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Funfun95
December 22nd, 2017, 12:56 AM
Straight guys, would you say something to another straight guy if he was making homophobic comments/bullying?
Danieldv77
December 22nd, 2017, 01:21 AM
If he were directly bullying someone for being a homosexual, I would definitely berate him for being a belligerent prick. Never really been a fan of bullying in general.
Max the Disenchanter
December 22nd, 2017, 01:25 AM
probably not... depends on the context and how and who it's directed to
NewLeafsFan
December 22nd, 2017, 02:40 AM
Everybody should stand up against discrimination regardless of their sexual orientation. It's the bi-standards that can end bullying. Unfortunately, most people (myself included) are often guilty of not getting involved.
Mat1103
December 22nd, 2017, 05:26 AM
Yeah definitely
EatMyFace
December 22nd, 2017, 05:45 AM
I mean if thy were being srs/genuinely offensive then yeah. Go fuck them up
Harrier
December 22nd, 2017, 06:05 AM
Bullying? Yes of course! Debating? No. That's free speech.
ska8er
December 22nd, 2017, 06:14 AM
Yeah if it is hurting someone.
Hockeystar2020
December 22nd, 2017, 06:59 PM
Probably not unless I was freinds with that person
Chillbro3
January 12th, 2018, 06:03 PM
Yeah, probably
rohancool
January 12th, 2018, 07:52 PM
If he is a good friend or someone I know then probably. Otherwise he would not care or understand anyway.
Martainfey96
January 12th, 2018, 09:04 PM
I would beat his ass, I have gay friends and find it very offensive for someone to bully about it in this day and age. Now freedom of speech is different and if he was just saying his opinion that's different.
srfrboy
January 12th, 2018, 11:56 PM
If they were directing their hate at someone specifically I would tell him to stop.
mick01
January 14th, 2018, 10:57 AM
I'm not straight but if I saw a guy bullying someone under any circumstances, I'd get involved.
Sweeney05
January 16th, 2018, 01:55 AM
Yeah, I would definitely say something.
Anthony17
January 16th, 2018, 02:11 AM
If it's bullying, then yes.
Fourth
January 16th, 2018, 02:32 AM
I would say something, criticizing others for their life choices is not and never will be acceptable, especially if it has something to do with someone's identity.
Sevro au Barca
January 16th, 2018, 02:48 AM
Absolutely. Growing up in the southeaster United States, I’ve encountered homophobia my entire life. Occasionally, it’s potentially dangerous or at least heavily frowned-upon to speak positively of anything outside of the traditional views of sex and gender. However, in my experience, at least with people my age, even in the heart of the South, it’s reasonably safe to speak out against homophobia, and I take every opportunity to do so, especially when I feel I may have a potential ally. At least with teenagers I’ve encountered, homophobia seems to be more rooted in ignorance and sense of “otherness” than any true hatred. I’ve had several respectful conversations on the topic with what seemed to be the stereotypical Southern redneck kids, and while I’m not sure I’ve ever changed any minds, I may have been the first person to show them that homosexuality isn’t neccessarily an evil thing, and I feel that that’s almost as important.
TheDudeJ
January 16th, 2018, 08:21 AM
Yeah I'd tell him you shouldn't do it!
adlop
January 16th, 2018, 08:12 PM
Yes, definitely.
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