Males - Have You Ever Been Hit Upon?

[toby69]

Boys in puberty can be targets for a stranger, friend, relative, etc., who want to engage you in sexual action. Has this happened to you?

When I was an innocent 12 and in a hotel male steam room naked like the others, a man about 20 put his hand on my thigh. I fled out of there very fast.

[Harrier]

Boys in puberty can be targets for a stranger, friend, relative, etc., who want to engage you in sexual action. Has this happened to you?

When I was an innocent 12 and in a hotel male steam room naked like the others, a man about 20 put his hand on my thigh. I fled out of there very fast.

Ewww. I thought at first you were gonna say from girls. Or possibly from boys. But from men? Sick! I have noticed men taking very long, awkward peeks at my dick at urinals. That always makes me feel sick and violated. Showering at the gym i occaionally notice men peeking. But thats almost to be expected. Even if it is a man peeking at a boy. It's just a quick peek and we're all naked so i dont expect privacy. Btw i have never heard of male hotel steam rooms. My Y has them tho. My other gym does too but its coed and so you can't be naked.

[Max the Disenchanter]

Gross. I hope that never happens to me. I have noticed guys my age staring at me for an unusual amount of time. I just assume that they're gay or whatever.

[toby69]

Max02 since you are in New York City I'll mention that that is where I was hit upon in the steam room. Hotel at about 45th St & Lexington Ave.

[Zachary G]

Yeah, its happened to me at different times and I think its kind of flattering to think that someone thinks I am that attractive, but no.

[jamie_n5]

Not in the sense of an older guy has hit on me or anything. I am gay and the only girl I have had sex with asked me to have sex with her. I was 14 and she was 17. She said that I was so cute. She also had seen me naked from skinny dipping and I had seen her.

[heymynameis]

That is disgusting and awful. wrong, wrong, wrong. next time, report it immediately, a man could get charged for assault.

[toby69]

I think there was only one other time someone tried to hit on me. (Of course there are times you wish someone would hit on you. LOL), At about 10:00 p.m. I was waiting for a bus near Grand Central Station in New York City. An elegantly dressed man, about 35, appeared and struck up a conversation. Would I like to go up to his apartment for a drink? No way.

[Tim the Enchanter]

I think there was only one other time someone tried to hit on me. (Of course there are times you wish someone would hit on you. LOL), At about 10:00 p.m. I was waiting for a bus near Grand Central Station in New York City. An elegantly dressed man, about 35, appeared and struck up a conversation. Would I like to go up to his apartment for a drink? No way.

Wow, a bunch of creepy guys like to hit on you. I'm glad nothing has happened like that to me. Maybe I sometimes notice a guy looks at me for a long time, and Its weird, but I haven't been touched and hopefully never will.

[scott2002]

Once, I think I was almost hit on. First I should say that when I gotta pee in public places I always use the urinals. I'm not a kid who has to go privately in the stalls. Three times in my life I've sensed a guy (adult) at the urinal next to me was definitely staring at my junk while I was pissing. One of those times, I think I was 13, it was just me and this guy in the men's room and without looking at him I quietly said, "Why are you looking at my dick?" He then said to me, "ARE YOU HERE ALONE?" (It was at the mall. I was 13. Did I DRIVE myself there??) I said, "I'm with my dad." He then put his dick away, said nothing more to me, and left. He didn't even wash his hands.

I've wondered, if I said to him that I was alone, what would he have possibly done?

[scott2002]

When I was an innocent 12 and in a hotel male steam room naked like the others, a man about 20 put his hand on my thigh.
I have to ask. At age 12, how was it that you were naked in a hotel steam room without an adult, like your dad, accompanying you in there??

I know I've read in some cities there are places where young underage boys I guess are known to the pedo community to hang out looking to be picked up by men looking for sex with boys. If you were 12 and went into a steam room naked and alone, that guy might have thought you were a young hustler looking to get picked up.

[SethfromMI]

not by a creepy older guy but I been hit on, by both guys and girls. mostly more around my age. some lead to sexual encounters (both girls and guys). I had a woman in her 30's who probably would have liked to do something a lot more with me, being in a relationship at the time I naturally declined.

Like some others mentioned, I have had guys who were older look at me at the gym and stuff, but I don't know if that is really the same as being hit on.

[SeansLittleBro]

I am curious as was Scott what you were doing alone in a hotel steam room. But that aside, yes I have been the hittee as well as the hitter at times.....most of those that have hit on me have been close in age not older, though....tbh don't think that i would like that but you never know until it happens.

[toby69]

In answer to your questions, this was our only visit to this swimming pool and steam room. Perhaps my Mom was naïve (father not living). It probably didn't occur to her that I would take my swimsuit off upon entering the steam room. I did because those in there were all naked.

Wait till you hear this: Recently a molester was chased out of a movie theatre here where he had put his hand on a young boy who was sitting with his father!

[toby69]

Once, I think I was almost hit on. First I should say that when I gotta pee in public places I always use the urinals. I'm not a kid who has to go privately in the stalls. Three times in my life I've sensed a guy (adult) at the urinal next to me was definitely staring at my junk while I was pissing. One of those times, I think I was 13, it was just me and this guy in the men's room and without looking at him I quietly said, "Why are you looking at my dick?" He then said to me, "ARE YOU HERE ALONE?" (It was at the mall. I was 13. Did I DRIVE myself there??) I said, "I'm with my dad." He then put his dick away, said nothing more to me, and left. He didn't even wash his hands.

I've wondered, if I said to him that I was alone, what would he have possibly done?

I feel certain he would have continued to pursue you. Maybe offer you money to go into one of the stalls. Good for you that you challenged his peeking at your privates!

[lolshanedawson]

Not really, but there are always creeps in like urinals. Once some 30 or so year old man was clearly looking at my dick and he said "Nice, kid." and then left.

[Harrier]

Once, I think I was almost hit on. First I should say that when I gotta pee in public places I always use the urinals. I'm not a kid who has to go privately in the stalls. Three times in my life I've sensed a guy (adult) at the urinal next to me was definitely staring at my junk while I was pissing. One of those times, I think I was 13, it was just me and this guy in the men's room and without looking at him I quietly said, "Why are you looking at my dick?" He then said to me, "ARE YOU HERE ALONE?" (It was at the mall. I was 13. Did I DRIVE myself there??) I said, "I'm with my dad." He then put his dick away, said nothing more to me, and left. He didn't even wash his hands.

I've wondered, if I said to him that I was alone, what would he have possibly done?

Not really, but there are always creeps in like urinals. Once some 30 or so year old man was clearly looking at my dick and he said "Nice, kid." and then left.

Urinals are absolutely the worst! I might be different than some but would rather have a man comment on my dick in the shower than peek at it in the urinal. You just should NOT peek in urinals imo. That includes boys looking at boys out of curiosity to compare. When in showers you shouldn't have the right to expect privacy but you should in urinals. Obviously a man should NEVER touch a boy (or girl) anytime.

Also now that I think od it when I started going to clothing optional hot springs a man was likely trying to flirt with me. But it wasn't bad. Like it wasn't touching. Or asking me out. That's what I thought this post was asking. Real hitting on.

[toby69]

Harrier, I was asking a general question as to whether a male here had had someone come on to him in a sexual way. The event could range from a man touching a boy in a movie theatre (very bad), to two boys in a sleepover. One boy suggests that they jerk off together. (Very common. In my opinion this perfectly okay). Members you agree?

[Harrier]

Harrier, I was asking a general question as to whether a male here had had someone come on to him in a sexual way. The event could range from a man touching a boy in a movie theatre (very bad), to two boys in a sleepover. One boy suggests that they jerk off together. (Very common. In my opinion this perfectly okay). Members you agree?

Oh ok boys too? I assume you dont mean girls? How about adult women? I've had friends moms flirt with me. I had a quick encounter with an adult woman. One local homeless boy who is gay is relentless in hitting on me. A few adult men at my gym seem to be obvious in getting as close as they possibly can to me when showering and doing weird stuff in snd out of the shower.

[urcruz]

During a field trip this guy just walked up to me and started unbottonning my shirt as a joke. then he kept looking at my crotch and we both got boners but i didnt do anything after that

[Fritz]

About a year ago when i was 12 some guy touched me when we were alone at a camping trip. I told my dad and well, he made sure the creep was beaten before calling the police

[NewLeafsFan]

No. I have never been sexually assaulted. And I have never been hit on by a guy either.

[Merk]

About a year ago when i was 12 some guy touched me when we were alone at a camping trip. I told my dad and well, he made sure the creep was beaten before calling the police

That's really good you told your dad! A lot of the time when something like that happens people keep it to themselves. Let me tell you one thing, at any age, it's completely inappropriate. But at 12? I wouldn't give a second thought to giving that guy a thorough tenderizing before anyone else even knew it.

[Kaeneus]

Yeah by a men a lot, but they all thought I was a girl.

[pjones]

Have been stared at and comments made but no inappropriate touching or groping

[Just JT]

Yup it’s happened to me. Many were sucesfull in their attempts. I don’t think it’s about puberty more about abuse imo.




Boys in puberty can be targets for a stranger, friend, relative, etc., who want to engage you in sexual action. Has this happened to you?

When I was an innocent 12 and in a hotel male steam room naked like the others, a man about 20 put his hand on my thigh. I fled out of there very fast.

Still don’t understand how you were nude in a sauna at 12 alone like that.
Just doesn’t make sense to me

Either way I’m sorry that happened. It’s actuLly much to common isn’t it?

[scott2002]

In answer to your questions, this was our only visit to this swimming pool and steam room. Perhaps my Mom was naïve (father not living). It probably didn't occur to her that I would take my swimsuit off upon entering the steam room. I did because those in there were all naked.

I never thought that I'd get an answer from you that was believable. But this one is. I'm sorry about your dad. So I can see why and how you were in that situation alone. And I gotta admit. I think if I was 12 and I was curious what the steam room was like, and I saw men when in there naked, I probably would have stripped off my trunks and gone in there naked too, just like you did.

[toby69]

In the sauna were a father and son. The kid about 10. Plus two men about 20 who were friends. One touched me. When I entered and saw them all naked I thought I should conform.

[EatMyFace]

I was in a public shower and a stranger grabbed my dick... and I just ran

[Jericho14]

Never been hit on but had stares from other guys. When i was 13 a guy who was likely in 20s was staring at me at the bus almost the whole time (Well apparently him and my family were the only ones in the bus that time Saturday afternoon. Going home from mall).

Besides that. Sometimes guys also stare at my dick at urinals. Probably because i dont have foreskin

[Jaseblader]

No not really

[TWDjacob]

Not by an older man no because you were way younger and that is really creepy. I have been hit on by guys that I know when there was only like a 3 year difference so then it wasn't creepy

[Freshavacado]

I’ve been hit upon so many time... at the urinals, a guy my age once asked how big I was (I was 12). Then at the gym shower, a 17 yo from my swimming club asked if I needed help to put soap on, I refused and he said that I have a ‘cute’ dick... and lastly class, a guy from my class put his hand under my ass as i sat down, I told him to move and he then puts his hand on my thigh and strokes under my shorts till he felt my boxers...

The sleepover thing is very common, I wouldn’t classify it as being hit upon

[CuteGuy889]

In a lonely street once a young guy put his hand up my shorts till he felt my undies and butt....Another time in a bus some perv unzipped my pants and felt my undies and thighs....

Few times guys have pulled my shirt up to see my tum..

[Falcons_11]

Only from a couple dudes around my age but never by an adult.

[breaux]

Always been relatively tall for my age, might be why I haven't had an experience like this.

[crushinator]

don't think so but maybe i just did't know what was happening lol

[Jrunner]

Yep hit on by old creepazoids all the damn time so gross.....