Does size really not matter?

[Leena_2003]

I have read many posts now about penis size, and what's average, normal, etc.

Since I have never been with a boy, I have replied to some of those posts with an "I don't think size will matter to me" kind of answer. And I still have that view.

But I am wondering if people who are sexually active can share any experiences where a penis size on either end of the scale was problematic. I mean very large or very small. E.g. very big and it was uncomfortable, or very small and not providing much pleasure. Or does it really not matter at all?

Boys, of course you can chip in as well :-)

[Ashwells9991]

im pretty sure the answer is going to change from girl to girl some like them very big others will prefer more normal ones

[NoahNoah]

I'm a bisexual boy, who's had sex with both boys and girls, and I can say with confidence that size does matter, but only when it's in the extremes.

If you have a really small penis, and I mean very small, it's just simply not going to be pleasurable for the other person involved. It's incredibly difficult, but seeing as almost everyone (on here at least) is bigger than that, you really don't need to worry.

Big however, there are actual problems. I'm 7", so I'm not massive by any means, but some of the girls I've had sex with said that it really hurt if I went too deep when having sex, but as just as I didn't go that far I would be fine. If some girls struggle with that, I have no idea how some of the people on this forum who claim to have 9" penises are even able to get it in, let alone even have sex.

So yeah, size really only matter if it's at either end of the scale, if it's in the middle, there probably aren't going to be many issues.

[SeansLittleBro]

I have a brother that is extremely large 9+ and from his point of view it is a curse rather than a blessing. Girls that he has been with are very reluctant because of the massive size (both in length and girth) and the guys have the same reaction. He says that at first look they are amazed and really think it is so hot to have such a large penis but then when/if it comes time to have sex they sort of back off.

[Max the Disenchanter]

i hope size doesnt matter lol

[ImJulia]

I do not think size would matter to me.

i hope size doesnt matter lol

I am sure you are fine :)

[EvaNL]

Size doesn't matter, unless the size is extreme, as NoahNoah says.

Which could be a problem for the boys on here, because most of them say they have extremely big penises. :lol:

[mick01]

I am bi and have been with a guy that was smaller (4") and with a guy that is bigger (7.5). And in both cases I was attracted to them before I knew how big their dick was. So if I'm into the guy, I don't care how big he is. I enjoyed being with both of them.

[Turbofan explosion]

Size really doesn't matter. Guys just want a bigger size just to feel more competitive and strong, even though it doesn't matter. In fact, I have heard on the internet that girls usually prefer sizes just in the middle (Not too big, and not too small). But there isn't really a normal size.

[EvaNL]

There's a Dutch saying: "Beter een kleine die stijgert dan een grote die weigert".
Which roughly translates to: "Better a small one that works than a big one that doesn't".

[sophielicious]

There's a Dutch saying: "Beter een kleine die stijgert dan een grote die weigert".
Which roughly translates to: "Better a small one that works than a big one that doesn't".

Haha love this, not that I have experience :))

[hesaidhesaid]

I'm a bisexual boy, who's had sex with both boys and girls, and I can say with confidence that size does matter, but only when it's in the extremes.

If you have a really small penis, and I mean very small, it's just simply not going to be pleasurable for the other person involved. It's incredibly difficult, but seeing as almost everyone (on here at least) is bigger than that, you really don't need to worry.

Big however, there are actual problems. I'm 7", so I'm not massive by any means, but some of the girls I've had sex with said that it really hurt if I went too deep when having sex, but as just as I didn't go that far I would be fine. If some girls struggle with that, I have no idea how some of the people on this forum who claim to have 9" penises are even able to get it in, let alone even have sex.

So yeah, size really only matter if it's at either end of the scale, if it's in the middle, there probably aren't going to be many issues.

This.

[Falcons_11]

i hope size doesnt matter lol

Max has a point. I'm with him as I hope that size really doesn't matter.

[BlackParadePixie]

Never been with a guy who was too small, only way too big. If it's too big, it can definitely be an issue.

[Shiny Moon]

I've been with both small and big and in some extreme cases it definitely matters.

[INACTIVEchaosphere]

i hope size doesnt matter lol
You're fine man, I'm sure haha.

I have read many posts now about penis size, and what's average, normal, etc.

Since I have never been with a boy, I have replied to some of those posts with an "I don't think size will matter to me" kind of answer. And I still have that view.

But I am wondering if people who are sexually active can share any experiences where a penis size on either end of the scale was problematic. I mean very large or very small. E.g. very big and it was uncomfortable, or very small and not providing much pleasure. Or does it really not matter at all?

Boys, of course you can chip in as well :-)

It pretty much doesn't, a girl's vagina is pretty much 4-6 inches deep usually and can stretch to accommodate most penises to some extent and most of it's nerve endings are in the shallower portion for smaller penises. It changes from girl to girl, but almost any size will be functional. It just depends on how experienced/talented a partner is and the given girl's individual anatomy.

[NewLeafsFan]

As a guy I can honestly say that most of those posts are about guys dealing with insecurities or big guys bragging or people just lying.

What others girls have told me is that as long is it isn't really small, they are ok with it. I would imagine that girth is more important because most nerves in the vagina are in the first couple of inches.

[Harrier]

Mostly not I'm told. And I believe it. But like others said, extremes can matter. And I bet more guys hurt girls by being too big than being too small.

But I must say that a tiny minority of girls do seem to have size issues. They prefer big or very big. They are called size queens. I guess some would never be with a small or even average size dude. Its superficial but it's their life and their decision.

Also this is just my opinion but I bet some girls would "prefer" a different size but know in their heart and mind that size truly is not critical.

[Fritz]

i hope size doesnt matter lol

Nah it doesnt matter mate, it doesnt lol

[InternetTeen]

I don't think it matters but it depends on the circumstances. If they're 2 inches then it would be a bit difficult to have sex with them and if they're 9 inches it would hurt. I think between 4-7 is fine.

[deepthroat_tacos]

I hope I do not sound superficial but I think it does matter for me. I like the look of large ones and love the feeling of some great girth.

[YoungHypebeast]

Yep it matters but not a lot.Every girl would prefer be with a guy that he loves and has a big penis rather than having a small one

[ThisGoodBoyX]

I have read many posts now about penis size, and what's average, normal, etc.

Since I have never been with a boy, I have replied to some of those posts with an "I don't think size will matter to me" kind of answer. And I still have that view.

But I am wondering if people who are sexually active can share any experiences where a penis size on either end of the scale was problematic. I mean very large or very small. E.g. very big and it was uncomfortable, or very small and not providing much pleasure. Or does it really not matter at all?

Boys, of course you can chip in as well :-)

Generally, vagina is a flexible organ and she can fit with any penis size. I read in an article that if two people have regular sex for some time, the vagina shape and size completely changes according to size of penis. Also I read during sex, girl can change angle of her body and legs to fit her vagina depth to large or small penis.

[thomas2003]

i dont think it matter am smallish but like i seen people have like 1 inch penises and can still have sex so i think am ok at 4 inches lol

[ThisGoodBoyX]

i dont think it matter am smallish but like i seen people have like 1 inch penises and can still have sex so i think am ok at 4 inches lol

Sure you are normal

[vtismineistay]

I have read many posts now about penis size, and what's average, normal, etc.

Since I have never been with a boy, I have replied to some of those posts with an "I don't think size will matter to me" kind of answer. And I still have that view.

But I am wondering if people who are sexually active can share any experiences where a penis size on either end of the scale was problematic. I mean very large or very small. E.g. very big and it was uncomfortable, or very small and not providing much pleasure. Or does it really not matter at all?

Boys, of course you can chip in as well :-)

In General, every pussy with any size can fit with every penis with any size. Just girls and boys need to study about sexual organs anatomy, and choose proper position for sex.

[impaulinej]

for having sex, it doesn´t really matters the size, but it´s true that bigger ones look better hahaha so it´s just indiferent if it´s functional

[TessTheGreat]

for having sex, it doesn´t really matters the size, but it´s true that bigger ones look better hahaha so it´s just indiferent if it´s functional

I've only seen my cousin who is my age. And my dad. They both look weird but I don't know if they are big or small. I guess they all look weird till you're used to them.

[EvaNL]

Yep it matters but not a lot.Every girl would prefer be with a guy that he loves and has a big penis rather than having a small one

Yeah... no.
If a girl loves a guy, penis size does NOT matter.

[lol23232323]

Is four inches enough for a girl?

[EvaNL]

Is four inches enough for a girl?

There will be girls for who it is enough. There will be girls for who it is not enough. There will be girls who do not care.

[Animal3393]

Is four inches enough for a girl?

It’s not about the size it’s about how you use it.

That’s a tired cliche I know but my GF says her last BF was bigger than me but I use mine better and it doesn’t hurt her every time so she’s much happier with mine than his.

[ncraw]

For the most part I don't think it matters, but when you get really small or really big that could be a problem, but there are many types of sex that don't require a penis to be put in a hole so I guess it doesn't matter too much.

[MissMolly]

Larger penises look better. Average penises feel better. And during sex, I will probably be feeling a penis more than I am looking at it. Having experienced exactly two penises in my lifetime, I would take the one that was 5 inches over the 9 inches long one any day of the week.

But, If I am with a guy in a situation where I am in a position to know first hand how large his penis is, then the last thing I care about is how large he is down there. My feelings for him, and his feelings for me, and the shared intimacy are all that matters. However big it is or isn't, I'll try to make it work.

[Nikki_1]

Haha love this, not that I have experience :))

I totally agree with Sophie although I haven't had sex with a boy I think that his size would not be the most important thing on my mind when i do! :)

[ilovevt816]

I think penis size is not important, all girls are able to manipulate size. they only need to learn.

[BlackParadePixie]

all girls are able to manipulate size. they only need to learn.

I'd love to know where you come up with this kinda stuff.

[ilovevt816]

I'd love to know where you come up with this kinda stuff.

I only study about it from scientific articles. You have another opinion? you don't agree with me? feel free to message me.

[BlackParadePixie]

I only study about it from scientific articles. You have another opinion? you don't agree with me? feel free to message me.
please, give an example of one of these scientific articles.

[ilovevt816]

please, give an example of one of these scientific articles.

https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/penis-size-what-women-think

https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/best-sex-positions-every-penis-size

http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/penis-size-and-the-correlation-with-sexual-satisfaction-the-science-10084250.html

https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/271647.php

I hope these articles helps you. Finally I don't know you agree or not with me?

[BlackParadePixie]

I hope these articles helps you. Finally I don't know you agree or not with me?
yeah, that's not what i'm talking about. i'm talking about your comment about girls being able to "manipulate" size.

[ilovevt816]

yeah, that's not what i'm talking about. i'm talking about your comment about girls being able to "manipulate" size.

You think you are not able? I read in article that by choosing good position during sex, girl can manipulate size. I can't say all details here, but there are positrons for better sex in both extreme (big and small) size.
My GF had sex with wide range of sizes, She also said me that.
What is your opinion?

[BlackParadePixie]

You think you are not able? I read in article that by choosing good position during sex, girl can manipulate size. I can't say all details here, but there are positrons for better sex in both extreme (big and small) size.
My GF had sex with wide range of sizes, She also said me that.
What is your opinion?
that's not manipulating anything, you're not changing anything. yes, I am aware that there are positions which are better for small and large penises...but if a guy is too big, he's too big.

[ilovevt816]

that's not manipulating anything, you're not changing anything. yes, I am aware that there are positions which are better for small and large penises...but if a guy is too big, he's too big.

The remarkable note as you said is selection of good position. Finally if boy penis is to big, and girl has pain, he must avoid to penetrate complete and don't hurt girl. It is same when boy is normal, but girl is very small.


https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/why-small-is-better-the-5-inch-advantage-for-men_us_58ff9812e4b0938fb73e95f2

[EatMyFace]

It’s doesn’t matter unless it’s very small

[andrea03]

i dont care if a boy is small as long as he makes me laugh and has a cute face

[Sean2]

i dont care if a boy is small as long as he makes me laugh and has a cute face

Yea, me too.

[DanielleIU]

Never been with a guy who was too small, only way too big. If it's too big, it can definitely be an issue.

Size is more likely to be an issue if it's too big, not too small. Totally agree.

[Leena_2003]

The remarkable note as you said is selection of good position. Finally if boy penis is to big, and girl has pain, he must avoid to penetrate complete and don't hurt girl. It is same when boy is normal, but girl is very small.


https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/why-small-is-better-the-5-inch-advantage-for-men_us_58ff9812e4b0938fb73e95f2

I think the problem is that at the beginning you said a girl can "manipulate size". To me that means a girl can do something to make a guy's penis bigger or smaller. I have no experience with this but I don't think a girl can do anything to make a guy's penis bigger or smaller.

The articles all talk about using different sex positions that work better for smaller or larger penises. That is not "manipulating size". That is "manipulating sex positions".

I agree with BlackParadePixie's replies to you. Or am I missing something?

[YoungHypebeast]

Yes nowadays it actually matters..

[skittlesh]

I think anything past 7.5 is getting scary

[NudistFun]

I have read many posts now about penis size, and what's average, normal, etc.

Since I have never been with a boy, I have replied to some of those posts with an "I don't think size will matter to me" kind of answer. And I still have that view.

But I am wondering if people who are sexually active can share any experiences where a penis size on either end of the scale was problematic. I mean very large or very small. E.g. very big and it was uncomfortable, or very small and not providing much pleasure. Or does it really not matter at all?

Boys, of course, you can chip in as well :-)

I read an article recently about how geneticists believe that human penis size has resulted as a condition of selective female choice.

In other words, men have bigger penises now because the females of our past found it to be a desirable trait.

Having said that, let me preface this with the fact that there is a range of penis size (length + girth) that will satisfy a woman.

Now, with that in mind, the bigger and thicker the penis the more nerve endings it can reach and stimulate, thus making sex more enjoyable.

As a nudist, I tend to get to see the goods beforehand but at the same time, flaccid penis size is not always a good indicator of what erect will be. At the end of the day I care more about the guy as a person than I do his penis but if I have my CHOICE of both a great guy and a bigger penis, I'll take the great guy with a big penis, but it isn't a deal breaker.

There can be too small, for sure! There can also be too large. A guy I crushed on one summer that was hanging out at a resort my family visits ended up being about 9 inches and very thick. It was fun to look at and play with but when it came to sex it was uncomfortable because he didn't limit himself.

My brother looks like he is even bigger than that guy and has told me he has run into problems with girls and has to be gentle. I hope he figures that out because that thing is HUGE!! lol

Anyway, the answer, for me at least, is bigger is better to an extent, but penis size is not a deal breaker, just like you might have a preferred hair color but the right person with a different hair color isn't going to deter you from liking them.:yeah:

[dirkdiggler]

I have read many posts now about penis size, and what's average, normal, etc.

Since I have never been with a boy, I have replied to some of those posts with an "I don't think size will matter to me" kind of answer. And I still have that view.

But I am wondering if people who are sexually active can share any experiences where a penis size on either end of the scale was problematic. I mean very large or very small. E.g. very big and it was uncomfortable, or very small and not providing much pleasure. Or does it really not matter at all?

Boys, of course you can chip in as well :-)

In my case I have been with 6 girls and 4 of them said I was a little too big and it was uncomfortable, one of them we could never get it in her hole was too tight for it to fit(might have been because she was nervous and couldnt relax too im not sure)

Size is more likely to be an issue if it's too big, not too small. Totally agree.

Yep, that was my experience with a few girls unfortunately

Never been with a guy who was too small, only way too big. If it's too big, it can definitely be an issue.

How big was it? What was your experience with a penis that was too big?

Posts merged.Please use the "Edit Button" next time. ~Dalcourt

[Stanley02]

As a guy I can honestly say that most of those posts are about guys dealing with insecurities or big guys bragging or people just lying.

What others girls have told me is that as long is it isn't really small, they are ok with it. I would imagine that girth is more important because most nerves in the vagina are in the first couple of inches.

How small is too small?

[Shiny Moon]

How small is too small?

To me something like 3 inches would be too small. But depends on every person, other girls won't take less than 5 inches for example.

[BlackParadePixie]

How big was it? What was your experience with a penis that was too big?
it doesn't matter. and all I'm gonna say is it was uncomfortable.

[NewLeafsFan]

How small is too small?

Girth idk but I've heard 4 inches hard in length before.

[varun.karma]

maybe size doesn't matter but guys who have bigger dicks are more confident when the are in bed (most guys who have big dicks) which usually make them better in bed and guys who have smaller dicks who have been told by their friends that 'its tiny' and tease them about it have a lot less confidence and usually tend to be crap in bed.

Storytelling removed. ~devotionnel

How small is too small?
to be really honest i think TOO small not small im saying TOO SMALL is like less than 4 inches because that means it limits you to only a couple of positions and you don't go deep enough. but if i had to say what SMALL was not TOO SMALL im only talking about SMALL now then id say smaller than 5 inches (BUT THATS FOR LIKE ADULTS FOR 14/15 YEAR OLDS SMALL IS PROBS LIKE LESS THAN 4.5 INCHES)

and if i had to say what is TOO big id say anything bigger than 8 inches (for my gf whos super short she said she probs wouldn't be able to handle anything bigger than 7 inches) but what is BIG not TOO BIG lol just BIG i would say is anything bigger than 7 inches (but for 14/15 year olds again big is probably just bigger than like 6 inches)

Posts merged. ~devotionnel

[Stanley02]

to be really honest i think TOO small not small im saying TOO SMALL is like less than 4 inches because that means it limits you to only a couple of positions and you don't go deep enough. but if i had to say what SMALL was not TOO SMALL im only talking about SMALL now then id say smaller than 5 inches (BUT THATS FOR LIKE ADULTS FOR 14/15 YEAR OLDS SMALL IS PROBS LIKE LESS THAN 4.5 INCHES)

I’m only 2.10 inches :confused:

[varun.karma]

I’m only 2.10 inches :confused:

Unlucky buddy you gotta make use of what you have

[Stan0120]

I don't think it should matter, but to some ppl it does. I'm 1.5" (soft), ~ 3.5" (hard). My current gf doesn't seem to mind at all, but one before that always would put me down about it. I think if you know what you're doing, 3-6" should get the job done.

[NotSky]

I'm still a virgin but size does not really matter. I'm a bit above average for my age, but I don't focus only on that. Extremely small and extremely big might not be desireable, but that's rare and average, a bit below, or a bit above are extremely common. Also, girth should be the pleasure factor instead of lenght

[Tim the Enchanter]

I'm still a virgin but size does not really matter. I'm a bit above average for my age, but I don't focus only on that. Extremely small and extremely big might not be desireable, but that's rare and average, a bit below, or a bit above are extremely common. Also, girth should be the pleasure factor instead of lenght

Well what's your age?

[NotSky]

Well what's your age?

Whoops. I'm 13. I didnt catch that.