Is he gay

[boy19]

I am 18 yrs old moved to another city for higher education. I am sleeping with my 10 yrs old cousin sharing same bed. We sleep in underwear.
The thing is that many times at night I found his hand on my underwear first 2-3 times I ignored that but the thing is become common now.

Is he GAY ? Because he is only 10 yrs and he may not know what it is ?
Should I talk to him ?

[Fritz]

I am 18 yrs old moved to another city for higher education. I am sleeping with my 10 yrs old cousin sharing same bed. We sleep in underwear.
The thing is that many times at night I found his hand on my underwear first 2-3 times I ignored that but the thing is become common now.

Is he GAY ? Because he is only 10 yrs and he may not know what it is ?
Should I talk to him ?

Dude, id say that he may just be curious and may be doing it to get a reaction (or he could be doing it subconsciously while asleep). But you should be careful without that goes because of the huge age difference, be careful how that might be portrayed to someone else dude

Oh sorry, definitely talk to him alone


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[NewLeafsFan]

I highly doubt that he doesn't know what "it" is. He probably hasn't started puberty yet and is just curious. Talk to him about it.

[bastile23]

Imo u shouldnt sleep with him on the same bed its weird, but 10 is a young age to know if hes gay or not, hes probs being fond/friendly/ unconscious
Both of yall should def sleep with clothes next time.

[Falcons_11]

I highly doubt that he doesn't know what "it" is. He probably hasn't started puberty yet and is just curious. Talk to him about it.

I agree that he doesn't know what "it" is. He's probably just curious and experimenting. You really should speak to him about it especially if you are uncomfortable with it.

[SeansLittleBro]

Definitely talk to him about it...he is old enough to know about "gay" and is probably very curious since he has seen you in your underwear and can see the difference and probably wants to see more....I have an 11 year old cousin that is very curious and doesn't hide eh fact....of course I don't sleep with him and haven't had that happen, just questions...tell him that you feel uncomfortable with what is happening but that if he has any questions he is free to talk to you about anything...be the big brother he may not have....i don't think you need to stop sleeping with him since it seems that is probably not an option in your situation....just be 18 and let him be 10 for a while longer....

[jamie_n5]

I think that he is 10 years old and very curious. You might want to talk to him and ask him if he has any questions about you or about penis' or puberty related things. Tell him that it's ok for him to ask you any questions he may have.

[heymynameis]

he is probably just curious. maybe talk to him and answer any questions he may have about sexual development and puberty. maybe don't bring sexuality into it though

[ska8er]

U don't say where on ur underwear. He
could just b doing it subconsciously. If it
continues tell him he shouldn't do it cause
u don't like it but if he has any questions u
will answer them for him. I would say he is
curious tho cause a lot of younger guys do c
a lot of stuff on the web.

[Harrier]

How long have you been there sleeping in his bed? How long will you be staying there? What country? Is there another place to sleep?

If it was me, I would sleep on a couch or something. Just weird to sleep with a 10 year old imo. No way to know if he's gay. Hell he may not even know if you asked him. How often does he do it? Like 95% of time or 5% of time. If it's 95% of time then he's definitely doing it on purpose, regardless of why. If it's 5% it could just be on accident.

[Turbofan explosion]

He might just be very curious it does not always mean that someone is gay.

[kro814]

I would find another place to sleep. Big age difference to be in same bed.

[FawksRunner]

Well I don't think he is maybe he is just curious.

[House anatomy]

It is possible he doesn't even know what he is doing. Sleep is a strange process. When you sleep you cant really consciously control much. I know I move around a lot in bed and it is possible that certain patterns are repeated during sleep. Maybe he is just moving the way he always does and it is a coincidence. If not he is probably just curious or jealous. He does seem a bit young to know his sexuality.I would ask him about it. Just don't tease him or anything cause that could affect him later n.

[toby69]

I don't think he is gay. No way. He may be horny and wants to experiment .

[Jrunner]

Yeah, I don't know about how cool it is to be sleeping in the same bed as a 10yo if ur 18, maybe get another bed or find a sofa etc? Cause there's gonna be morning wood, curiosity.....

[jerrion]

I am 18 yrs old moved to another city for higher education. I am sleeping with my 10 yrs old cousin sharing same bed. We sleep in underwear.
The thing is that many times at night I found his hand on my underwear first 2-3 times I ignored that but the thing is become common now.

Is he GAY ? Because he is only 10 yrs and he may not know what it is ?
Should I talk to him ?

he could be gay but it doesnt rly matter, he is just a young curious boy that is exploring himself

[zzzzzzzzzz]

Deffo agree with above. I think he is more curious to learn than anything else

[Max the Disenchanter]

eww fuckin gross.

[jamie_n5]

eww fuckin gross.



Don't you have any room for curiosity in puberty? Haven't you been curious about other guys and girls and had curious thoughts?

Give people a break please. Curiosity is how we learn and find out about things we don't know about. You seem to be so negative in all your posts. Cheer up.

[Max the Disenchanter]

Don't you have any room for curiosity in puberty? Haven't you been curious about other guys and girls and had curious thoughts?

Give people a break please. Curiosity is how we learn and find out about things we don't know about. You seem to be so negative in all your posts. Cheer up.

not when it involves an 18 year old and a 10 year old.

[jamie_n5]

not when it involves an 18 year old and a 10 year old.

The 18 YO wants advice what to do. They haven't done anything sexual. The advice he has mostly gotten is to talk to the 10 YO and see if he can answer his questions. There is no problem with sleeping in the same bed. Some families are that way all over. A lot of families are somewhat poor and can't afford loads of bedrooms. You can tell that the OP doesn't want any sexual things to take place.

[Max the Disenchanter]

The 18 YO wants advice what to do. They haven't done anything sexual. The advice he has mostly gotten is to talk to the 10 YO and see if he can answer his questions. There is no problem with sleeping in the same bed. Some families are that way all over. A lot of families are somewhat poor and can't afford loads of bedrooms. You can tell that the OP doesn't want any sexual things to take place.

stop normalizing pedophilia. this guy is just telling us his fantasy in a form of a question. but whatever... clearly everything is normal in your world. i'm sorry you're a fucking gullible moron.

[Dalcourt]

This isn't appropriate :locked: