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Bhannon
December 17th, 2017, 10:00 PM
Last night I was drinking with a group of friends. I was pretty out of it. All I remember is one of my girlfriends took me into another room and pretty much forced sex. She was pretty wasted too. Does being intoxicated excuse this behavior?
ImJulia
December 17th, 2017, 10:11 PM
Have you talked to her about it?
youraveragegirl
January 28th, 2018, 02:31 AM
Talk to someone you trust about this! Sex should ALWAYS be concensual. If you didn't give her an okay, what she did was not okay. Seriously, please see a councilor or an adult you know and trust. Rape doesn't always look like we imagine it too, and it's important you talk it out with someone to figure out what really happened. You are valuable and important and you should always be comfortable with what's going on.
mattraho
January 28th, 2018, 07:30 AM
Talk to someone you trust about this! Sex should ALWAYS be concensual. If you didn't give her an okay, what she did was not okay. Seriously, please see a councilor or an adult you know and trust. Rape doesn't always look like we imagine it too, and it's important you talk it out with someone to figure out what really happened. You are valuable and important and you should always be comfortable with what's going on.

I agree completely with you

Maybe you should also talk to her about what happened
Abyssal Echo
January 28th, 2018, 10:56 AM
Last night I was drinking with a group of friends. I was pretty out of it. All I remember is one of my girlfriends took me into another room and pretty much forced sex. She was pretty wasted too. Does being intoxicated excuse this behavior?

No being intoxicated doesn't excuse that type of behavior.
Just JT
February 3rd, 2018, 06:13 PM
Pretty sure in all states just the fact that your drunk, in itself, you are not considered to be of sound mind to give consent. So therefore, she is in the wrong
If you feel you were victimized by her, seek help
Also if you didn’t have safe sex get tested
ImJulia
February 5th, 2018, 07:46 PM
As others said find someone to talk to
ceto2
August 10th, 2018, 03:36 PM
Would say the same as other people have z is to talk to someone who you trust
yeehaw
August 10th, 2018, 04:34 PM
Would say the same as other people have z is to talk to someone who you trust

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