Mom walked in!

[EthanK]

My Mom justed walked in on me wanking. I am sooo fucking embarrased. What do i do?

[azurzg]

Nothing. Ignore it.

[Jonnieboy909]

my mum has caught me loads, its nothing that doesn't happen to all of us at some point

[SethfromMI]

I would ignore it and pretend it didn't happen. I guess if you really want to, you can ask that she always knock and then wait for you to tell her it is ok to come in, though I got a feeling she may start doing that on her own haha. You're not the first person that has happened to and you won't be the last. I know its embarrassing, but try not to let it bother you too much. She already knew you masturbated, she just happened to have caught you doing it. Try not to let it bother you too much.

[SwimmerDudeJR]

Don’t say anything and move on with your life. Next time lock the door.

[Fritz]

Make sure the door is locked mate, also say nothing about it. if she brings it up, she brings it up, but dont be the one to bring it up

[pauly]

It hasn't happened to me...yet. But if you don't have a lock on your door, it could happen to any of us.

As the others have said, try to forget about it and move on with your life. If it still worries you, what about talking about it with a trusted friend who might be able to reassure you?

[Falcons_11]

If she catch you red-handed, there's really nothing you can do. Now she knows that you jerk off. As long as she isn't mad at you or kicking you out the house, it's no big deal. But next time lock your door when you whacking it.

[jamie_n5]

Just ignore it and let it go. I am sure she was embarrassed too. Next time lock your door.

[Don Giovanni]

Your mom will understand it. Don't worry, don't shame, You are a boy its normal.

[Max the Disenchanter]

lock ur door or j.o. @ night

[Zachary G]

Don't bring it up if she doesn't and just go on as if it never happened. And next time lock your door or ask her to knock first

[NewLeafsFan]

I wouldn't mention it with her and I would hope she doesn't either but if she does tell her to knock

[noah.whynot]

I agree with what people are saying - don't do anything. It's likely your mom might be just as embarrassed about having walked in on you as you are at being 'caught'. Yes, you might feel awkward for a while (I can say from experience that you will). You didn't mention the circumstances, but I'd guess on the plus side that your mom will always knock on your door before coming in from now on (assuming that's where you were masturbating).

[ska8er]

As many said-Say Nothing.
Try not to act guilty also.

[Harrier]

Never happened to me before and I don't have a lock either. If you think you may get caught do it undercovers. My suggestion is to act like nothing happened. If you honestly haven't seen her yet and when you see her for the first time and it looks like she is almost laughing under her breath but not saying anything and the two of you have a good relationship then go for it and talk and laugh about it. But if you have the average relationship with your mom and it's not perfect then ya just pretend it didn't happen

[hesaidhesaid]

Pretend it didn't happen.
Oh - and lock your door.

[PaulieJ]

normal for boys to masturbate which she probably knows, so just ignore it if you can.

[baseball1]

Lock the door next time. I'm pretty sure she does it...almost everybody does.

[OldNewGuy]

Remember to lock the door

[Harrier]

STOP SAYING TO LOCK THE DAMN DOOR. lol. Some people don't have locks and are too embarrased to ask for a lock. Telling a person with no lock to lock their door is like telling a starving homeless person to eat. Easier said than done.

[EthanK]

Don’t say anything and move on with your life. Next time lock the door.

Make sure the door is locked mate, also say nothing about it. if she brings it up, she brings it up, but dont be the one to bring it up

It hasn't happened to me...yet. But if you don't have a lock on your door, it could happen to any of us.

As the others have said, try to forget about it and move on with your life. If it still worries you, what about talking about it with a trusted friend who might be able to reassure you?

If she catch you red-handed, there's really nothing you can do. Now she knows that you jerk off. As long as she isn't mad at you or kicking you out the house, it's no big deal. But next time lock your door when you whacking it.

Just ignore it and let it go. I am sure she was embarrassed too. Next time lock your door.

lock ur door or j.o. @ night

Don't bring it up if she doesn't and just go on as if it never happened. And next time lock your door or ask her to knock first

Pretend it didn't happen.
Oh - and lock your door.

Lock the door next time. I'm pretty sure she does it...almost everybody does.

Remember to lock the door
Please stop saying lock th door as i dont have a lock and it was at 12:00am in the night so she assumed i was sleeping

[SethfromMI]

STOP SAYING LOCK THE DOOR. I dont have a lock and it was at 12:00am in the night so she assumed i was sleeping

They were just trying to give friendly advice. Look, as most said, just pretend it didn't happen. Trust me, she is probably embarrassed as well. Pretend it didn't happen but if she does bring it up for some reason, it is the perfect time to ask her to politely respect your privacy.

[Harrier]

STOP SAYING LOCK THE DOOR. I dont have a lock and it was at 12:00am in the night so she assumed i was sleeping

They were just trying to give friendly advice. Look, as most said, just pretend it didn't happen. Trust me, she is probably embarrassed as well. Pretend it didn't happen but if she does bring it up for some reason, it is the perfect time to ask her to politely respect your privacy.

I also "yelled" at people to stop saying that. If you see my post above. I know they were trying to help but come on people don't you think if he had a lock that he would most likely use it??? Advice can always be appreciated but it can't be helpful if it can't be put into action. your advice about pretending it didn't happen I agree with.

[SethfromMI]

I also "yelled" at people to stop saying that. If you see my post above. I know they were trying to help but come on people don't you think if he had a lock that he would most likely use it??? Advice can always be appreciated but it can't be helpful if it can't be put into action. your advice about pretending it didn't happen I agree with.

Yes I saw yours too after the fact. For the OP I think it is helpful to give all the details possible when posting as I am sure you would agree with too.

To the OP there are certain locks, even a simple chain lock, which wouldn't be terribly expensive to buy and fairly easy to install. if you want to consider that.

[Harrier]

Yes I saw yours too after the fact. For the OP I think it is helpful to give all the details possible when posting as I am sure you would agree with too.

To the OP there are certain locks, even a simple chain lock, which wouldn't be terribly expensive to buy and fairly easy to install. if you want to consider that.

Ya. If he wants to do that, that would be good for him. For me, I think that putting up a lock would embarrass me. My parents would just wonder what am i doing in there? Masturbating, having sex, looking at porn, doing drugs, etc . All stuff i've done in there but stuff that I try to think i have been able to hide from my parents for the most part up until now.

[SethfromMI]

Ya. If he wants to do that, that would be good for him. For me, I think that putting up a lock would embarrass me. My parents would just wonder what am i doing in there? Masturbating, having sex, looking at porn, doing drugs, etc . All stuff i've done in there but stuff that I try to think i have been able to hide from my parents for the most part up until now.

I get that too. In my original post, I said he could possibly talk to her about privacy in general. She had to already knew he masturbated, it is a request most parents will often respect. Sometimes getting that stuff out in the open can be easier and even helpful. but I know it is not a conversation most teen guys want to have and quite frankly, a lot of parents probably don't want to either haha.

[Fritz]

STOP SAYING LOCK THE DOOR. I dont have a lock and it was at 12:00am in the night so she assumed i was sleeping

Geez, sorry mate, remind me not to say anything

[EthanK]

They were just trying to give friendly advice. Look, as most said, just pretend it didn't happen. Trust me, she is probably embarrassed as well. Pretend it didn't happen but if she does bring it up for some reason, it is the perfect time to ask her to politely respect your privacy.

I also "yelled" at people to stop saying that. If you see my post above. I know they were trying to help but come on people don't you think if he had a lock that he would most likely use it??? Advice can always be appreciated but it can't be helpful if it can't be put into action. your advice about pretending it didn't happen I agree with.

Geez, sorry mate, remind me not to say anything

I'm sorry i didnt mean to come across as angry or mad i just wanted the next people not to comment "shut the door"

[OldNewGuy]

Please stop saying lock th door as i dont have a lock and it was at 12:00am in the night so she assumed i was sleeping

You didn’t say that so how are we supposed to know! That is a VERY important detail!

[SethfromMI]

I'm sorry i didnt mean to come across as angry or mad i just wanted the next people not to comment "shut the door"

no worries man. Hopefully you got some good advice to decide what to do going forward. at least enough to think about it.

[scott2002]

... it was at 12:00am in the night so she assumed i was sleeping
Ethan, I bet your mom was even more embarrassed than you were, walking in on you like that. She certainly knows that boys do this, although it might have been a surprise to realize 'her little boy' was now big enough to be doing this, too.
Think about sharing with your dad what happened. I think it would be a special man-bonding for the two of you. ("Hey dad? the other night I was in my room and, you know, taking care of myself, and MOM walked in! It was so embarrassing. I tried to cover up, but she might have seen my stiff thing." (I bet he'll laugh and tell you everything if fine!)

[Hermes]

I am with the others who have been saying just to let it pass. You can't go back and change the past. Your mum may be as embarrassed as you but in both cases this will pass even without doing anything to "clear the air". As long as she didn't launch into a religious tirade you should be fine.

I also think she will be less likely to walk in unannounced in the future but if you want to do something to stop that and don't have a lock, you could adopt a convention that a completely closed door means "please respect my privacy" and one that is either open or just ajar (almost closed) means "come in if you want". I know a family who have no lock on their bathroom door and use that code.

[Anonymousteenager01]

I've been caught before . Just don't mention anything and you should be fine .

[JacobJ]

The same thing happened to me about a month ago. It’s so humiliating. Anyways my mom hasn’t ever mentioned it since. My dad talked to be about it after which was super awkward just to say that my mom felt bad and just wanted to act like it never happened. He asked about if I wanted my own room (cuz now I share with my bother) but I was like no thanks I’m not some kind of wanking addict, I just won’t do it again, and basically I kept my word.

So anyways, hopefully nobody says anything and you just keep on like nothing happened.

[Straya]

cant do anything but ride it out and hope she dosent tease you about it

[Shamal]

Just ignore it if you can, and I wouldn't bring it up unless she does.

[Logan01462]

My mom is very open sexually and has always encouraged it. Since I was 10 she told me it's very normal and if you have the urge to just do it. She said it's probably not appropriate in public but home is always a safe place. I've done it many times will sitting and watching a movie with my mother. I've also done at while she's had several friends over I think everyone is kind of used to it because I do it all the time

[Harrier]

My mom is very open sexually and has always encouraged it. Since I was 10 she told me it's very normal and if you have the urge to just do it. She said it's probably not appropriate in public but home is always a safe place. I've done it many times will sitting and watching a movie with my mother. I've also done at while she's had several friends over I think everyone is kind of used to it because I do it all the time

Every family is different. Some are more open than others. I could never masturbate in front of parents. But I have heard it happening. Doing it in front of moms friends sounds very weird. Are they watching and encouraging? I mean that could maybe called a sexual act and illegal as a minor. I know you say you're ok about it but maybe think about it and consider if they are taking advantage of you without you even knowing it.

[scott_ty04]

that sux did she say anything? did you get in trouble?

[Anonymousteenager01]

Just ignore it and let it go. I am sure she was embarrassed too. Next time lock your door.

I agree - if you don't have a lock jack off in the shower or under the cover.

[Hansolo]

Not all doors in australia has locks lol guys.... but anyways dont talk about it unless she brings it up

[Hockeystar2020]

I would ignore it and hope that she doesn’t bring it up

[Gopher]

Happened to me a few times. Its natural you move on lol. If it makes you uncomfortable id probably just pretend it didnt happen and not mention it to her

[jackshey016]

Yeah, just act like nothing happened. And lock the door.

[EthanK]

My mom is very open sexually and has always encouraged it. Since I was 10 she told me it's very normal and if you have the urge to just do it. She said it's probably not appropriate in public but home is always a safe place. I've done it many times will sitting and watching a movie with my mother. I've also done at while she's had several friends over I think everyone is kind of used to it because I do it all the time
My mom is the same... she just said "oh mate". Then she closed the door and knocked. I put sheets on and she acted like nothing happend

[Ricky.h]

My Mom justed walked in on me wanking. I am sooo fucking embarrased. What do i do?

My mom has literally seen/heard me having sex multiple times and jacking off too. Just chill it's normal

[tsman]

It's totally fine, she might not even make a big deal out of it and next time just be more careful lol

[ItsFootballnotSoccer]

Just avoid talking about it. If she acts like everything is normal, then she doesnt want to talk about it either

[wrecked]

My Mom has found me jackin a few times, She just excuses herself and walks away

[SeansLittleBro]

I go with the majority here....just let it go and relax....you're a guy and you were doing what guys do...she knows that I'm sure....uless she talks to you don't fret about it....my dad has walked in a number of times, my mom only once and that was to my older brother years ago...she knows better than to come into the room now before she is given permission...

[Martainfey96]

Way of life, just ignore it and move on.

[MrBoombastic]

Behave like nothing happened.

[TWDjacob]

Don't say anything and don't bring it up that would just make the situation more awkward

[bily.bob96]

Just ignore it and let it go

[allgrownup]

honestly? pretend like it never happened.

[justa16yearoldaussie]

pretend it didn’t happen lol