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HighStandards
December 17th, 2017, 10:00 PM
I'm 15 y/o (I know my age says 17, must have been a mistake when signing up) and I have a crush on a 13 year old boy. I'm going to be 16 in three months. I feel awkward and disgusted having this crush. Is this okay?

PinkFloyd
December 17th, 2017, 10:09 PM
You're only looking at a two year (at most) difference. It's not a big deal at all. However, it is likely illegal because most places have the age of sexual consent at 16, 17, or 18.

NewLeafsFan
December 18th, 2017, 04:10 PM
Although morally I don't think that two or two and a half years is a big deal be careful of the laws where you live as sexual activity may be considered sexual assault. Good luck and proceed with caution.

ska8er
December 18th, 2017, 08:57 PM
I don't think there is a wide difference
in age so I don't c y u feel it disgusting
if u have a crush unless u r fighting ur
feelings. There is nothing wrong.

jkc23
December 18th, 2017, 09:13 PM
Apart from the obvious legal issues you should be careful of, I don’t see it as that much of a problem. I’m 19 now and have crushes on 16 and 17 year olds, so that’s only the same case as you, just a few years further down the line.

Just JT
December 18th, 2017, 09:24 PM
I think the age laws were made to kinda curb abuse issues between older/younger relationships.

That said, 13/15 is t that big a deal really. And if an established relationship happens before you get older, only lays claim to more genuine credibility by others.
Also, as you age, so will he, so the age difference never really changes

Just be real, don’t go crazy and overboard is all

OldNewGuy
December 18th, 2017, 09:26 PM
It migh seem kinda weird now but some of my moms friemds are more than 5 years apart in age.

Fritz
December 18th, 2017, 11:42 PM
I'm 15 y/o (I know my age says 17, must have been a mistake when signing up) and I have a crush on a 13 year old boy. I'm going to be 16 in three months. I feel awkward and disgusted having this crush. Is this okay?

Well whats your relation with him?

ImJulia
December 19th, 2017, 12:03 AM
That is not a big deal :)

Nikki_1
December 22nd, 2017, 02:10 PM
I don't think you have much of a problem as long as you stay the right side of the law where you live. I hope that it works out for you both and are very happy together.