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bluelove93
December 20th, 2017, 11:52 AM
I’m a girl and keep having sexual dreams about my friend who is a girl to.what does this suppose to mean.why do I have these dreams. I do like her and would like more out of our friendship but she’s straight and I don’t know what I am so confusing
Zachary G
December 20th, 2017, 02:12 PM
dreams are a way for our subconscious mind to manifest the thoughts that we normally wouldn't have consciously. (hahaha, I sound all scientific, hahaha)
ska8er
December 20th, 2017, 04:40 PM
I agree with Zach above. U probably in
ur subconscious mind have these dreams.
U want something more but they only
materialize while u sleep.
jamie_n5
December 20th, 2017, 09:27 PM
Dreams are manufactured out of bits and pieces our subconscious brain puts together and can come from all kinds of thoughts. You don't say how old you are but all this could be out of wanting to experiment and is all part of puberty. Of course if you are sure that you are a lesbian and are looking for more then it would be more of a physical and mental attraction to her. Then you would have to deal with it best way you know how to.
bluelove93
December 21st, 2017, 10:38 AM
I have thoughts about her even when I’m awake and want to but I don’t .
ImJulia
December 21st, 2017, 07:30 PM
Because you are going through puberty and you hormones are crazy.
bluelove93
December 21st, 2017, 10:02 PM
I am 24 and think iv grown out of puberty by now
Nikki_1
December 22nd, 2017, 02:53 PM
I know this might sound hard but I think you have to talk to her about it and get how she feels. Although you are assuming she is straight she may be having the same thoughts about you. If she is a good friend she will not let anything drive a wedge between your friendship and at least you can relax and carry on your friendship with her.
bluelove93
December 22nd, 2017, 08:14 PM
I have talked about it with her and she won’t open up to or talk about anything like this
Andyyy95
December 22nd, 2017, 08:34 PM
I have talked about it with her and she won’t open up to or talk about anything like this
Maybe she is in denial herself about how she feels towards you? Only time will tell I suppose.
NewLeafsFan
December 24th, 2017, 04:41 AM
Since your friend is unable to reciprocate those feelings you need to force yourself to move on. I know that it's hard. Maybe if you tried asking someone else out or tried to put yourself in romantic situations with others. Good luck!
crushinator
January 6th, 2018, 06:38 PM
Sounds like you answered your own question.
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