Is this guy sick of me??

[jessp2121]

I've been talking to this guy for about a week now and we've been snapchatting for the past 4 days non stop and just talking and he's been really nice. But he takes FOREVER to open my snapchats like I'm talking 19 hours or even 22 hours!! Like when I first spoke to him he told me he was bad at replying so... But yesterday he just left both my snap chats on open and he still hasn't opened my last snapchat and it's been 16 hours.. I don't know if I've done something but I doubt it because he's been talking to me and being nice.. If he ignores me again should I say something to him about it? I don't want to come off as annoying or that I'm chasing him though..is anyone able to help me out on what I should say to him?

[SethfromMI]

I guess the only way is to ask. It is hard to say. Some people are just really bad at replying. They don't mean to sound rude, they just take a long time or don't even think about it, not trying to hurt the person by not responding. Some do use lack of a response to try to say they are not interested/don't want to talk. Sadly the only way to know is to ask.

[jessp2121]

I guess the only way is to ask. It is hard to say. Some people are just really bad at replying. They don't mean to sound rude, they just take a long time or don't even think about it, not trying to hurt the person by not responding. Some do use lack of a response to try to say they are not interested/don't want to talk. Sadly the only way to know is to ask.

Yeah I guess so I do need to ask! I just don't really know how to ask him like what do I say without sounding annoying or chasing him ahh

[SethfromMI]

Yeah I guess so I do need to ask! I just don't really know how to ask him like what do I say without sounding annoying or chasing him ahh

Well you could ask are you busy? we could always talk later. you could always ask would you like to talk again and see what he says?

or just politely ask if he doesn't want to talk to you and say you understand if he doesn't.

To be honest, that last one is probably the best way to get the answer you want. short, polite, but to the point.

[jessp2121]

Well you could ask are you busy? we could always talk later. you could always ask would you like to talk again and see what he says?

or just politely ask if he doesn't want to talk to you and say you understand if he doesn't.

To be honest, that last one is probably the best way to get the answer you want. short, polite, but to the point.

Yeah I guess the only way I'll know is to just ask and hope it goes well. Thank you!

[jamie_n5]

Maybe he has his notifications turned off. He may be just a poor responder to messages. I see nothing wrong with you talking to him about it.

[jessp2121]

Maybe he has his notifications turned off. He may be just a poor responder to messages. I see nothing wrong with you talking to him about it.


Yeah maybe he does.. Who knows. I just don't really know how to ask or what to say to him haha.

[FawksRunner]

I think you have to ask him but thats kinda hard but I think it would lessen your feeling of agony, annoyance waiting for his reply if you know the reason behind it.

[ImJulia]

Like others have said just ask him

[NewLeafsFan]

SLOW DOWN!

You are smothering him and possibly coming off as desperate. Does he ever snapchat you?

[andrea03]

probably has notifications turned off so his data plan is burned up

[tsman]

It's hard to tell...he might be trying to tell you he doesn't wanna talk or he might just be terrible at checking his snapchat. You could ask him about it