My friend...

[Jmm9372]

Hi, I recently found out that I'm gay... Anyone knows (I think) but the problem is: I have this hot cute friend in my class that whenever we have P.E (I don't know what you call exercise classes) I can't stop looking at his abs, or even trying to see his penis while he gets dressed.I know this will sound very strange but once I managed to see just a bit of his balls and I can't stop thinking about him and imagining myself kissing him. So, Im only 14. Please, I don't know what to do! :what: I think he's straight (almost sure). I have never dated or had any relationship. I don't know what to do!

[jamie_n5]

You are 14 and at an age where you are very curious. This is not strange to want to see other guys junk. If you are truly gay then you will know that for sure in your heart. You are born the sexuality that you are. Being curious about an other guy and finding him attractive doesn't automatically make you gay. You will know for positive some day if you are gay or not.

[mick01]

It sounds like you have a crush on him and they can suck. And since you're pretty sure he's straight, it's unlikely anything will come from it, so it would be best if you stopped thinking about him in that way. And it's ok to peek occasionally but you're getting close to crossing a line. It's not fair to him to be giving him so much unwelcome attention.

[Jmm9372]

I Know him for 12 years! THAT'S THE ISSUE! He was always quite shy but he is opening up a bit. I don't know... I thing I have a huge crush in him! He is so hot!

[Jmm9372]

Thanks for the help...

[toby69]

From what you tell us nothing is apt to happen between you two as much as you appear to desire it. For the time being you will just have to desire him at a distance.

[pauly]

I agree with Jamie. You're too young to start giving yourself labels. Most of us pass through various stages in our teens. But it's far too early for you to start worrying or stating what you believe you are.

Relax, enjoy life and see how you feel as time passes.

[Turbofan explosion]

At your age range, it is normal to be curious about other guys. This is however not considered gay.

[zzzzzzzzzz]

I Know him for 12 years! THAT'S THE ISSUE! He was always quite shy but he is opening up a bit. I don't know... I thing I have a huge crush in him! He is so hot!

I know those feelings. I've had boners after swimming lessons seeing a couple of hot boys naked. You've known him for a while, so you may know what his reaction would be if you told him. He may be understanding. If you are worried that it will ruin your friendship, you may have to not tell him. Good luck

[thomas2003]

am 14 and do the same with my best friend....just try and keep it down low till ur ready 2 tell him

[NewLeafsFan]

This is not strange. This is just a normal situation that almost never gets talked about.

Teenagers looking at each other in the locker room is not an uncommon thing. The problem is for you that you could get caught staring or you could get an erection yourself while staring and it could get really awkward.

The truth is, you have a lot going on emotionally. You are just in the process of coming out to everyone. You aren't even sure who knows and who doesn't. And now to make things harder on you (no pun intended) you like someone that probably is incapable of liking you back in the same way.

Just move forward slowly with everything. If you need someone to talk to there are always lots of ppl willing to support you from this site.

[jerrion]

I Know him for 12 years! THAT'S THE ISSUE! He was always quite shy but he is opening up a bit. I don't know... I thing I have a huge crush in him! He is so hot!

if you know him that well then you might as well try to just ask him to date or experiment , it might end up in much pain tho if you lose your friend in the end , but it can also be a start for something great , its up to you...