01:01 PM
I understand too...I wouldn't worry too much about it. It's totally normal anyday

SeansLittleBro
December 25th, 2017, 02:51 PM
If you don't feel guilt during the rest of the year, why feel guilt during the holidays. .. personally I already did today and plan on it at least one more time with my bf...i know this has been said b4 but if the creator didn't want us to maturbate on a holiday he wouldn't have wanted it during the rest of the year and he/she made it pleasurablefor all of us so enjoy it and revel in it....

Brigje
December 25th, 2017, 07:35 PM
I think god is way to cool to be mad at that and any way its his birthday.

I don't think there is any reason to feel guilty.

I am sure God is happy when he could see me being happy.

ImJulia
December 25th, 2017, 11:17 PM
I did it today

tsman
December 25th, 2017, 11:23 PM
I did it today

Same, maybe even more than once lol

mattsmith48
December 26th, 2017, 12:23 AM
Christmas isn't really a religious holiday anymore, religion is leaving this holiday almost as quick as it over took it. Even if it is still a religious holiday for some people Jesus won't be more pissed at you for masturbating or having sex on his ''birthday'' than on any other day.

Lost in the Echo
December 26th, 2017, 12:38 AM
I suppose it depends on your beliefs. Just don’t be too hard on yourself ( no pun intended)

Everyone gets the urge to diddle their fun parts so don’t worry about it. 99% of people fuck around with themselves ( regardless of how much pussy/dick/whatever makes you tingly they get)
It’s a natural human feeling function, no matter the day.

jasondrums
December 26th, 2017, 12:44 AM
Did it. Felt zero guilt about it. It's not like I did it at midnight mass or something.

EvaNL
December 26th, 2017, 01:34 AM
I'm not a religious person, so no guilt whatsoever here :)

TessTheGreat
December 26th, 2017, 02:57 AM
I was too busy on Christmas morning and so couldn't do it because of other things but not because I would have felt guilty. But I did it at bedtime instead.

Just_Michael
December 26th, 2017, 03:34 AM
No I do not tbh xD

Vegas2933
December 26th, 2017, 04:21 AM
I don't do it on Christmas Day. It has nothing to do with religion or beliefs but it just doesn't feel right.

ChloeF
December 26th, 2017, 06:34 AM
Guilt and masturbation are mutually exclusive regardless of the day, religious or otherwise.

ChillaxBoy17
December 26th, 2017, 08:35 AM
Nah I do it whenever. No need to feel guilty about doing at certain times it's natural. I did it yesterday :P

ImJulia
December 26th, 2017, 11:20 AM
Same, maybe even more than once lol

Haha you are not alone in that

zzzzzzzzzz
December 26th, 2017, 11:36 AM
I still had my twice a day. What a good way to start xmas morning!

tsman
December 26th, 2017, 11:50 AM
Haha you are not alone in that

I still had my twice a day. What a good way to start xmas morning!

I'm glad I am not alone in that...sometimes once just isn't enough!

mick01
December 26th, 2017, 10:13 PM
I have never felt any connection between what kind of day it is and whether to masturbate or not. When the urge hits, it's pretty much go time.

jonsnowman
December 26th, 2017, 10:30 PM
yeah, i get guilty but i still do it

Beccabear
December 26th, 2017, 10:52 PM
Don’t masturbate on baby Jesus’s birthday....just kidding, I only didn’t because I wasn’t home, lol

jonsnowman
December 26th, 2017, 10:53 PM
Don’t masturbate on baby Jesus’s birthday....just kidding, I only didn’t because I wasn’t home, lol

lol, i wasn't home and i still did it

TheMagicPotato
December 26th, 2017, 11:29 PM
It's God's fault for making hormones in puberty so strong.

hayley2003
December 27th, 2017, 01:18 AM
i thought the title was "masturbatution quilt"....lol

Harrier
December 27th, 2017, 01:34 AM
i thought the title was "masturbatution quilt"....lol

Haha. So, do you have a masturbation quilt? Lol

Nnoki
December 27th, 2017, 03:03 AM
Did it and the one on the 25th actually felt pretty good, i won't say why ;)

DanielleIU
December 27th, 2017, 10:30 AM
Absolutely no guilt. And sometimes I crave it even more because I'm physically separated from my bf.

redheadm
December 31st, 2017, 10:34 PM
no guilt, feels good on the holidays

Leena_2003
January 1st, 2018, 12:12 AM
Haha. So, do you have a masturbation quilt? Lol

Hahaha, I also want to know the answer :-D

Leena_2003
January 1st, 2018, 12:18 AM
I'm not a religious person, so no guilt whatsoever here :)

Same here. I don't understand why some religious people think masturbation is a sin. It's part of life and our lives, and to me it's a natural thing to do, especially for teens who are not having sex yet. Any day is a good as another in my book, whether it's a holiday, school day, special day, religious day, whatever. Sure, there are moments on any day when it's not appropriate, for example during the family dinner, during a funeral, or during a religious ceremony, etc, but that's obvious.

crushinator
January 1st, 2018, 10:53 AM
No it's just another day.

calds77
January 1st, 2018, 03:53 PM
i don’t feel guilty. i don’t think it should be a big deal. enjoy yourself

Shiny Moon
January 1st, 2018, 04:20 PM
I get your point, but I would never feel guilty for something related to sex or masturbation.

Wolfie420
January 2nd, 2018, 12:40 PM
I never felt guilty about it

heymynameis
January 2nd, 2018, 03:59 PM
why feel guilty? doesn't matter what day it is, you can masturbate all you want

Henry333
January 3rd, 2018, 12:30 PM
I'm not religious so I'm not bothered

Cassius16
January 3rd, 2018, 01:13 PM
I didn’t have any guilt

azurzg
January 3rd, 2018, 01:42 PM
I know some people have masturbation guilt anyway. But do any of you have more guilt during religious holidays if you're religious?

Guilt about wanking?!? Absolutely not!

sammyboy
January 9th, 2018, 02:07 PM
No guilt about it! I do it most days.

HardCandyGirl
January 25th, 2018, 09:41 PM
Same here. I don't understand why some religious people think masturbation is a sin. It's part of life and our lives, and to me it's a natural thing to do, especially for teens who are not having sex yet. Any day is a good as another in my book, whether it's a holiday, school day, special day, religious day, whatever. Sure, there are moments on any day when it's not appropriate, for example during the family dinner, during a funeral, or during a religious ceremony, etc, but that's obvious.

You'right, now I get it, but it happened to me for a while, to feel bad about it.

KevinT
January 27th, 2018, 04:31 PM
Yeah, no guilt whatsoever. Plus, it helps sleep ;)

Andres_s
February 8th, 2018, 11:45 AM
i learned to not feel guilt anytime i masturbated, Masturbation is good for you and you should never feel guilt. i've masturbated on easter holidays and xmas before, and i end up feeling like any other day (i do celebrate those holidays btw)