My brother's girlfriend

[crazyjazy02]

So my brother finally found a girl, which happens to also be my school bully. She pushes him around, and is just a bitch to everyone else, and my brother sat in the background, just feeling sorry for himself. He always looks at me during class, like to say 'help me'. His dad dies a few years ago, and I think that that's the reason he's going out with her. For security. I really don't want to be the one to step in and say 'Hold up,' but, I really need him to realize she's using him.

[mick01]

Why don't you want to step in and help?
You could also talk to his friends and see if they could influence him. Also, why don't you talk to a parent?

[ska8er]

If he found a girl for security and she
pushes him around then it is up to him
to realize this is not going to work out.
U stepping up against her in benefit of
him is great if she wasn't ur bully. I read
ur post bout three times and I do not know
completely what u really mean.

[jamie_n5]

You are rather confusing in your post. I read it as your brother is dating your class bully so she can bully him. I would talk to your parents about your brother and talk to your brother and tell him that all she is doing is using him to bully him and pushing him around.

[Just JT]

Your watching this....
And you don’t know what to do?
He’s your bro...
Not saying step between them that’ll be bad
But like others have said, why don’t you wana help?
Talk to his friends, talk to him, sounds like a bad relationship. I’d find out from him why he’s with her
And if all else fails beat her down

[crazyjazy02]

Why don't you want to step in and help?
You could also talk to his friends and see if they could influence him. Also, why don't you talk to a parent?

She's the school bully; I can't really do that without getting beaten up.

You are rather confusing in your post. I read it as your brother is dating your class bully so she can bully him. I would talk to your parents about your brother and talk to your brother and tell him that all she is doing is using him to bully him and pushing him around.

It's really difficult. She's made a good impression on my mum, so even trying to talk to her won't help. His dad died a few years back, and my dad, well, he won't help him whatsoever. I guess it's trial and error for him now. I so desperately want to help, but who will he listen to more: His sister, or his 'loving' girlfriend?

[NewLeafsFan]

It is really unfortunate that your brother is in such a bad relationship for the wrong reasons. As I've said many times before on this site, people are better off alone than in the wrong relationship.

For your brother, be the one that steps in and says something. Don't do it in front of her obviously, but have a talk with him about it. You are trying to help, not interfere and we'll hope that that is how your bro sees it.

[FawksRunner]

He is your brother and I think you should talk to him about it.

[kro814]

His father dies? Is he then you step brother?

[abc91]

hes ur bro.. sit downa nd have a talk with him about how u really feel

[dirkdiggler]

So my brother finally found a girl, which happens to also be my school bully. She pushes him around, and is just a bitch to everyone else, and my brother sat in the background, just feeling sorry for himself. He always looks at me during class, like to say 'help me'. His dad dies a few years ago, and I think that that's the reason he's going out with her. For security. I really don't want to be the one to step in and say 'Hold up,' but, I really need him to realize she's using him.

How old are you and him? And how old is she? Tell him to grow some balls and be a man! Or you can just beat that bitches ass...

[crazyjazy02]

How old are you and him? And how old is she? Tell him to grow some balls and be a man! Or you can just beat that bitches ass...
We are both 16, and shes 15. Beating her wont be an option. I spoke to my mum a while back, but she told me to just leave it, because he needs to realize what shes doing.