is this wrong??

[Isabrooo]

So, I already know i’m straight and i have a girlfriend and all. i’ve even gone on to have sexual relations with girls. but i’m really interested in experimenting with a guy and i have this friend who is really open about doing it. is it wrong?

[SethfromMI]

If you have a girlfriend I always am a firm believer of staying committed and faithful to them and not engaging in those activities with others. Unless it is an open relationship, which honestly, I don't recommend those.

[NewLeafsFan]

You want to and he wants to. I don't see that as wrong. The only way that it is wrong in my opinion is if your gf considers it cheating.

[ska8er]

I don't c a little experimenting is
wrong as long as u don't have some
guilty feelings. If u consider it wrong
then don't go there.

[user-999]

No, your just being curios, there is nothing to be ashamed about, besides, experimenting doesn't change your sexuality, if you were attracted to him you would be gay or bi.

[SeansLittleBro]

Not sure of your age, but experimenting is something most boys do in their teens....the one concern that was mentioned is that you do have a gf and you have to consider how that would affect the two of you...although it is technically cheating it is also something that you have a curiosity about that needs to be met...don't feel guilty and don't feel that you are doing anything wrong if it is something you both want to try

[mick01]

I agree that it could be cheating but I think you need to experiment if you have that urge. We need to discover who we are at this age so if you have an opportunity to experiment I'd go for it. But if you like it enough to want to do it regularly, then you need to think about what relationship you have with your girlfriend.

[Muddy Sneakers]

wrong, at least to me if you still have a relationship with a girl. How would you feel if she was seeing another guy? but if you aren't still in a relationship, and you want to experiment with another guy, that's up to you. assuming the usual that he's not inappropriately young etc.

[jamie_n5]

That is a tough one. You are really on a narrow wall with this. I don't believe experimenting is wrong but if you are in a committed relationship it gets a bit iffy on whether you are cheating or not. I will leave it up to you and let your heart to guide you to do the right thing. It is not right for any of us to give you permission to do something that is this touchy.

[ChillaxBoy17]

There is absolutely nothing wrong with experimenting with another boy, it's fine. But if you are in a relationship then yes it's wrong as you would be being unfaithful. But if you ever find yourself single then yeah it's fine to experiment bro. Hope this helped.

[Zachary G]

I agree with what everyone is saying about nothing wrong with experimenting, thats how we find out what we like and what we dont. Also like everyone else, if you are in a committed relationship it could be considered cheating and could mess up your relationship. Its a tricky situation, so you have to follow your heart as to what to do. Good luck

[teenboyNathan]

To answer your question on if it is wrong, it's not. Most boys end up being curious and that is a normal part of puberty. But if you were to experiment, don't take it too far. I think comparing and even jerking together is fine but that is pretty much it. I wouldn't do any more than that because that could be considered cheating on your gf

[INACTIVEchaosphere]

So, I already know i’m straight and i have a girlfriend and all. i’ve even gone on to have sexual relations with girls. but i’m really interested in experimenting with a guy and i have this friend who is really open about doing it. is it wrong?
Your girlfriend should know about it. As long as it isn't a romantic form of experimentation, it's purely for experimentation and learning about yourself and relating to others, you should consider it. But you should ask your current emotional and sexual partner.

[Second Chance]

So, I already know i’m straight and i have a girlfriend and all. i’ve even gone on to have sexual relations with girls. but i’m really interested in experimenting with a guy and i have this friend who is really open about doing it. is it wrong?

I agree with the poster somewhere above who said it is not right to experiment with someone since you are in a relationship. If your relationship is an open one, then experimenting is fair game; if your relationship is closed, then you cannot experiment with someone else without it being cheating.

Assuming you're sexual with your girlfriend right now you have to figure out if she is going to be all right having sex with you knowing that you are doing so with other people. If she is not all right with having sex with you while you're having sexual relations with others, then you have to wait until you're single again to experiment.

Basically, if your relationship is closed, then you have to get your partner's permission to experiment. If experimenting is what you truly want to do and your partner is not all right with that, then you have to think about whether or not you want to stay in a relationship.

[TWDjacob]

I don't see a problem with being curious and such but if you have a current girlfriend and you want to do something more than just a quick look or jerking off together then it's not right because it's like cheating on her even if it's not being labeled as a relationship but just curious