How do I get over her?

[Perc.man_1]

Hey, so long story short, my first relationship lasted five months, we broke up, and we stopped talking. A few months later we started talking, I shut her out because she was acting weird, and we talked a few more months later, and I shut her out again because I thought she was a bad influence. Now, she is all I think about. The last time we talked was four months ago! She has a new bf, and I’m really jealous. I can’t talk to her because my friends will question it and laugh, but I don’t know what to do! What do I need to do to get over her? Should I talk to her and apologize? Please help!!!

[Just JT]

You are thinking with the wrong head
Sorry to sound so horrible but just how I see it
You said all those reasons why to block her, and good reasons cause of personality or values conflicts maybe or whatever.
But now the little head it trying to tell the big head what to do
And that usually don’t end well

[Danieldv77]

This is going to sound horrible, but bear with me here;
Ignore your thoughts about her. Ignore anything you have in common with her. Ignore the flashbacks, the emotions, everything related to her, and move on. Morality or influence really has nothing to do with it, you're just stuck on a person and need to let it go.
Trust me, from personal experience, apologies (Even after a relatively tame breakup) do nothing and serve only to be awkward to both parties, especially if she's currently dating someone else.
You'll be fine, just keep your head high and keep up the search. You'll find someone else who is worth your thought.
(And yes, i'm aware this sounds like <Insert Generic Relationship Advice Here>, but it is truly all i'd advise you to do! Of course, forge your own path if you wish, but bear in mind the emotional consequences.)

[NewLeafsFan]

You are the first person on this site to handle the situation properly! Good for you! When you like someone that you can't have you need to put distance between them and yourself. You have done everything right so far so keep it up! Continue to do yourself a favour and don't call her. Nothing good can come from talking to her right now.

If you do call her you will be feeding your feelings for her. Dating her is NOT an option because she has moved on. The more you feed those feelings the more they will grow. The more they grow the harder it will be to get over her. The harder she is to get over the longer it will take. The longer it takes the longer you are fixating yourself on someone you can't have instead of meeting potential new girlfriends. Save yourself from this misery.

To help you stop thinking about her there are a few things that you can do. Try to better yourself. This is a way to meet new people as well as spend time on something you enjoy. Join a club, better your fitness, etc. And sooner than later, try to get a girls number. Going through that reminds you that there are a ton of fish in the sea.

[Bluegrass]

As time goes by you'll get over it.If you go and get yourself a new girlfriend your mind would be focus on your new girl.She got herself someone else you should do it to.

[jamie_n5]

I think that you need to forget about her and move on. You had prior reasons why you broke it off with her. Stick to thoughts and feelings for splitting up. Move on and find a new girlfriend.

[Nikki_1]

I think it's time for you to move on, there are lots of other girls in the world and I think the excitement is finding the right one.
I know that it might seem hard to forget, don't try to forget just put it down to history, you know what she is like and why you split in the first place, concentrate on that and find another girlfriend. :)