Age problems

[Alexm1999]

So yea im a new member btw so be gentle if i do it wrong. Anyway so i just turned 18, and im the oldest in my circle, most of my grade for that matter, and this pretty awssome girl has been flirtimg with me for a couple of weeks, only problem is shes 16 and in grade 11, me being in grade 12. What should i do?

[Fritz]

So yea im a new member btw so be gentle if i do it wrong. Anyway so i just turned 18, and im the oldest in my circle, most of my grade for that matter, and this pretty awssome girl has been flirtimg with me for a couple of weeks, only problem is shes 16 and in grade 11, me being in grade 12. What should i do?

Well really the age of consent is different in each state.

[Alexm1999]

Well really the age of consent is different in each state.

Canadian lol, so it is 16, its more the question of is it to much of a gap morally

[Fritz]

Canadian lol, so it is 16, its more the question of is it to much of a gap morally

Lol sorry bout that mate, used to the US system. I wouldnt think so, i see it sometimes in the US and no one really cares, only a two year difference

[Danieldv77]

I'm going to say this just because it's a bit important;
Although your age is just fine, and it really shouldn't be a problem, once you get out of High School you might see those who are still in it to be too immature to have a relationship with. Some have maintained healthy relationships outside of High School, but I can definitely say there is a difference. Whether you can deal with that or not is really what you should be asking yourself, as it really can get complicated.

[Alexm1999]

I'm going to say this just because it's a bit important;
Although your age is just fine, and it really shouldn't be a problem, once you get out of High School you might see those who are still in it to be too immature to have a relationship with. Some have maintained healthy relationships outside of High School, but I can definitely say there is a difference. Whether you can deal with that or not is really what you should be asking yourself, as it really can get complicated.
Yea thanks actually thats a fair point, ill deffinatly keep that in mind, thank you

[Babs]

That's barely an age gap imo. I think 14/16 would be unacceptable but 16/18 seems pretty normal to me.

[mick01]

Your both at the age of consent so that alone should make it ok. And some 16 year olds are as mature as some 18 year olds. I'd take the chance to get to know her some and see if you two could make a go of it.

[ilovevt816]

that is not exactly big problem

[NudistFun]

Canadian lol, so it is 16, its more the question of is it to much of a gap morally

Depends on the girl. If she's as mature as you are then I don't see an issue

[ImJulia]

That is not a big difference

[jkc23]

I don't find it an issue at all. I'm 19 and have done stuff with younger - it's all about you both feeling comfortable

[NewLeafsFan]

There is only a year between the two of you. I don't think that it is a big deal. If you are interested in pursuing a relationship with her I don't see why you shouldn't give it a try.

[ilovevt816]

Depends on the girl. If she's as mature as you are then I don't see an issue

That is not a big difference

I agree

[Nikki_1]

I don't think that there is any problem here, you are only 2 years oder than her and if you are both happy with the situation then I hope you will both be happy together. :)

[Martainfey96]

There shouldnt be an issue if the age of concent in your state/country is 16! As for a social aspect people might look at you weird for dating younger but again if you both like eachother then you learn to ignore it

[MrBoombastic]

... its more the question of is it to much of a gap morally

My thoughts exactly.

[Claire Asteroid]

I don't think it's so much of a problem. I'm 19 and one of the postgrad students has been flirting with me quite a lot before Christmas. He's 22 and we've been out for drinks and dancing a couple of times. I don't think the age gap is so much.

[lliam]

of a gap morally

what's morally about a gap of 2 years ?

Even if she's not of legal age yet, she is no longer a kid. She should know what she wants. And if she wants you ... and you her ... what moral concerns can there be if the law doesn't get in your way?

[Caycedilla]

I don’t think a two year age difference at your age is anything to be worried about. That’s not very much. I know seniors at my school that date freshmen, and others who date people in college.

I’m confused as to why some people automatically jumped to the topic of legal ages of consent here. That was never mentioned to begin with :lol:

[ska8er]

So yea im a new member btw so be gentle if i do it wrong. Anyway so i just turned 18, and im the oldest in my circle, most of my grade for that matter, and this pretty awssome girl has been flirtimg with me for a couple of weeks, only problem is shes 16 and in grade 11, me being in grade 12. What should i do?

Flirt back-She likes u- Do it or u will lose her.
Welcome- U wont do wrong. ;)

[WeebOOF]

If you like her back then a relationship could form, but if your not interested then try to make that clear without directly telling her, i find that a good way to let a girl who likes me know im not interested

[tsman]

2 years is not much of an age gap as well...if she's someone you want to date, go for it!

[SeansLittleBro]

a senior dating a junior is actually pretty normal...don't see anything wrong with it at all....if you like her date her....