Mattboi20
December 18th, 2017, 01:21 PM
Ok this may sound stupid but fine it might be.
I need advice, i met girl in collage, first day. We talked for ages , basically telling me her life story, me telling her mine.
We live in halls and in same flat, first day she was asking me about rules of if you have someone stop over (as in friends not in the collage) she said what about people stopping in each others room saying "you know if we where going out how would they know if I was sleeping with you?"
She asked if i was single. When I asked her to go to a party with me she said "Haha you mean 'haha sure ill go with you' smiling"
Helped each other unpack....
two days past with us always with each other. She then said quite calmly in a sentence that she was gay, (it took me about 2 minutes to realize what she had said).... I asked her "did you say you where gay"... she replyed "Yer, well 80% gay, I mean if the right lad came along...." That was it... its now been 8 weeks, cant stop thinking about her, always with her, have gone out of my way so much to help her, to the extent of getting a train and tube at 10 at night to pick her up when her so called friend left her when she was ill. She now has a gf who is also my friend, but she still says every day she loves me (in a friendly way) but sometimes it seems more, hugging me all the time, sitting by me / on me lol, kissing me.... and I feel my feelings are getting stronger and its hurting me, but dunno what to say, I know she said she was gay and that she now has gf but the 80% thing she said is making me think that its not tottaly stupid and you cant help who you fall in love with. There was a situation where I told her i likes her (but didnt say to what extent) I basically said i wanted her to be happy and she cried for 30 min saying she had never had anyone who cared so much for her.
Anyway, has anyone got any idea of what i should do??
Thanks
I need advice, i met girl in collage, first day. We talked for ages , basically telling me her life story, me telling her mine.
We live in halls and in same flat, first day she was asking me about rules of if you have someone stop over (as in friends not in the collage) she said what about people stopping in each others room saying "you know if we where going out how would they know if I was sleeping with you?"
She asked if i was single. When I asked her to go to a party with me she said "Haha you mean 'haha sure ill go with you' smiling"
Helped each other unpack....
two days past with us always with each other. She then said quite calmly in a sentence that she was gay, (it took me about 2 minutes to realize what she had said).... I asked her "did you say you where gay"... she replyed "Yer, well 80% gay, I mean if the right lad came along...." That was it... its now been 8 weeks, cant stop thinking about her, always with her, have gone out of my way so much to help her, to the extent of getting a train and tube at 10 at night to pick her up when her so called friend left her when she was ill. She now has a gf who is also my friend, but she still says every day she loves me (in a friendly way) but sometimes it seems more, hugging me all the time, sitting by me / on me lol, kissing me.... and I feel my feelings are getting stronger and its hurting me, but dunno what to say, I know she said she was gay and that she now has gf but the 80% thing she said is making me think that its not tottaly stupid and you cant help who you fall in love with. There was a situation where I told her i likes her (but didnt say to what extent) I basically said i wanted her to be happy and she cried for 30 min saying she had never had anyone who cared so much for her.
Anyway, has anyone got any idea of what i should do??
Thanks